The man was cleaning and accidentally found a pesticide hidden under his wife's bed
The man accidentally found a bottle of pesticide under the bed, but there was no farmland at home, so he didn't need this object at all.
After repeated questioning by the man, the wife admitted that the bottle of pesticide was hidden by herself.
And the reason why she hid pesticides turned out to be that she was preparing to commit suicide.
Why can't my wife think about it so much, what did she go through?
One day in 2017, 38-year-old Li Qiang was cleaning up at home when he accidentally found a bottle of pesticide under his bed.
Li Qiang was puzzled at the time, they didn't raise flowers and grass, and they didn't have farmland to grow vegetables, so how could they have a bottle of pesticides at home?
Combined with his wife's recent mental state, Li Qiang faintly had an answer in his heart.
He couldn't believe it, and sat at home in a daze, waiting for his wife Wang Mei to come back from work.
As soon as Wang Mei got off work, Li Qiang couldn't wait to take out the pesticide and asked, "How can we have a bottle of pesticide at home?"What did you buy it for?”
Wang Mei raised her eyes and glanced at the pesticide bottle, not panicked at all, but showed a relieved look and said, "Haven't you already guessed everything?"Is it still necessary to ask me?”
Li Qiang looked at his wife's appearance and was so frightened that goosebumps rose.
He grabbed Wang Mei, as if he would leave as soon as he let go.
But Wang Mei just stood there fixedly, not moving.
In order to untie his wife's knot, Li Qiang found a reporter, hoping that the reporter could help him.
Wang Mei told reporters: "We got married in 2007, and now ten years have passed, but in these ten years, he has cheated for seven years”
Wang Mei said and tears flowed down, she continued to choke and said: "He cheated in 2008, and I found out in 2014." ”
After Wang Mei said this, the whole person cried indecently, and she couldn't even say a complete sentence.
Seeing that Wang Mei couldn't stop crying, Li Qiang frowned, as if he was about to step forward and say something, but he still gave up.
Seeing Li Qiang's appearance, the reporter couldn't help but ask: "Your wife is crying like this, aren't you going to say something?"”
After hearing this, Li Qiang just remained silent, and didn't even look at Wang Mei's body, as if the person crying next to him was not his wife.
Wang Mei cried more and more, and the reporter was worried that Wang Mei would cry and faint if she continued like this, so she proposed to let Li Qiang go out first and talk to Wang Mei herself.
After Li Qiang went out, under the comfort of reporters, Wang Mei's mood slowly improved.
She choked up and said: "We have been married for so many years, if he doesn't love me, he can tell me directly, we can get together and disperse, but why does he treat me like this?"”
If Wang Mei wanted to commit suicide just because of Li Qiang's cheating, this reason would be a little too untenable, after all, Wang Mei could choose to divorce, and there was no need to lose her life!
But if it's not just because of Li Qiang's cheating, then what happened between the couple?
The reporter asked Wang Mei to control her emotions and turned to Li Qiang to ask the reason.
According to Li Qiang, in 2014, Wang Mei found out about his cheating, and since then, Li Qiang has cut off contact with his cheating partner, and Wang Mei also chose to forgive Li Qiang.
In this case, why can't Wang Mei think about it?
What kind of mystery is hidden behind this?
The object of Li Qiang's derailment is a post-70s, but Wang Mei is a post-90s.
If Li Qiang finds someone younger and more beautiful than herself, maybe Wang Mei can comfort herself, saying that Li Qiang is greedy for the other party's youth and beauty.
But now Li Qiang has found a woman who is so much older than himself, and the other party is uglier than himself, which makes Wang Mei's heart unbearable no matter what.
She and Li Qiang have been married for many years, and they have never had children or daughters under their knees, and their in-laws will scold Wang Mei for being a hen that can't lay eggs every time.
Wang Mei has endured the humiliation of her in-laws for this marriage.
But Li Qiang was outside, turning clouds and rain with other women, so he was happy and happy, how could Wang Mei let go?
