Troubles are everywhere, and if you live for them all the time and are bothered by them, then you lose.
Afflictions are like a spider, weaving a web for yourself, and this web is the web of afflictions, and the more troubles you have, the bigger the web will be.
If you keep all your troubles around, the bigger the web you weave, the more you lose your nature.
The more you put your troubles in your heart, the more you will be infinitely magnified, and you will only have more troubles, you know the truth, but your heart just can't let go, can't open.
Therefore, if you want to live an easy and simple life, the best thing is to learn these 3 words.
Sometimes, when you are surrounded by troubles, a lot of it is because you care too much.
I like to take everything to my heart, and what others say will also be haunted, and I have to care about a small thing, and in the end, it will take a long time to ease up.
In the end, we all live for ourselves, each of us is an independent individual, there is nothing to care about at all, if you really care, then care about your own health.
The weakness of human nature writes, what can really hurt you, the only thing that can hurt you is your care.
The reason why you care is because you are too sensitive, and the reason why you can't let go of your heart is because you are too persistent.
As long as people live in the world, there will always be people who say that you are good, and some people who say that you are not good, and those who understand you do not need to explain, and those who do not understand you do not deserve your explanation.
People who really understand you will never deny you because of those rights and wrongs, in life, there will always be people who make irresponsible remarks about you, and there will always be people who point fingers at you.
Learn not to care, restrain yourself, do what you should do well, take the road you should go, stay kind, treat others sincerely and tolerantly, be strict with yourself, and everything else is just free.
Take the things you care about lightly, some people have some things, as long as you don't care so much, they won't be able to get on you.
Whose life is not a chicken feather, but some people choose hysteria, while some people choose to be free and easy.
So, let go of everything you care about and care more about your body.
A lot of troubles are because of too much interference, not to mention others, and to add to one's own troubles.
People live for a lifetime, you must learn to be sober, don't always think about other people's affairs, because you have no right to speak, and you will only end up annoying others.
It is said that less is less wrong, and more is more wrong.
See people talk less, see things less miserable, manage your own heart, and do your own thing. Opening your mouth is a curse, closing your mouth is a blessing, keeping your mouth shut in the group, guarding your heart alone, people should be quiet, and if you talk too much, you will lose.
Take prudence first, see who you are, square your position, the water is too deep, the wind is too strong, and you don't have the strength to speak less.
Don't care about other people's affairs, it's not ruthless, but rational, people have a sense of distance between people, so they can get along, too close, but will hurt each other.
By interfering less with others, you can create more freedom and space for yourself and others, thereby alleviating eighty percent of life's worries.
In order to avoid conflicts, avoid unnecessary troubles and troubles, the best way is to interfere less, and less interference can really make people feel good. Do your job well, keep your mouth shut, take care of yourself, find a clean job for yourself, and don't offend anyone. In short, learning to interfere less is one of the important ways to solve 80% of life's troubles.
To be a man, win in the pattern, lose in the calculation, think more about things, think less about people, look down on life, and live happily.
But too many people like to worry about some small things, and some small things, they are obsessed with it, and they don't know what they are fighting for, in short, they are unwilling.
In the end, there is no loss or win, what is wasted is their own energy, and they also lose more than half of their happiness.
It's hard for such a person not to be miserable.
People have been learning Xi tolerance all their lives, but there are few people who can really be generous, the so-called heart is too small, all the little things are big, and the heart is big, all the big things are small.
This world is fair, and if you are generous, you will not suffer in the end.
Why should you care about the so-called gains and losses in life, as long as you treat everything as indifferent, don't go to rare, don't care, your troubles can't control you.
Life in the world, flowers are like clouds, look down on gains and losses, don't care, put down the burden, move forward lightly, want to open melancholy, happiness is infinite, see away worries, happiness is inevitable.
There are as many worries as there are, there are as many tolerances as there are, and there are as many joys as there are. If the heart is greedy. Thinking about the maintenance, if the heart is indifferent, happy and free.