Title: The blind date woman asked the man to buy a down jacket: I have a date in the afternoon, you go back first after paying!
Sister Chen thinks that it is really not good to let the man buy things on a blind date. You think, if the last two people can make it, then it's okay to say, but what if it doesn't?Wouldn't that be particularly embarrassing?Letting the man buy things at the beginning makes it easy for people to think that you are just going on a blind date with him just to take advantage of him.
Moreover, if it does not work out in the end, the man may feel that he is being taken advantage of, and the woman may also feel faceless.
So, I think when you go on a blind date, you should talk more, get to know each other better, and don't make such uncomfortable requests at the beginning.
Recently, a man and a woman in Henan went on a blind date, both of them are older, the man is in his 30s, and he belongs to the older youth. Therefore, men are not too picky about women, and only think about meeting the right person, so they seize the time to see the situation everywhere.
The blind date that the man met this time, it felt good to the man, and the two of them felt very good after some chatting and exchange, so they left each other *** and went to continue chatting and seeing.
The next day, the woman asked the man out, and the man was happy. However, what the man didn't expect was that the woman asked the man to buy her a down jacket after eating.
That's right, it was the woman who took the initiative to ask the man to buy herself a down jacket. It's really not good to meet like this.
However, since the man plans to develop with the woman, he doesn't care too much, although the money should not be spent, but the man doesn't want to be unhappy because of this matter, after all, he has to solve the single life, and he has to continue to develop with the woman.
The two of them came to the place where the clothes were sold, and the woman tried and chose a dress she liked. It was a down jacket, which the woman liked very much, and it was a little expensive, but the man still paid for it.
But after buying clothes, the woman's words made the man feel very embarrassed.
The woman actually said to the man: I have another object to see in the afternoon, you can go back first after you finish paying. At this moment, the man felt quite embarrassed, and he didn't know how to talk, after all, this was the first time he had seen this kind of thing.
The man had no choice but to agree. But it was clear that the man was very depressed about this.
It's really hard to agree with a woman's approach. Not to mention spending a man's money just after meeting, the woman actually said in front of the man that she was wearing the clothes bought by the man to meet other objects, which is an insult to the man and tramples on the dignity of the man.
It can be said that this woman is not sensible, her emotional intelligence is too low, and she must have any bad plans when talking to such a person.
This whole thing really makes people feel quite speechless.
This woman has only met for the first time, and it is already a bit too much to ask the man to buy her such expensive clothes. What's more, she even planned to wear this dress to meet the next blind date, which is simply an insult to the man.
Even if she really doesn't mean anything to men, there's no need to show it so directly, right?This not only hurts the man's self-esteem, but also makes people feel that her emotional intelligence really needs to be improved.
In fact, the blind date is originally a process of mutual understanding between the two parties.
If you feel that the other party is not suitable, then express it tactfully, and there is no need to do such embarrassing things. After all, we are all adults and should know how to respect others as well as ourselves. Behavior like this will not only make others have a bad impression of her, but also make her herself encounter more difficulties in future blind dates.
Therefore, it is still necessary to be kind, and do not do things that hurt others for the sake of temporary pleasure.
Especially on the special occasion of blind dates, you should pay more attention to your words and deeds and don't leave a bad impression on others. After all, everyone goes on a blind date to find happiness, and it is necessary to make a good impression on each other at first.
A retired sister born in the 70s who loves to write!Everyone is welcome to like it!