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When a woman is doing well and living happily, many people always say with envy and disapproval: "It is better to learn well than to marry well";"No matter how hard you try, it's better to be born."
A sentence or two will be wiped out."A "good life" woman is also an excellent woman herselffacts.
Attribute a woman's well-being to other people's charity, gifts, and luck.
In fact, a well-married woman, if she is not good at getting along with husband and wife, has an extreme and paranoid personality, and is prone to divorce;
If a woman from a good background is stupid and arrogant, arrogant and rude, she is also prone to lose her family property and fall into rebellion.
Could it be that at that time, they had to say that they were "blessed with a thin life"?
In fact, a woman's "good life" is managed by herself.
If you can do the following 5 things, you can also become a "good woman"!
Transparent and simple, wise and foolish
Simplicity is not ignorance and stupidity, but knowledge of the world but not worldliness. Always be simple to others, don't play tricks, don't be careful.
At the same time, simple people are also very transparent. See through all the human feelings and truths, but don't let yourself be trapped in bad emotions.
They are transparent and comfortable, positive and sunny.
Such people live like little suns, not onlyI won't be anxious and guilty, it will also make it easier for the people around you to be happy.
themThe popularity is generally very good, is very willing to help and protect them, can be described as the wisdom of the fool.
For example, Zhao Mosheng in "Why Sheng Xiaomo" has experienced the hardships of life and returned from all the vicissitudes of life, but he still has a simple and clear heart.
In the face of simplicity and transparency, all scheming and means have become rats crossing the street.
is as simple and beautiful as Zhao Mosheng, so that everyone around her exudes kindness to her.
So,To be a simple and transparent woman, you can not only see the dilemma and bad guys, but also move forward fearlessly, walk in the world frankly, and gain the most precious and sincere connections.
Tolerant and open-minded, optimistic and cheerful
As the saying goes:"Be a man and leave a line, and see each other in the future". You can't be too harsh on people and things, otherwise you will make others resentfulHate, this is to leave a hidden danger for yourself.
There are many people in life who like to fall into the well, watch others be lively, and have small bellies and chicken intestines.
Such people generally have poor popularity, and the boss is afraid of being bitten back, and he will not entrust them with important tasks.
And this kind of person often offends people in life without knowing it, so it is not to blame that when he is also lost and frustrated, no one helps, but he comes to step on it.
And most of the women who are good at life areOpen-minded, will not punish yourself for the mistakes of othersCaught in meaningless internal friction;
I won't always hold on to other people's shortcomings, mistakes, and contradictions.
Instead, they will be strict with themselves and lenient with others. Be strict with yourself and tolerant of others. In exchange for gratitude, admiration and heartfelt appreciation from others.
They work hard in the process and strictly enforce it, so they don't cling to the results. For things, things and people, he can see openly and is not paranoid.
Open-minded, dashing in the world;Only with an optimistic attitude can we truly smile at life.
is born from the heart", so women with good lives are generally kind-hearted, optimistic, and kind.
Be kind and peaceful, and know how to be grateful
Many angry people in life are very complaining and scolding, from their children's husbands to their neighbors and relatives, they are all scolded by her.
Take other people's gifts for granted, complain about the kindness of life, and never give it to yourself.
Every day is full of negative energy, cursing and resentful, scolding away the good luck, and cursing himself to "get more and more moldy".
Such a woman's family is disturbed, the marriage is unhappy, and the interpersonal relationship is extremely poor.
And the most important characteristic of a woman with a good life is that they are always kind and peaceful, and they know how to be grateful.
themHe has a strong ability to empathize, and he is always full of kindness towards people and things in life.
themContentment and peace. I don't complain about my background, my husband, my life or my fate, and I am always grateful for what I have so far. So the marriage is happy, and the husband and wife are in love.
themThe grace of dripping water is reciprocated, and the kindness and kindness of others are firmly remembered, and the heart of gratitude is to be a person and do things.
not only has a good reputation, but also makes others treat her with gratitude and kindness.
Life is like a mirror, if you cry, it will cry, and if you laugh, it will laugh.
You are kind and optimistic, and what it gives back to you is that your life is full of kind and cheerful people. You are narrow and gloomy, and what it gives back to you is a depressed and bumpy fate.
Modest and unassuming, polite and respectful
The more a woman is a good woman, the more modest and low-key, polite and respectful.
No matter how high a position you are or how good your background is, you will always be humble and low-key, not showing off, not vain, and you will not be jealous.
Treat everyone politely and respectfully, which not only reflects the upbringing, but also deserves to get along with;It can also be seen that the character is good, reliable and cooperative.
If you don't show your wealth or your wealth, you won't be jealous and worried about the villain;
Modesty and unassuming, calm temperament will be trusted by leaders and people around them;
Be polite and respectful, in order to be treated sincerely and sincerely.
Self-confidence and self-love, not humble or flattering
If a woman wants to have a good life, the most fundamental thing is to be independent.
Don't rely on not relying on anyone, rely on everything you get by your own efforts, you can really belong to yourself, and you can change your life against the sky.
Self-love, don't sell yourself casually, don't look down on yourself, self-respect and self-love.
Self-confidence, never stop learning, confident but not public, confident but not blind, self-confidence is the greatest charm of a woman.
Treat people who are higher than yourself, do not be humble, do not accommodate, and do not flatter, so as not to disturb your own principles.
A woman with a good life, first of all, must have a complete personality, start from the heart, love herself, in order to get the love around her.
God helps those who help themselves.
If you live neither humbly nor arrogantly, be kind to others, be tolerant and transparent in everything, be modest and courteous, you can also accumulate blessings, good luck will continue, and you will become a "good woman"!