As soon as the daughter and son-in-law got married, the mother-in-law made an unreasonable request, saying that the future life would be AA system, and the son-in-law had no choice but to reluctantly agree, but the father-in-law was sick and wanted to come to the house to recuperate, but the son-in-law said that he would collect rent.
Some time ago, my father-in-law was sick and hospitalized, and my mother-in-law thought that when my wife was discharged from the hospital, I would go to my son-in-law's house to live, and with them to help take care of her, I was not so tired.
So the mother-in-law called her son-in-law, son-in-law, you really have no conscience, your father is hospitalized, you only came to see it once, why are you so unfilial?I don't look like a son-in-law at all.
Li Wei said, Mom, I have to work during the day, and when I get home from work at night, I have to do housework and help take care of the children, how can I have time to see you?I'll see if I can spare time tonight, and I'll go see my dad if I can.
The mother-in-law said, son-in-law, you are really too much, the last time you came there was empty-handed, so you only stayed for a while and left, I have never seen a son-in-law like you, aren't you afraid that others will laugh at you?
Li Wei said, Mom, if I can go to see you tonight, I have already fulfilled the duty of a son-in-law, as for you saying that you want to buy something, then forget it, I won't buy it, why don't I buy things for you, you know best in your own heart, you don't have to say so much nonsense.
The mother-in-law said, okay, I'll give you another chance, tomorrow your dad will be discharged from the hospital, tomorrow you come to the hospital to pick us up, I and your dad will have been living in your house in the future, and then let my daughter give us the elderly, you take care of our daily life, during this time your dad is not in good health, I am taking care of it alone, so you take a few months off to take care of your dad at home, and ah, tomorrow morning you have to tidy up the room, all the sheets** Give me a new one, so that when we are discharged from the hospital tomorrow afternoon, we will go directly to your house, and you can always do this little request. A son-in-law should also take care of his father-in-law, right?
Li Wei said, Mom, you want to move to my house to live, of course you can, but you have to pay rent, my house is a high-end community, you are an acquaintance on a discount, 10,000 yuan a year, and your own clothes to wash, if you want to eat, then you have to do it yourself, if you don't want to cook, it's okay to order takeout, it's really not okay for you to hire a nanny yourself, but you have to pay for the nanny yourself, if you think you can, I'll clean up the room for you now, and you can move in tomorrow。
The mother-in-law said, son-in-law, what are you talking about?I am your mother-in-law, and it is only natural for me to live in your house, and besides, it is also what you should do to take care of us.
Li Wei said, Mom, why do I say that, you know it in your own heart, okay, I'm very busy here, so I won't tell you. After speaking, Li Wei hung up**.
In the afternoon of the next day, the father-in-law and mother-in-law came to the daughter-in-law's house with large bags and small bags.
The mother-in-law said, son-in-law, has our room been cleaned?The bed sheets** have all been replaced with new ones, right?
Li Wei said, these are not important, the important thing is that you are sure to live?If you are sure to live, then pay the rent first, otherwise you will go to live if you like, you are not welcome in my family, and I will make it clear to you in advance, if you live here, I have no obligation to take care of you, you live in my house for this time, all your expenses have to spend your own money, you want to eat what you buy and do, the family's water and electricity bills, I will not charge you separately.
The mother-in-law said, what a joke, I heard for the first time that the mother-in-law lives in the girl's house and has to pay the rent, besides, if you don't serve us, then what are we doing at your house?
Li Wei said, do you want me to serve you when you live in my house?Then you can not live in my house, I tell you, I will not serve you, and I want me to take a few months off to serve you, don't even think about it. Don't I have to work to make money?Will you give me money if I don't work?I also cost money for food and clothing, and it also costs money to support my family, if you really need someone to take care of you, then you can ask your daughter to take leave to come back to take care of you. It is only natural for your daughter to take care of you.
The mother-in-law said, what do you say?You are my son-in-law, and since you have married my daughter, you must provide for us in old age.
At this time, the father-in-law on the side said, what are you talking about?I don't understand?Why do we have to pay rent when we move in?
Li Wei said, Dad, when I got married to Xiaoli, my mother said that life would be lacking in the future, and I agreed, so you must pay the rent when you come over, and you have to pay your own daily expenses.
The father-in-law said, what?There is such a thing, you see what good things you do?They are a family after they get married, why do they still need an AA system?No wonder the girl asks you for rent, so you can pay the rent. You really deserve it, when you said this, you didn't think that you would grow old one day. Today's matter is that you are at fault first, and you can't blame your son-in-law, you can do it yourself.
The mother-in-law said, what is this, I am just a daughter, and it is only natural for the son-in-law to take care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, son-in-law, anyway, your father's hospitalization fee in the hospital has not been paid yet, you hurry up and settle the hospitalization fee.
