Choosing a partner to spend your life with is a crucial step in your journey, so most weddings are carefully planned to ensure a flawless celebration. Usually, on such solemn occasions, the groomsmen and bridesmaids play a supporting role, and they tend to exercise restraint and do not speak too much or act prominently.
However, on one special wedding, the bridesmaid team stood out for themselves, with their unique performances that made the audience laugh and even the newlyweds laughed. Everyone praised it online as a perfect assist, and there is no doubt that it was the bride's innermost thoughts that got the sound!
The story started with an interesting story shared by a netizen, which brought joy to the reader. According to the photographer's recollection, it was the climax of the wedding, and the bride offered tea to her parents. In local Xi, parents usually return the red envelope as a wish after the tea ceremony, marking the end of the ceremony.
Although this procedure is not usually new, the bridesmaids lit up the moment in an unexpected way, most likely in advance with the host. The picture shows the bride and groom kneeling on the ground in festive costumes to serve tea, and the elders sitting neatly on the sofa, holding the red envelopes to be given.
About a dozen bridesmaids stood in a row in uniform dresses. When the bride softly called "Mommy" and raised the teacup, the "Auntie" came out in response, echoing from the bridesmaid group. With every word of the bride, "Auntie has worked hard" and "Please advise", the synchronous response of the bridesmaids made the scene burst into laughter.
And when the bride gently said, "Mom, please drink tea", the bridesmaid group said bluntly: "Auntie, please give a red envelope". At this moment, even the mother-in-law smiled happily and was willing to hand over the red envelope. The father-in-law's tea ceremony also did not lose laughter, and the bridesmaid group once again expressed loudly: "Help financially", "WeChat or Alipay". The scene made everyone laugh from ear to ear, even the newcomers.
Some netizens sighed: This group of bridesmaids is really amazing!Not only do they help the bride to speak up, but they also make it impossible for the elders to pretend they don't hear. When I got married, I wanted to have such a lively scene!
This anecdote made the young lady look forward to her big day. Other netizens believe from a male perspective that although the humor at the wedding is understandable, it may not be appropriate if the bride has such expectations. Whether it is financial support or childcare, parental help should be voluntary, as they are old and it is inappropriate to place a burden on them.
Another point of view points out: I think this lively atmosphere is good for me as a mother-in-law, and I am happy to help take care of the children in the future, as long as I am not rejected. After all, the happiness of children is the most important thing, and marriage pursues this happiness.
Obviously, from different standpoints, people have different opinions on the same thing. Women are looking forward to future weddings, men are worried about their parents being wronged, and elders are most concerned about the happiness of their children, and they are willing to support them with money and hard work.
Personally, there is no clear right or wrong in life. The key is whether the family can get along happily and communicate unhindered. If the elders are willing to lend a hand, the younger generation also accepts the help of the elders, and the family can be harmonious and happy, then what does it matter if there is a little episode at the wedding?At the end of the day, happiness is the most precious thing!
What do you think about this?