【Title】My Secrets That My Parents Didn't Know, Until Today【Introduction】Countless secrets, hidden in our hearts, dare not tell our parents. Some secrets are because they are afraid of their hearts, some because they don't want to worry about them, and some secrets are out of shame to tell.
Today, let's uncover some of the secrets buried deep in the hearts of netizens!In this complicated world, we always have some secrets that we have never revealed to our parents. Some people want to hide their true identity, some people want to protect their families' hearts, and some people want to protect their dignity.
Those secrets that have been precipitated in the depths of our memories always come to life from time to time, making us wonder: why do we keep these secrets?Why don't you dare to face your true self?
Let's hear the real stories of netizens![paragraph 1] netizen Xiaoruo once said that she had been lying to her parents that she was still in college in Chongqing, but in fact, she had already married into rural Guizhou and had a two-year-old daughter.
This concealment may be to protect her marital happiness, or maybe it is because she feels that her parents cannot accept this reality. Everyone's family and environment are different, and we have to choose to hide it for some reasons, but is this choice really worth it?
Paragraph 2] There is also a netizen, whose parents always thought he was selling jadeite, but in fact he was a fortune teller. This secret may seem insignificant, but to some extent, the profession of fortune teller is not accepted in the traditional concept. Therefore, he chose to hide this identity, just to not worry his parents.
But shouldn't we make an effort to understand each other?Shouldn't we try to accept each other's choices?[paragraph 3] Some netizens earned 1.7 million when they were in college, bought a house and a luxury car, but every time they went home, they chose to take a plane or high-speed rail and not let their families know.
His original intention was to get his father a new car and make more money. This concealment may be intended to give our parents a better life, but should we try to be honest with each other and share our achievements and confusions[Paragraph 4] There is also a netizen who has been **, and this secret has been hidden for nearly ten years.
She felt guilty and ridiculous, because she didn't understand this at the time. Behind this secret, there is a period of pain and hurt, and we should encourage every victim to face it bravely, rather than leaving them with a heavy heart.
Paragraph 5] Netizens have shared more secrets in countless ways, some people say that they don't plan to get married, and secretly talk about their partners;Some people say that some secrets are too shy to tell, and some are unnecessary and meaningless. Each of us has our own secrets, which are part of our hearts.
But should we try to replace these secrets with honesty and communication?Our parents are the people closest to us, and they give us selfless love and care. However, we choose to hide some secrets and dare not face them truthfully.
Maybe we're afraid of their reactions, maybe we don't want them to worry, maybe we don't think the secrets make sense. But, whatever the reason, we should all try to be brave enough to face ourselves and be brave enough to share our true thoughts and feelings with our parents.
In this real world, we should strive to understand each other and accept each other's choices and secrets. Let's start today and open our hearts and share our secrets with our parents!In a person's life, there will always be some secrets that cannot be spoken.
Maybe it's because of the fear of being misunderstood, maybe it's because of the fear of being hurt, maybe it's because of the fear of rejection. Secrets are like a lock, locking these unspeakable things in the bottom of your heart, making people feel heavy and depressed.
Some people have secrets because of emotional entanglements, some people have secrets because of life choices, and some people have secrets because of their own mistakes. But whatever the reason, these secrets become a rock in our hearts, constantly reminding us of the mistakes we have made, or the irrational choices we have made.
Some secrets may be just small things, but some secrets will leave us with a long time to bear, even a lifetime of inability to get rid of. For example, a person among netizens who was defrauded of 70,000 yuan may put in a long time of hard work and sweat in order to pay off this debt.
And those who have a secret because of emotional problems may have to keep silent all the time in order to hide this secret. However, keeping a secret isn't necessarily a good thing. First of all, secrets can be a great psychological burden and make people feel unable to stretch. Second, once the secret is revealed, the consequences can be even more severe.
Finally, if we don't have the capacity to take on this secret on our own, then we should seek help and support to set ourselves free. Whatever the secret, we should all learn how to deal with it.
You can choose to talk to close friends, family members or a professional counselor, or write it down, but you must not let it be kept in your heart and put a heavy burden on yourself. In closing, I would like to say that no matter what your secret is, don't let it affect your life and don't let it become a burden for your life.
Life is too short, so let's learn how to face our past and look forward to make our lives more fulfilling and happier.