The environment is the most important factor for a child's excellence.
As the old saying goes: "Since ancient times, a noble son from a poor family has never been a great man", and there is a more inspirational saying, "A noble son is born from a poor family, and a white house is born as a minister", it seems that he was born in a poor family, as if it was a kind of luck.
Regardless of others, but speaking of myself, I hate the pundit interpretation of the experts, as if suffering is a celebratory experience.
There are many reasons for poverty.
Poverty refers to lack of money, in other words, lack of materiality, and poverty refers to hardship.
Poverty and hardship are also hardships due to material scarcity.
However, poverty only refers to a state, it is not immutable, once because of the change of the environment or the change of one's own heart, everything may change qualitatively.
That's why I say the environment is the most important thing.
The current socio-economic environment is sluggish, and the involution is very serious, as adults, we are already miserable, and so are children.
My child is in the transition to early childhood, working hard for next year's primary school, every time I come back from class, watching her happily recite pinyin, my heart is a little sour.
The children's childhood is occupied by more and more class hours, and many working families like me have added another pressure to their children's education in addition to the heavy pressure of life.
In the definition of the word, "poor" refers to no money, "poor" actually refers to no road, we are children's role models, objects of imitation, family is the first environment for children's growth, parents' words and deeds affect children as pure as a blank sheet of paper, then, we have the responsibility to let children understand, what is the road.
In my relationship with my daughter, I have summarized several experiences:
1. A harmonious family environment for parents can provide children with a full sense of security
2. Giving the child complete respect can cultivate her self-confidence and self-esteem, and will also have a kind and open-minded heart;
3. Companionship, sufficient companionship and good communication can cultivate children's high-quality language skills and execution.
4. Teaching by example is greater than words, this is the most important thing in my eyes, we use our own practical actions to influence and educate children, can help children establish a correct outlook on life and values, and, because of our self-discipline, children will also get good Xi habits and hobbies, which will benefit immensely in the future of children.
Poor, not terrible, poor, terrible, we want children to know that a temporary failure is nothing, the way out is in their own minds, family is her backing, bravely move forward, keep enriching herself, until she reaches the goal she wants to go.
I am the emperor's bones, and there is a little bit of impropriety in the seriousness, and this little bit of indecency does not delay the serious man!
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