Li Qiang also admitted to this matter, he said: "I met at a dinner party at the time, and I thought it was quite chatty, so I added *** and then it developed like that, after Wang Mei knew, we broke off, and later Wang Mei sued her in court and asked me to testify, and I did it, but Wang Mei just didn't give up." ”
For Wang Mei, there are three reasons for her collapse, one is that because they have only been married for a year, their husband cheats;The second is because her husband has found someone who is so much older than her;The third is because when she was humiliated by her in-laws to the point that she couldn't hold her up, her husband not only did not comfort her, but was also happy with other women.
Li Qiang's behavior has caused a deep blow to Wang Mei, and it can be clearly seen that every time she talks about this topic, Wang Mei is always very broken.
When Wang Mei's emotions calmed down, the reporter dared to continue talking to her.
At this time, Wang Mei suddenly took out a bag, which was full of medicine boxes and medical records, she unfolded them one by one, and then said: "For so many years, my stomach has not been moving, I have been pregnant three times, but they are all ectopic pregnancies, in order to save my life, not only did I beat the child out, but even the bilateral fallopian tubes were cut out, not only can I not get pregnant now, but even my physical condition has deteriorated a lot, and I have advanced to menopause, my life is too bitter!."”
After hearing this, Li Qiang said: "I have cut off contact with her, and I have not had any contact with other women in the past three years, but you have never been able to let go, and you have always held on to it, so how can we live our days like this?"”
Maybe it was Li Qiang's words that stimulated her, Wang Mei suddenly became very broken, she began to slap herself violently, and only stopped when the reporter stopped her.
Wang Mei continued to cry and said: "I'm like this, you see he still talks about me, he still talks about me!."”
Seeing that the contradiction between the two people escalated again, Wang Mei's mood also collapsed again, and the reporter had to temporarily stop the interview with Wang Mei and focus on Li Qiang instead.
The reporter asked sharply: "Your wife has become like this, you have an unshirkable responsibility!"”
Li Qiang nodded, and did not veto, he said to reporters: "I know, all this is because of me, I don't have a firm consciousness, lost in desire, but I know my mistakes, I also changed, I just want to live with her again, otherwise we would have divorced a long time ago." ”
If Wang Mei doesn't want to live this kind of life anymore, she can actually choose to divorce and let herself go.
But in fact, in Wang Mei's heart, she still has feelings for Li Qiang, so she keeps holding on to Li Qiang's cheating.
Just imagine, if a woman has no feelings for a man, will she be angry and sad because he touches another woman?
Obviously, it won't, so Wang Mei is reluctant to let go, and this is the reason why she can't let go.
But she has been holding on to this point, unwilling to let go, and she doesn't want to let go of each other, such days are tormenting for everyone.
According to Wang Mei's current mental state, she already has the idea of wanting to commit suicide, her emotions are very dangerous, and she may have an accident one day.
The reporter said to Wang Mei: "If you feel that you can't get along with this person, then you can divorce, there are no children between two people, and it will be easier to divorce, but can you accept this result?"”
Wang Mei didn't answer, but her tears came even more violently.
The reporter didn't wait for Wang Mei to speak, but continued: "If you want to live with him, some of the past should be let go, if you continue to refuse to let go, neither of you will have a good life." ”
At this time, the reporter said to Li Qiang: "I can see that you don't want to divorce, then you have to take out your responsibility as a man, first of all, you did something wrong, you have to apologize sincerely, and secondly, her current emotions are very sensitive and fragile, as a husband, you should accompany her more and care more, and take her out for a walk." ”
Li Qiang nodded, walked to his wife's side, put his hands on her shoulders, and said softly: "Wife, I'm sorry, I won't do it again in the future, I will accompany you well in the future, take you out to play, buy you delicious food, and be a conscientious husband." ”
Hearing Li Qiang's words, Wang Mei couldn't hold back anymore, threw herself into his arms and cried bitterly.
In fact, the reason why Wang Mei has been holding on to Li Qiang's derailment for so many years is because the other party owes her a sincere apology and a heartfelt promise, so that she can have the courage to turn the page on this matter.
Now that Wang Mei wants to make a promise and an apology, I believe she will be willing to start over with Li Qiang in the future.
I just hope that Li Qiang can really realize his mistakes and never make them again, so that he can protect his marriage and love!