Author: Wen Qiusheng.
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In the first half of life, we are full of energy and seem to have a lot of time and opportunities to try and make mistakes and run, so we can continue to add to ourselves and let ourselves have more strength to face the future.
And after the age of fifty, he began to enter the second half of his life. The body and energy began to gradually go downhill. In the face of many things, there are some things that are beyond our strength.
Entering the second half, you must learn to subtract yourself and make your life easier.
Reduce the pressure and burden on yourself, reduce your expectations, and manage your future life well.
After the age of 50, there are four things that need to be learned to "go to zero".
After the age of 50, you must learn to see yourself clearly and stop being too aggressive.
Zero in on your desires, stop setting too high goals for yourself, and learn to do what you can.
After the age of fifty, in spirit and ability, it is not as good as when it was young. For future planning, it is necessary to make appropriate adjustments.
If you blindly push yourself to move too high, you will put a lot of pressure on yourself.
At the same time, not being able to achieve your goals within expectations will also hit your confidence and bring you a lot of frustration.
When people are over fifty, they should make their lives easier.
Lower expectations, maintain stability in life, and preserve the strength to face wind and rain.
Let your desires go to zero and let yourself see the goals you set. Use step-by-step achievements to enrich your future life.
Zhang Ailing said: "In this bizarre world, no one can live a smooth life. But I always believe that after walking through the mountains and rains of Pinghu Lake, the mountains and rivers of the years, those who have gone through many calamities and tasted all kinds of flavors will be more vivid and clean. ”I think so.
When we have a certain amount of life experience, we will find that many troubles in life are actually self-inflicted.
Many times, we are unhappy, unhappy because we think too much. I worry too much and I feel stressed all the time.
When you reach the age of fifty, you must learn to let your mindset go back to zero, and stop thinking crankily and being surrounded by anxiety.
Let go of the worries in your heart and don't fidget at what hasn't happened. Don't disturb your mind for unknown things.
We must maintain an open-minded and indifferent attitude to face life.
Whether it's sunny or rainy, stay happy and discover more beauty.
In life, there is no turning back. What has passed cannot be changed.
After the age of fifty, don't be obsessed with the past, and don't let the past always shroud your heart.
The regrets of the past, the past, must learn to let go.
Perhaps, a life of regret is the norm.
Because I have regrets in my heart, I have learned to cherish and grasp the moment.
Every day in the future is precious, and we need to go all out to grasp the wonderful.
Rabindranath Tagore said, "When you cry about missing the sun, you have to miss the stars again." ”Learn to let go and let regrets go to zero. Use all your thoughts to plan your future days, and don't miss any of the goodness.
is more than half a hundred years old, has experienced the vicissitudes of the world, and has already seen through the hot and cold world. No longer worry about other people's opinions, and no longer worry about the gains and losses in life.
Let the emotions return to zero, stay away from all kinds of distractions, maintain a good mood, and let yourself enjoy more quiet time.
Those who know how to control their emotions are the real wise people.
Anger, not only will it not solve any problems, but it will also plunge your life into misery.
Don't be in a hurry, don't be cranky, don't get angry at will.
Learn to focus on yourself, pay attention to your feelings, and live your life the way you like.
Don't get angry, don't get anxious, don't frustrate about people or things that don't deserve it, keep your own pace.
When you know how to let go of everything and listen to your inner voice, you will reap more good luck in life.
After the age of 50, life has entered a new stage, and it is necessary to adjust yourself and start again.
Live your life well and adjust your goals in time. Set the right mindset and let yourself manage the second half of your life in a more relaxed state.
Learn to let go, learn to stay away from distractions, maintain your love for life, and let yourself live calmly.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.