In the early 90s, something happened that I will never forget. At that time, my sister-in-law suffered from her husband's domestic violence, and the children in the family were still pointed at by the outside world when they divorced, but my grandfather was not afraid of gossip and stood up to protect my aunt. This personal experience also gave me the courage to stand up and defend myself in a quarrel after marriage. When my husband and I were arguing, he grabbed me by the collar and wanted to get started.
I told my mother-in-law about this, but she said that my husband was just scaring me and would not really do anything. I immediately grabbed my mother-in-law by the collar and said defiantly, "What did you say?".The mother-in-law immediately changed her attitude, saying that she would never tolerate her husband's behavior, and even said that she would severely reprimand him when he returned. Under the bullying of my mother-in-law, I used to cry non-stop, and some people even persuaded me to tolerate my mother-in-law, but I refused.
I remember when I first got married, I kept my anger and thought that my in-laws would be nicer to me, but that was not the case. Until one day, I couldn't take it anymore, picked up a kitchen knife, and started to fight them. Since then, my reputation has spread through the family, and people have started saying that I have a bad temper and are not easy to mess with, and let me stay away. In addition, my husband slapped me several times after getting drunk at home, and at that time I was holding the child and could not fight back, so I could only passively accept his blows.
But when he lay groggy on the ground and fell asleep, my anger reached its peak. After I had settled the child, I rushed up and rode on his back, and beat him with a painful hand. When I stopped, my hands were still shaking, and I knew it was the adrenaline rush that hit me to my heart's content. Another time, he was drunk and said something hurtful, and I was indifferent. But he pushed me and provoked me.
I rode on him again, slapped him a few times, and then made up my mind to beat him up again. In the end, I had to take some damage with my child, and I still feel angry in retrospect. And the most recent time, I filed for divorce directly, and I was very serious. He refused to leave, and I even threatened him with a knife. Now, his mood seems to have become more stable.
Before, when I filed for divorce, my family and relatives persuaded the two to live a good life, but how could they understand?I just asked them: Will you pay off the 800,000 debt he owes?This sentence immediately left them speechless. My friend has been bullied by her ex-boyfriend. He psychologically abused her, scolded her, humiliated her, and controlled her interactions with the opposite sex.
However, my friend never stood up to him head-on, so much so that he eventually left her, probably because he thought the girl had been tamed by him. However, during one argument, he suddenly slapped my buddy twice. As if awakened instantly, my friend immediately stood up from the ground, took off his high heels and slammed them into his head, the sharp part of the heel smashed into a bloody hole, and the blood rushed wildly. The man froze, and then my friend dumped him.