Zeng Guofan said
"Whoever is going to do something, he must first be calm and clear, and the mind is peaceful, and the thing can be right. ”A person who can achieve great things needs to be calm at all times, so that his mind is clear and he is able to make the right decisions. The reason why such people can have such good luck is because they can always do these 3 things.
When you want to do something and have a good attitude, you're actually halfway there.
Because of 4 words: born to the sun.
What your heart desires, it will naturally attract.
I remember when I was a child, I spent the New Year in my hometown, and the old people in the family were very concerned about such a thing, that is, they could not say unlucky things in the first month to avoid affecting the good luck of the year.
This is actually a kind of inner good expectation, pinning the longing for the year in a vision.
Life is actually like this, what you think and what thoughts you make, what will come.
A person with a good attitude is able to say "broken peace" when the bowl is broken;When you lose, you can tell yourself "not to cry over the spilled milk".
Such a person has a constant flow of energy, which is to look forward.
Life can't always be smooth sailing, and it can't always be stormy.
No matter what happens, please remember to be free-spirited, open-minded, and open-minded, and your life will become better.
I don't know if you have noticed that most people with noble status are very humble and put their posture very low.
Because they know that when the water is full, it overflows, and when the moon is full, it loses.
They tend to be backward compatible in dealing with others, and it is not easy for them to be considerate of others.
When I watched "Langya Bang 2", I was deeply impressed by this storyline.
Xiao Pingjing escaped from prison because he was dissatisfied with the hard-working suspect, and said impulsively:
Is that lord in the criminal department a dereliction of duty or deliberate?”
As soon as these words came out, his father was furious.
Xiao Pingjing didn't know why, his eldest brother Xiao Pingzhang explained to him:
"It's easy to blame others and it's hard to blame yourself, what hard evidence do you have to prove your remarks? If you don't, you're hurting people at the exit. ”It is precisely because of Xiao Pingzhang's humility and never trying to speculate on others that he has gained a large number of people who are willing to follow him.
The more you are in a high position, the more happy and smooth you are, the more you must know how to be considerate of others, and not use your own God's perspective to examine the plight of others at will.
Your kindness will be rewarded.
I read this sentence in the book:
"The hard test of life is to have the patience to wait for the right moment and the courage to accept the wait for nothing. ”If you want to get something, you have to plan badly and put your heart and soul into it.
As for the result, it is: do your best and obey the destiny of heaven.
What you need to develop more than what you expect is patience in doing things.
As long as you have patience, you can ride the wind and water in good times, and you can ride the wind and waves in bad times.
Good luck is like opening a blind box, you don't know if the next one will be drawn, but it doesn't matter, you always have the patience to be curious.
Because of curiosity, people can create one miracle after another.
I've heard a saying:
"Acting on the right path, the results must be measured for the sake of the eyes, and the skill is real, and you can go far by following the right path. ”If you are in the world and insist on doing the right thing, you will naturally go further.
The reason why a person continues to have good luck is not to stay put, but to wait and get it.
Instead, try to do these three things well: be optimistic, treat people with sincerity and respect, and act positively and patiently.
Because, people are doing it, and the sky is watching.
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