Fang Fang was a little anxious and complained to me:"What is the subtraction, what is the subtraction, my daughter can't figure it out. ”Fang Fang's children are the same age as my family, and they have just entered the first grade of primary school this year.
I comforted her, "Teach, it's very abstract!”
She was still very angry: "Didn't the school learn to be subtracted, subtracted?."”
I replied: ".I don't know if I learned it or not, but if you look at every textbook, there is so much contentSpeaking of which, it is normal for the teacher to teach or not, and it is normal for the child to remember whether he remembers or not, and how much he remembers。Nothing is the same as when we were kids!"Fang Fang is as old as me.
Fang Fang probably felt that what I said was also reasonable, and said: "I asked my daughter to make a set of test papers at night, and she can't do this set of questions." ”
It suddenly occurred to me that not only Fang Fang, but also myself, and many mothers may be such a personThe child is anxious when he does not do well in his studies, and he feels that his husband has spent money indiscriminately and is annoyed if he does not cooperate with the childthen yelled at the child, yelled at the husband, and "slammed the door" to himself, and in the end everyone was "offended", and he didn't fall into the slightest good!
In the past few days, I have reported my twin brothers for the exam of hard pen calligraphyAfter asking 3 times, they agreed to pay the fee for registration, and promised to practice well.
Because the calligraphy teacher was sick and hospitalized, the practice draft was also sent lateThe remaining practice time is only one weekAt the same time, it is necessary to take into account the revision of each subject in the final exam.
Many new words have not been learned or practiced, so I asked the children to copy the teacher's model in the vocabulary book first. The first time I wrote on graph paper, I was able to read it.
I write a page on graph paper every day, and then practice writing words that are not very good。It takes up to 25 minutes to write a version with the admission ticket number in front of it, etc., and I have a time record.
Day 4The two brothers went home and played for 1 and a half hours, and I went to the hospital to get the results of the physical examination for them. Then I asked them to write a version of the calligraphy exam exercisesMy brother finished scribbling, and the writing was worse than the first day。Keep playing.
Criticize it, let it be rewritten, and write it well. The two brothers finished writing it all, and it took less than 1 hour, and it was not yet time to hand in the exam papers.
The child's father warned his brother on the side: "You are not allowed to practice, my brother will take the test alone." You take the test again next time, or you don't take it again. ”
But I still feel sorry that the registration fee has been wasted, the next time my brother takes the second level, I still have to take my brother to take the first level, and the two children have to make different arrangements, which is really troublesome. I continued to practice according to my brother.
At the end of the day, it seemed like I was the only one in a hurry, even if it's just an off-campus exam, let alone on-campus learning.
Where's my husband?It's also a headache.
After not being allowed to buy a fish tank and a six-legged robot (a large building block, my husband plays with himself and takes his children to play by the way), I bought it back after being rejected after I was asked if I needed a certain thought's winter and summer vacation pre-review materials.
It's ridiculous that he got it back on our wedding anniversary, and said that morning that he would give me a big surprise and a big gift. I don't dare to imagine this kind of "fright".
I couldn't help yelling: "My child still hasn't finished online classes, and the winter vacation is a total of 20 days, after writing homework, memorizing words, and then learning some Olympiad math in the future."I've got it all arranged。I told you that I don't want this kind of information. They can also take some robotics classes of their choiceYou buy this kind of thing again, do you grind them or grind me. You went to work, who took them to do ???
I finished this long series of words in one breath. My husband is also puffed up.
I picked up the materials and threw them in the room, saying, "How much money did I buy it, I will put a certain fish and sell it, and get back some losses." ”
My husband couldn't be angry: "My mother bought the birthday red envelope for me, and she didn't take our money, you don't want it, I'll take it to my colleague, who is also in the first grade." ”
Later, when we all calmed down, my husband said:"I didn't plan to do a question for a childIf you want to practice for your child, you can also do itI'm going to buy this set of questions and see it myselfYou always say that I don't care about my children's studies on weekends, and I don't know how to teach, so I want to find a set of textbooks to study hard. ”
When I took my children to an interest class on the weekend, my husband really took that set of books to read, and asked me seriously: "I can understand the ten methods of mathematics now, is it necessary to make up the ten methods?"”
I took a closer look: "They're learning right now, just look at their math books!."”
My husband looked surprised: "Isn't this the content of the second semester of the first grade?"”
I don't bother to answer anymore.
Minus and subtracted are not clear, and playing is more important than learningChildren learn how, how much to do, how much they can do, do some planning, and follow nature!
My husband is going to spend money, and we can't do it by ourselves to save money and fill the holes, and we should spend it.
There really is no either/or for many things, and it is not that if you don't follow the module, there will be a big mess.
When I was a child, I always studied Olympiad mathematics, I always wrote essays, and I was always not good at English.
If you are not a child, you must like the Olympiad, you must like to memorize short essays, and you must be poor in English.
There is no fixed number of how children will learn and what kind of path they will take, and there are infinite possibilities.
Sisters, after becoming a mother, you really have to learn to let yourself go.
My newly bought New Year's flowers have arrived. When I was a child, I hated the most prosperous, and now I like it very much, so people will also change.
It's good to keep your original "love", love life, and be loved by life!