Some people may seem stupid, but they are actually smart inside, and they know what to do and how to speak. They are able to think about everything in a down-to-earth manner and are not impetuous. They know their worth and are not distracted by the outside world. Such people are often able to achieve better.
Some people usually look confused and clumsy, but they can see through the world and know people and faces. This kind of confusion is actually a kind of ability. They don't like to talk nonsense, but they are very assertive in their hearts, and they never let people see flaws in dealing with problems. They know how to protect themselves and not be easily seen through, which is a very valuable ability. Therefore, we must learn to be good at protecting ourselves, so that others can't see our bottom line and ideas clearly.
Really smart people are usually able to simplify the complex, and be wise as foolish. They know the scale, they don't care about small things, and they have a tolerant heart. Between talking and doing, they always leave room for others and a retreat for themselves and others. They don't always see clearly, but they can always do a lot of things in their confusion and quietly. Such cleverness, perhaps ordinary, is very practical and valuable.
True wisdom is not the use of temporary wisdom, but the continuous intellect and thinking. Sometimes, we need to be a little confused, don't think too much about small things, and keep a relaxed and happy mind;But when it comes to distinguishing between right and wrong and making important decisions, we must remain sober and resolute. Smart people are never swayed by emotions and make the right choices with wise judgment.
In real life, a person can live a relaxed life, not because he has wealth and power, but because he knows how to pretend to be confused at the right time. Obviously knew it in his heart, but he deliberately pretended to be stupid and didn't let trivial things affect his mood. Instead of dwelling on the details, it is better to let go of the baggage and go with the flow. Such an attitude towards life is worth learning from. There are too many complicated things in life, and learning to pretend to be confused can make our hearts more pure and bright.
If a person is approachable, humble, and does not highlight his or her own opinions, he will be appreciated by everyone. Such people are always welcome because they have a high degree of politeness and respect, and are not arrogant and have no sense of superiority. If you don't live in a high place, you can win the hearts of the people.
In life, we often face the trials of the workplace and officialdom. Being low-key is a very important quality in these environments. Keeping a low profile can not only avoid show-off and calculation, but also make people appear to live in harmony with others without causing unnecessary disputes. At the same time, playing dumb is also very necessary because it allows you to get more information without being ostracized. Therefore, being low-key and knowing how to play stupid can help you gain a better foothold in the workplace and officialdom.
Confusion is not really stupid, it is a sensible way of manifesting it. It means that we know how to pretend to be stupid, not to casually talk about other people's rights and wrongs, and not to touch the scales of others. Confusion helps us maintain harmonious and friendly relationships.
Everyone has their own privacy and experience, no exceptions. But as ordinary people, if we can see through and understand, we can turn privacy into trust and experience into experience. If you expose it, you will only hurt yourself and others. A wise person should learn to respect others and himself, and not to think about what he said quickly, but to think carefully before making a decision.
Confusion is a magical quality that can tolerate things that are difficult for ordinary people to tolerate, and can also do things that are unimaginable to ordinary people. Sometimes, we need to look at things with a "confused" eye, to be able to think from another perspective and keep trying. This kind of "confusion" is also a kind of courage and wisdom, which can lead us out of our comfort zone and constantly pursue a better life.
Confusion is a kind of wisdom, don't be too extreme, don't say it too thoroughly, leave a convenient door for everything, and don't miss things when you meet in the future. It is necessary to have a sense of tolerance, when the wind and waves are calm, let one step get along better, and when the sea and the sky are wide, retreat in a timely manner and seek a win-win situation. This is the cultivation of life, and it is also a compulsory course for being a person and dealing with the world.
Confusion is a kind of wisdom. There are situations that should be hidden, just keep them low-key;There are things that should be revealed, and they should be bold. Life is like a cup of tea, it should be sweet and bitter, and you don't have to force it. Keeping things simple is a joy. Nothing is a kind of happiness. Don't be too attached to life and don't be too entangled. Confusion is not irresponsibility, but learning to let go. A decadence and indifference does not mean that you do not love life. Instead of worrying about the complicated things of the world, it is better to live comfortably in the confusion.
The true realm of being a human being is not a self-righteous smart person, but a foolish person who knows how to pretend to be stupid. In human society, the more modest and cautious people are, the more respected they are. Learning to play dumb makes it easier to accept information and understand the world more broadly. No one can achieve everything alone, and being smart is not omnipotent, and the right amount of confusion can make people pay attention to their true emotions and thoughts.
His appearance gives people the feeling of being honest and a little silly, taciturn and not understanding anything. But in fact, his heart is more shrewd than anyone else. He doesn't fight with anyone, but he can easily occupy an advantageous position. He observes silently, perceiving everything. His silence is a manifestation of wisdom.
We sometimes know that we are in a losing situation, but we choose to pretend to be stupid, or put the blame on ourselves, and then pretend to be confused. There are also times when you hear others talking about you, but you pretend not to hear it. This is called knowing how to play stupid, which seems to be confused, but in fact, it is a kind of wisdom. This kind of wisdom is not ignorant and self-contained, but has a bottom line deep in the heart, knowing when to compromise appropriately and when to take a firm stance. Therefore, even if we occasionally choose to pretend to be stupid, we should be clear about our bottom line in our hearts and not be deceived by appearances and be hurt.
When interacting with people, we are often faced with choices. Sometimes, in order to avoid covert losses, we have to weigh the benefits carefully. And sometimes, we also need to let go of our stubbornness, so as to make a step forward in order to make better progress. Therefore, we need to be good at retreating, building better relationships in our daily lives, and building a happier life.
Sometimes, not exposing a person's faults is a matter of righteousnessNot asking about the privacy of others is magnanimity;To be silent is to put the words in your heart;Pretending to be stupid and ignoring it is not entangled with right and wrong;Don't deny it all when you speak, it's to keep a little face;Don't do a one-size-fits-all approach to things, leave a way back. In short, only by treating others with a tolerant heart can we achieve a lifetime of stability and happiness.
Each of us is practicing, but many times we ignore the importance of kindness. Knowing how to pretend to be confused, not saying things that hurt others and yourself, and not doing things that harm others and harm others are all key points in your cultivation. Only when we protect ourselves with tolerance and tolerance, and face the world with a kind heart, can we maintain a calm and healthy mind and let ourselves live a happy life. Everyone should cherish this opportunity to practice and persevere in the pursuit of inner peace and kindness.
Knowing how to pretend to be stupid is also a skill. When there's a problem, it's easy to pretend you don't know. This not only preserves oneself, but also says too much and loses it, and it is better to say more than to say less. Learn to pretend to be stupid and make yourself more at ease, which is worth thinking about.
Zheng Banqiao is a philosophical historical figure, and his outlook on life is very special, that is, it is rare to be confused. In officialdom, in order not to get into trouble, he likes to cover up his skills with one question and three unknowns. Although this seems to be low-key, it is actually a confident demonstration of his own strength. We can also learn this rare and confused attitude in our lives, and we may gain more by maintaining humility.
We always want to have a clear plan and goals for our lives, but many times this kind of thinking only makes us feel more anxious and irritable. In contrast, a confused outlook on life can allow us to enjoy life better, and no matter if we encounter humiliation or trouble, we can have a normal heart. Let go of all kinds of expectations and burdens, and perhaps you can truly appreciate the beauty and meaning of life.