My Xiaoli is an only daughter, your father-in-law and mother-in-law are sick and hospitalized, you must have asked your daughter and son-in-law to take care of and pay, I asked you to take leave to take care of your father, you still want my daughter to take leave to take care of her, it is inconvenient for her to take care of a girl, you don't want to be lazy.
Li Wei said, what you are talking about is someone else's family, our family situation is different, the practice must be different, if I don't have a job, I have no income, then who gives me money and who supports me, I have to rely on myself for everything, your daughter is different, even if your daughter resigns at home, he still has you as a mother to rely on, you will never let your daughter starve to death, so I want me to take leave to serve you, it is impossible, because I have no backer, even if I want to rely on my wife, she is also a mother's daughter, she all listen to you, will you give it to me when I have no money？I have to work to support myself and my son.
Now this house was bought to me by my parents in full, it is my pre-marital property, it has nothing to do with Xiaoli, and it has nothing to do with you, I can let you live in, that is already filial piety, if you really want to live, then you must pay rent, don't pay rent you don't want to live.
The mother-in-law said, why do you have a tendon?It doesn't make sense to you, the AA I told you before refers to the living expenses of you and my daughter, how can we also count our pension into AA?
Li Wei said, since AA, it must be included in it, AA is proposed by you, you naturally have to abide by it, this is thanks to your good idea before, now there are two choices, either pay the rent and live in, or you go to live outside.
The mother-in-law said, you and my daughter are married, you are our son-in-law, your house is our house, how can you live in your own house and pay rent, isn't this a joke?Besides, you and my daughter are already married, and my daughter also has a share in this house, I will be where my daughter is, I live in my daughter's house, why should I pay money?
Li Wei said, Mom, it's useless for you to rely on the old and sell the old, you are contradicting yourself, usually all the expenses of me and your daughter are evenly shared, and even when you go out to eat, what's wrong?There's a different way of saying that you want to live in now.
Besides, this house was bought to me by my parents in full, let you live in it or not, of course I have the final say, since you put forward the AA system at the beginning, then you must strictly abide by it, and anyone in the family must abide by it, this is your original words, and now it will be returned to you, if you don't even abide by yourself, then how can we comply with it?Also, in the future, you will not interfere in the affairs of our husband and wife, and you don't know how much your daughter's monthly salary is?If you don't help us, forget it, and take away your daughter's salary, your daughter is married, and all his money belongs to this small family.
The mother-in-law said, my daughter is really unlucky, how can she marry an unfilial husband like you, and she speaks so aggressively. How can a son-in-law dare to talk to his mother-in-law like this, when will my daughter marry someone like you?
Li Wei said, plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans, you plant whatever cause you get, even if you treat me a little better, there will be no such thing as today, I tell you again, in the future, you will interfere less in the affairs of our husband and wife, you will interfere in the affairs between us, it will only make the conflict between our husband and wife bigger and bigger, you don't want to rely on yourself as a mother-in-law all day long to calculate me, if you want to come to live in my house, you have to abide by the rules, do not pay rent, I will never let you live in.
Besides, don't you two have money in your hands?What are your intentions in moving here this time?The two of you have a pension of tens of thousands of yuan, but you want to come to live in my house, aren't you looking for fault?
The mother-in-law said, you don't care how much money we have. Even if we have 10,000 yuan a month, this money can't be moved, we have to keep this money for backup, and the pension will be handed over to you.
Li Wei said, well, it's none of my business how much money you have, and I don't bother to care, you can use your money as you want, but if you want to live in my house, then you have to pay rent, and you will pay it every yearSince my usual expenses are separated from your daughter, then supporting my parents is also separated, I only support my own parents, and I only give my parents living expenses.
As for you, since you got married, when you said that you would AA in your future life, I had no obligation to support you.
The mother-in-law said, I firmly disagree, since you married my daughter, then all your house and money belong to our family, and I have to use it how I say. Also, if you don't let me move in today, then I'll stay here and not leave, and I'll see what you can do to me.
Li Wei said, okay, I have time to accompany you today to see who can spend whom, at this time Xiaoli happened to come back from work, and her mother-in-law was pretending to cry.
Then she added fuel and vinegar to her daughter, how did her son-in-law treat her, and her daughter felt very sorry for her parents, and immediately asked Li Wei, husband, what are you doing?This is my mother, how can you do this to him?Besides, my parents are not outsiders, they want to move in, why do you want them to pay rent?You're crazy about money, aren't you?Do you use our house as a guest house?Also, it's inconvenient for me to take care of my dad as a woman, you hurry up and quit your job and go home to take care of my dad, my dad is not in good health now, the doctor said that he should recuperate for at least half a year, and you should not go to work during this time, take good care of my dad at home.
