In today's society, there are more and more older unmarried women, who are known as "leftover women". In the face of family and social pressure, should leftover women lower the criteria for mate selection and find a suitable partner?
1. The plight of leftover women.
1.Family pressure: As parents and relatives grow older, they begin to worry about the marriage of the leftover girl and constantly exert pressure.
2.Social prejudice: There is a certain prejudice against leftover women, believing that they are ambitious, picky, or that their conditions are not good enough.
3.Psychological dilemma: Leftover women are prone to anxiety and stress when facing relationships, worrying about whether they can find a suitable partner.
Second, the disadvantages of reducing the criteria for mate selection.
1.Reduced happiness: Lowering the criteria for choosing a mate may lead to a large gap with your inner expectations and a decrease in happiness after marriage.
2.Conflict of values: Lowering the criteria for mate selection may lead to greater conflicts with your partner in terms of values, life Xi habits, etc.
3.Difficult to run in: If there are big differences between the two parties in terms of life Xi, personality, etc., it is difficult to run in even if they are married, which may lead to the breakdown of the marriage.
3. Recommendations for sticking to principles.
1.Know your needs: When choosing a partner, you should first understand your needs and be clear about what kind of partner you want.
2.Stick to your principles: Don't easily change your mate selection criteria because of pressure, and have your own principles and bottom line.
3.Expand your social circle: Expand your social circle and increase your chances of meeting new people by attending social events, making friends, etc.
4.Enhance your own charm: pay attention to both internal and external training, enhance your charm, and make yourself more attractive.
5.Relax your mindset: Don't be too anxious and stressed, relax your mindset, and believe that fate will come naturally.
6.Family communication: Communicate with family members about their ideas and mate selection criteria to gain their understanding and support.
7.Friend introduction: Meet the newcomer through the introduction of friends, so that you can better understand the background and personality of the other party, and reduce the conflict after getting along.
8.Self-appreciation: Continuously improve your ability and quality to make yourself more competitive in the mate selection market.
9.Learn to refuse: When you encounter someone who is not suitable for you or an inappropriate blind date opportunity, you must learn to refuse and don't force yourself.
10.Accept reality: Finally, accept reality and recognize that everyone has their own destiny and timing. Even if you haven't found the right partner for a while, don't blame yourself or get frustrated. Life is a long road, and good scenery is always ahead.
IV. Conclusion. We cannot generalize about whether leftover women should lower the criteria for choosing a mate. Each leftover woman has her own situation and needs, and she needs to make decisions based on her own situation. But no matter what choice you make, you must stick to your principles and bottom line, and at the same time, you must face life positively, strive to improve yourself, and believe that happiness will eventually come. Finally, I hope that all leftover women can find their own happy home.