In the expert circle, there is a figure who is considered to be comparable to Jin Yong, or even more suave than Jin Yong, that is the "old pervert" Cai Lan.
With the name Cai Lan, most people will think of him as a writer and film producer, but what is more admirable is his outspoken spirit, as well as his care and support for marginalized groups.
"Leftover Women" has always been the focus of attention, and if you are not careful, you will be severely criticized in the comment area.
However, Cai Lan was praised by netizens.
He claimed that the title "leftover woman" itself is a kind of derogation, and in fact there is no so-called "leftover" and "no leftover".
Cai Lan's words revealed a cynical attitude, and at the same time sparked a trace of resonance in the hearts of fans.
This is why although we are not familiar with Cai Lan's name, we still remember his remarks.
wants to understand Cai Lan, but you can't simply put him and Jin Yong's name together.
Cai Lan has a unique skill in his field of expertise, and even in other fields, and can stand out with elegance.
He is a talented person, but he has successfully appeared in "A Bite of China" and became a foodie.
Cai Lan's shocking behavior was beyond the expectations of ordinary people.
However, his status as a foodie does not come from pure enjoyment.
As a culinary prodigy in Hong Kong, he has travelled the world in pursuit of fine dining.
They traveled from South Korea, to Japan, and then through Southeast Asia.
Cai Lan is so relaxed that even Jin Yong has publicly admitted it.
However, another miracle of Cai Lan is that he was able to make his wife gladly accept his amorous nature.
Subsequently, he was able to come and go freely with dozens of lovers.
Just like Jin Yong commented:
He is proficient in eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling.
From tasting flower wine, to talking to prostitutes.
From a long journey to a home to recuperate.
Cai Lan is really an incredible person.
He did not shy away from revealing those overly secret beauty hunting experiences, but confessed to more than 61 lovers.
It is not surprising that Cai Lan's cynicism has a unique view of the world.
When asked about his views on lying flat culture, Cai Lan said domineeringly in front of the camera: "It should be like this." ”
As far as the issue of marriage is concerned, Mr. Cai Lan expressed this opinion:
What does it matter if you don't get married?You can go out with a few girls.
This also explains why Cai Lan has a hint of affection in his feelings.
Not only was he respected by his wife, but he was also able to become a kind of "pleasure" recognized by the world.
Cai Lan's wandering form can even be comparable to Liu Luanxiong, not inferior.
That statement seems to be being confirmed.
My name is Cai Lan, and it sounds like a "food basket", so I am destined to enjoy food and wine all my life.
Cai Lan's "frivolity" seems to be a manifestation of his innate amorous gene, and he has longed for the entanglement with women since he was a child.
Cai Lan longed for the leisurely life of the sassy literati and talented prostitutes in the book, and was full of yearning for this kind of free and easy life.
His mood was surging, and at the moment he was entangled in the essay title "My Volunteer" in elementary school.
Maybe someone else's ambition is to make money, or to become an expert.
Cai Lan's wish is to open a brothel.
When the teacher saw these glaring words, he disclosed them.
Cai Lan's ideas are contrary to the values of most people.
Cai Lan's characters include the Dust Woman and the Merry Boy.
The school had the idea of expulsion because of this wanton behavior.
Without the persuasion of his parents, Cai Lan may not have become a talented person, and may even fall into a dangerous situation.
Why is Cai Lan able to be romantic and have a good reputation?
Ni Kuang once made this evaluation of Cai Lan:
Cai Lan feels like a Wei and Jin figure who has traveled through time and space to modern times.
Why did you choose the people of the Wei and Jin dynasties?
During the Wei and Jin dynasties, there were many people who were known for their unruliness.
Most people can drink and chat while enjoying the joy of the landscape.
Cai Lan happens to be such a person.
He is an outstanding representative in the film and television industry.
He is an expert in the world of gastronomy in tasting food firsthand.
In the field of marriage and love, Cai Lan is a person who is proficient in the emotions of men and women but knows moderation.
It can not only wield a sword in emotional entanglements, but also pour its sincerity into a person's life.
Cai Lan usually keeps a clear head, he can realize his wife's hard work, and at the same time, he can also sense the charm of his lover.
Therefore, Cai Lan chose to live up to the other party, just as he knew that his favorite thing was wine, and what he was best at telling was yellow jokes.
It is not amorous men who are afraid, but talented and amorous men.
Even the Hong Kong beauty Brigitte Lin praised him very admirably: He is a man that all mature women admire.
Li Jiaxin also called him the most tasteful man.
Cai Lan is praised not only for his talent, but more importantly for his control of emotions.
Cai Lan treats women with a tough attitude, nor is she willing to persistently pursue satisfying her wishes.
Cai Lan is actually an amorous person, but he also knows to respect women.
He prefers to follow their advice, and does so more often.
Cai Lan is proficient in this way of getting along in harmony, and can manage it very well in marriage and love.
Moreover, this respect grows in the marriage, evolving into a state of mutual respect.
Of course, the wife's understanding and support are also crucial during this time.
She also usually appears to be generous.
Cai Lan once got involved in the filming of Fengyue films, but few people could have imagined that his wife was also one of the loyal fans.
After Cai Lan and his wife Fang Qiongwen got married, they did not decide to have children.
Cai Lan rejected Fang Qiongwen's proposal.
Perhaps for a husband, Cai Lan is considered ruthless, even with a hint of cruelty.
In marriage, all women desire to have a child with their husbands, and Fang Qiongwen is no exception.
One of the reasons for Cai Lan's refusal was his disapproval of himself.
I don't agree with my ability to raise children, but I don't believe that I can play the role of a father.
The second reason is that Cai Lan does not want his children to be bound by marriage, nor does he want them to become a burden in his writing career.
Cai Lan lived a happy life.
There may be a view that this may be one of the reasons for Fang Qiongwen's regret.
Marriage has always needed to be carefully managed.
Cai Lan's amorous demeanor and reluctant birth of children have already destroyed his wife's dependence on her husband again and again.
Cai Lan's romance is not endless, but Fang Qiongwen can maintain a frank attitude, which is why.
The attitude of indifference refers to the sense of crisis that may arise when love turns into affection in marriage.
However, the mode of getting along between the two of them is optimal.
Cai Lan's temperament never allowed him to stay in one place and stagnate.
This can also be seen in his requirements for women.
Someone once asked Cai Lan what type of women he preferred.
Most people think that Cai Lan may comment on her graceful style, or pay more attention to her appearance.
Cai Lan's primary response is about talent, the pursuit of progress, kindness and reason.
Although Cai Lan has multiple lovers, his different tastes from ordinary men have also become an important advantage in attracting women.
Does this talent also have a hint of ugliness?
Cai Lan profoundly pointed out: If you fail on the outside, you can't let the inside fail too.
Such a man who is summarized as "indiscriminate" is really not simple, but it is also somewhat charming, and I can't help but say it.