Some women may never figure it out, why does he already have a girlfriend, or even married, and the relationship is sweet and the marriage is stable, but why does he still focus on other women? Could it be that for him, only physiological needs are the most important existence?
In the face of those friends of the opposite sex who appeared around him, was his heart pure for a few moments? Or has it always been a dirty thought?
In the process of men and women approaching each other, because of the difference in gender, most men first fall in love with a woman's appearance, and finally fall in love with her as a person.
Women are different, often because they are in love with you, so they are willing to give everything they have to you.
So, why do men just want to have a relationship? Is it true that you only think with your lower body?
1.Men prefer what they can grasp more than they imagine
In a man's heart, it is not that there is no love, but his definition of love, not a castle in the air, but precisely those that can truly exist in his life.
A woman may love a man, even if she can't get it, even if she doesn't have too close contact with each other, she will firmly believe in the existence of this love.
A man is different, he loves you and has paid for you, but if he doesn't get the feedback he wants, it won't be long before he turns around and leaves. No matter how much he thinks of you at the beginning.
In fact, compared with imagination, what a man wants more in love and in the story of two people is those things that can be grasped in his hands, things that can be played out in real life, and things that can clearly indicate that they are unique and exclusive to him, that is, a woman's body.
To put it simply, a man needs to use the satisfaction of his lower body to prove that his efforts are worth it, and to prove that the woman in front of him loves him wholeheartedly.
2.Love is the union of spirit and body
In a man's subconscious cognition, he does not really have the so-called romance and surprise, but in addition to romance and surprise, he is more willing to choose the complementarity of psychology and physiology.
He will also appreciate and pursue a certain woman in his soul, but if this woman can never let him really get it, then this appreciation or pursuit will become a castle in the air, which will make him involuntarily deny himself.
In fact, in a man's dictionary, the so-called deep love must be the combination of spirit and body, the soul level, he needs this woman to be his heart, and the desire level, he wants this woman to be exclusive to him.
To put it simply, from a man's point of view, at the end of the ambiguity, there is basically no middle ground between becoming a stranger or a lover or a lover.
3.In the face of women, what men need more is pleasure
In fact, in a relationship, even if a woman is tempted first, she will not be too anxious, she will use a long stream of water, and even spend her whole life waiting for a so-called love.
Men are different, once he is attracted to a certain woman, even if he is not very familiar with it at all, he will be impatient, want to appear in her life again, and want to hold her in his arms.
In fact, in the face of women, what men need more is pleasure, that is, in the process of pursuing you, during the period of love, the man will exhaust all his romance and try to show you the most perfect him, once the relationship enters a stable period, he will naturally return to the flat.
Why do you just want to have a relationship? Why do you often think with your lower body? For men, one of the most important obligations of love is to give him pleasure, if the pleasure does not exist, and even the freshness and satisfaction are gone, then this relationship will naturally cease to exist.