Today a student approached me and talked about the dilemma he is facing.
Because I was afraid of writing essays since I was a child, I often put the essay last to complete, and I always Xi used to put it off and do it again, and in the end I often forgot it, and I was often named because of it.
When I asked him if he was just afraid of writing essays, or if it was the case with other assignments that he was more afraid of, he thought for a moment and said it had always been that way.
It seems that it is only because of the fear of difficulties that causes the homework to be delayed, but in fact, the root cause behind ** will be found to be the truth.
In fact, fear of difficulty is only one of the reasons for students' procrastination, lack of motivation, lack of concentration, too difficult or boring tasks, etc., which may lead to children's procrastination.
Different causes are dealt with in different ways.
For children who lack motivation, we need to set clear goals and timetables for children to help them complete tasks in an orderly manner and avoid procrastination.
For example, you can discuss a fixed homework schedule with your child every day so that they can develop good time management Xi.
For children who are more afraid of difficulties, we need to cultivate children's self-confidence through positive encouragement, so that children can complete their Xi learning tasks from easy to difficult without procrastination.
For example, break down the learning Xi tasks, start with the easy ones, encourage yourself step by step, and constantly boost your confidence and overcome difficulties through positive psychological cues.
In addition to this, a small reward system can also be worked out, such as some extra entertainment time or small gifts after completing homework. In this way, the child will be more motivated to complete the task.
For children who are inattentive, it is necessary to create a good learning and Xi environment to avoid other factors distracting the child. A quiet, clean and comfortable Xi environment is very important to improve concentration.
A clean desk and a small number of necessary Xi tools to minimize other distractions, such as too many writing tools and a wide range of Xi tools, can help children concentrate and be more productive.
Changing your child's Xi takes time and patience. We should understand their difficulties and give them adequate support and encouragement. Avoid excessive pressure or punishment, which can have a negative effect and further exacerbate your child's procrastination.
In short, procrastination is a common problem, but there are a number of ways we can deal with it. Understanding why, setting goals, creating a good Xi environment, giving rewards and incentives, providing support and assistance, and being patient and understanding are all effective ways to help children overcome procrastination.