PUA, the full name of "pick-up artist", originally means "pick-up artist", which originally refers to the behavior of men who have received systematic learning, practice and continuous updating and improvement, and self-improvement of emotional intelligence, and later refers to people who are very attractive to the opposite sex and fascinate the opposite sex and their related behaviors.
To avoid being PUA by others, you first need to maintain self-awareness and a clear head. Don't easily trust other people's compliments and compliments, learn to recognize and reject untrue words. At the same time, don't be swayed by other people's evaluations and trust your own worth and judgment.
Second, learn to think independently and make decisions independently. Don't be swayed by other people's opinions and opinions, but have your own position and opinions. For other people's suggestions and opinions, we should go through our own thinking and judgment, and do not blindly accept them.
Also, maintain healthy relationships. Avoid associating with people who are always trying to control you or make you feel uncomfortable. Establish a good communication mechanism and learn to express your own thoughts and feelings, while also respecting the opinions and feelings of others.
In addition, it is necessary to improve one's psychological quality and coping ability. Don't be easily hit and hurt by others, learn to stay calm and rational. Learn to respond to other people's attacks and provocations in a reasonable way and not overreact or be emotional.
Finally, always be vigilant and self-protective. Do not easily disclose personal information or privacy to avoid being harmed by criminals. At the same time, we should learn to seek help and support, and seek help from relevant departments or professionals in a timely manner.
In short, avoiding being PUA by others requires maintaining self-awareness and a clear mind, learning to think independently and make independent decisions, maintaining healthy interpersonal relationships, improving psychological quality and coping skills, and maintaining vigilance and self-protection awareness. Only by doing this can we better protect ourselves from PUA.