Li Wei said, Wang Xiaoli, you are not mistaken, he is your father, you don't ask for leave to take care of him, you let me ask for leave to take care of him, not long after I got married, you bullied me with your mother, and we also want us to implement the AA system, since we have complied with it for so many years, then your parents also have to comply, you let me resign to take care of your father, then I want to ask you, did you give it to me when I had no money?Do you support me?Are you raising the child?Am I full of the northwest wind?
Xiaoli said, Li Wei, you'd better not talk back to me, you just do what my mother says, my mother won't hurt you.
Li Wei said, Xiaoli, you are my wife, can you think about it for me?You are in front of me all day long, my mother says, my mother says. Don't you have the ability to judge yourself?Is your mom right?
Xiaoli said, of course I also consider what my mother said, but I think what my mother said is right. Isn't it the right thing to live in your daughter's house and let you take care of it?Besides, my mom has crossed more bridges than you've walked, so how could my mom hurt us?
Li Wei said, as long as you open your mouth, you can't leave your mother, since this is the case, we don't need to talk about it, you are a full mother, your mother doesn't break up this family, he won't give up, he has always looked down on me, every day to find fault with me, either here is not good, or there is not good, don't you understand?
Why do I keep insisting on living with you?That's because we're married and have a lovely son, and I've endured it for the sake of this family, and I don't want my son to lose his father or mother. Didn't you notice?The more you listen to your mother, the more conflicts we have, and it's better to live like this.
Xiaoli said, husband, do you have such a big opinion of my mother?My mom doesn't seem to have provoked you. He also thinks about our family, and you still don't know how to wronged him, no wonder my mother has always disliked you.
Li Wei said, hehe, is your mother good for us?He just wants to deal with me and control me, if he is really for the good of our family, then I want to ask you, is it necessary for husband and wife to be so clear?You have to think twice about everything you do at home, others will laugh to death when you say it, couples like us, I can be regarded as a long-term knowledge, and only your mother can come up with such an idea, husband and wife should understand each other, tolerate each other, and support each other. But how did your mom do it?What kind of husband and wife are we, at most we can live together, your mother is always on guard against me, afraid that I will take advantage of you every day, and even say that you will eat an extra bowl of rice. Now you still want me to quit my job to take care of your father, don't even think about it, you have to know that people are mutual, you treat me well, I will repay you ten, with your current attitude, you still want me to take care of your father, you don't dream, this time no matter what you say, your parents want to live in, then you have to pay rent, otherwise you don't have to think about it.
Xiaoli said, what are you talking about, aren't you afraid to go out, people poke you in the back?My dad was hospitalized this time, and his health is not as good as before, so don't be like them, just let them live in, okay?Then you apologize to my mom again, and this time it's over.
Li Wei said, it seems that I said so much just now, and I said it in vain, in your eyes, everything I do is wrong, and what your mother does is right, you can't figure out who is right and who is wrong. You actually asked me to apologize, what did I do wrong?You've gone too far, too.
Xiaoli said, why can't you be a son-in-law and be generous?What happened to Jean Yi's mother-in-law?Don't you want you to apologize to my mother?Is it that hard?Why do you have to hold on to it?Do you know why my mom doesn't like you?It's because you're too tough, it's obviously a very simple thing, you have to think about it so complicated, family and everything is prosperous, let you apologize, the matter will pass, and we can still live a good life.
Li Wei said, Wang Xiaoli, shut up for me, I didn't do anything wrong at all, why should I apologize?You think your mother is the queen mother. The rules are set by your mother, and now that your interests are damaged, you don't want to follow them. Xiaoli, I've had enough of these days, I've made compromises for so many years, but in exchange for your intensification, you don't know how I've survived these years. Let me tell you, I firmly disagree with your parents to come in, if you want to live in, you have to pay the rent, otherwise there is no way, if you still want to live a good life, you have to think clearly, if you don't want to live then don't live, don't tell me all day long, your mother said your mother said, I've had enough of you, let's divorce.
Xiaoli said, Li Wei, don't you think you care about everything?Don't take my mother in your eyes, no matter what, she is also your mother-in-law, do you treat your mother-in-law like this?Why am I married, an unreasonable husband like you, divorce if you divorce, since you are so tough, then quickly pack up your things and get out.
Li Wei said, you are so funny, this house is mine, why should I get out?If you want to get out, your family will get out. After saying that, Li Wei drove his father-in-law and mother-in-law and Xiaoli out of the house together, and a month later, Li Wei and Xiaoli divorced, and Li Wei lived alone with his son.