Let's take a look at the marital status of two of my male college classmates. There is no comprehension without comparison, and making the wrong decision will really leave a deep regret!
I had two male college classmates, and one chose someone he loved to spend the rest of his life with. The other chose to marry someone who would be beneficial to his future, so there was a noticeable difference in their lives.
The wife of the first male classmate was his first love, and they were college classmates in different departments at the same level.
Bi married family, after graduation, entered the palace of marriage, no car, no house, no savings, typical naked marriage. The girl is good-looking, gentle and considerate, and very knowledgeable and cultivated, but she got married after graduation and became pregnant within a few months, so she never went to work.
Since the birth of the child, she has been taking care of the child at home and becoming a housewife. So this girl basically has no contact with society, no socialization, stays at home all day, and has no friends.
This male classmate is engaged in the medical device industry, although the income is good, but one person has to make money to support three people, so he has no savings in his hands, and he has not bought a house until now, and he still lives in a rental house outside.
But their family of three lived very happily, in his own words, it was "poor and happy", in this life, they did not seek to be rich and rich, and their wives and children were hot every day, and they felt very happy.
Although he doesn't mix well, he doesn't have a car or a house, but every day when he comes home, he can eat delicious meals made by his wife, and he is very pleased to see the children grow up slowly, and his wife is knowledgeable and respectful to his in-laws.
One classmate's marital status is regrettable. He married the daughter of his leader, and the two met at work, and the woman had a good family, but she had a strong personality and a bad temper.
Although the man feels that marrying a good wife can help him improve his career, the woman's various behaviors after marriage make the man feel great pressure. The woman is strict with the man at home, and reprimands him at every turn, making him feel that there is no warmth of home.
The man also finds himself and the woman have no common language and excludes each other. What made the man feel even more painful was that the woman did not agree to him taking the children back to his hometown for the New Year every year, which made his family relationship very tense.
Now, the man has become the second-in-command of the company, but his marital status is in a state of separation, and I heard that there is a possibility of divorce. At the class reunion, the man confided in us about his hardships and said that he didn't want a divorce, but the current situation made him feel that life was too difficult, and he had to face the woman's suspicion and distrust every day, which made him feel very tired.
He said that marriage is like wearing shoes, only you know whether it is suitable or not, and sometimes people have to pay a price if they want to achieve a certain goal.
1.Marriage is like a besieged city, where those who are in it are eager to flee and those who are outside are eager to enter. Only by choosing the person you like can you live the life you want.
Careers are not achieved overnight, there are no shortcuts, you can't cling to the powerful, and you can't get something for nothing. The second classmate's marriage failed because the original family backgrounds of the two were too different, resulting in a disharmonious marital relationship.
Finally, whether it is a man or a woman, when looking for a partner, you must clearly see the original family background of the other party, and it is also very important to be a good match, otherwise the balance of marriage will be unbalanced.
The reason for the failure of the second classmate's marriage was that the original family backgrounds of the two were too different, which led to an unharmonious marital relationship. Therefore, when looking for a partner, you must clearly see the background of the other party's original family, and it is also very important to be a good match, otherwise the balance of marriage will be tilted.