Regardless of whether you study Buddhism or not, these seven kinds of words should be said with caution, and cause and effect should not be ignored
Too much to say, no gain"It is an old saying that has been passed down to this day. In life, we often find that a person's etiquette and language skills have an important impact on interpersonal relationships and career development. Therefore, if you don't pay attention to your words and deeds, you will bring a lot of unnecessary trouble to yourself and others. There are some words that should be used with caution in Buddhist or other cultural contexts, and are briefly described below.
Don't talk about your private life.
Especially on social**, many people like to share their personal lives, including feelings, experiences, problems, and worries. However, this often exposes personal privacy and puts oneself or others in an uncomfortable or embarrassing situation. In addition, a person who makes a big deal about his privacy in public can easily cause discomfort and opposition from others. Therefore, in order to protect your reputation and privacy and that of others, you must be careful when sharing your personal privacy.
Don't talk about other people's shortcomings and inadequacies.
When you talk about someone else's shortcomings and inadequacies, they feel hurt and upset. Even small things can escalate into serious problems that make people feel victimized and hurt. In addition, if you often talk about the shortcomings and inadequacies of others, it will give others a negative impression that you are a difficult person to get along with, which can affect your relationships. Therefore, avoid talking about the weaknesses and shortcomings of others and instead focus on their strengths and strengths to help them grow and develop.
No offensive language.
Abusive language, including words such as sarcasm, ridicule, name-calling, and bullying, can easily cause negative emotions and emotional trauma to others. These words can not only damage a person's dignity and self-esteem, but also destroy relationships and trust. In addition, hurtful language can also reflect a person's immaturity and lack of skills to deal with their emotions. Therefore, aggressive language should be avoided as much as possible in communication and interpersonal interactions, and it should be used in a good-natured, respectful, and constructive manner.
Free from all forms of prejudice and discrimination.
Prejudice and discrimination based on race, gender, religion, etc., is a pervasive problem in society and should not exist. Speech that expresses prejudice and discrimination can hurt the feelings of those who are discriminated against and create an atmosphere of conflict. Therefore, in the age of free speech, we must be careful not to offend others. It is also important that we respect the uniqueness of each person and not hurt others with biased and discriminatory remarks, but that we treat everyone equally, with respect and tolerance for everyone.
Avoid speaking in a way that encourages others to make bad choices.
Some people may deliberately cause others to make bad decisions, such as selling them invalid products or persuading them to do something illegal. This is not only a criminal act, but also a morally repugnant act. Therefore, when using language, it is essential to always be ethical and careful so as not to negatively affect others.
Don't say unreasonable things.
Many people sometimes get carried away and lose their minds when speaking or making decisions. This often leads to bad decisions and hurts others. Therefore, it is important to remain calm and rational in any situation so that we do not make bad decisions or hurt others because of our emotions.
There are no pretentious speeches.
Some people speak arrogantly and conceitedly, which often makes people feel uncomfortable and unpleasant. Therefore, if a person wants to gain the respect and trust of others, he must always maintain a humble, cautious, and respectful attitude.
In addition, freedom of expression must be based on respect for ethics, rationality and calmness, as well as respect for the rights and uniqueness of others, in order to build a harmonious, just and equal society.