Today is my mother-in-law's death day, and I made my eldest sister cry!
On the first anniversary of the death of my mother-in-law, according to the custom, the anniversary should be placed to pay tribute, and this offer should be bought by the son's family.
We arrived at our hometown at ten o'clock, and my eldest sister also arrived, and when she saw me, she asked, "Have you made a confession?"”
I said in my heart that you called ** a few days ago, and told us that you want to make a supply, and you want us to buy this and that, can I buy it?
I said I bought it, and she said she wanted to see what she bought, and I was a little annoyed, so I said that it was in the car.
The eldest sister said to my husband: "You open the trunk of the car, I will see if all the supplies are bought, if there is anything missing, hurry up and buy it!".”
My husband is also stupid, I opened the trunk of the car after listening to her, and the eldest sister was churning inside, I didn't bother to pay attention to her, so I walked to the old house.
We live in the county seat, and after my father-in-law died, my mother-in-law followed us to live in the county seat, and no one lived in the old house. Now it is even more dilapidated, the temperature today is minus 10 degrees, and the old house is as cold as an ice cellar.
As soon as I entered the door, my eldest sister came in with a large bag and a small bag, and I saw that they were all offerings I had bought: "Sister, what are you doing with this, you will drive to the cemetery later, it will be too much trouble to get back and forth." ”
The eldest sister said, I'll take a look first, don't miss anything. I put everything on the floor of the living room, and the floor was full of dirt, and even through the convenience bag, I felt dirty.
This chicken is too small, it's bought by the one, right?I told you, go to xx's house to buy that weighing by pound, it tastes good, and it doesn't cost much. ”
I said, "The shop you're talking about is too far away from my house, and I bought it at the farmer's market."
The eldest sister took out the fish I bought again, and said that the fish was too small and the color was not right: the fish you bought is definitely not fresh, the fish must eat fresh fish, and the one you bought must be dead.
She was writhing there, this is not good, that is not good, devaluing what I bought to nothing.
I suppressed the fire in my heart and persuaded myself to endure it, but who knew that the eldest sister exclaimed as if she had discovered something terrible: "Oh my God, how did you buy six?"Didn't I tell you that you have to pay for it or not buy a pair?”’
I said, I just bought the order, three fresh chickens and fish, three fresh meat, three bananas, apples, oranges and fruits, all single.
The eldest sister said, you are still a college student, you don't understand the truth of negative is positive?Three plus three isn't six?What do you say, how can there be six for you?
My eldest sister kept counting as if I had done something wrong. I said, isn't there another one, the steamed bun is on top? We have to have steamed bread on our side, and steamed bread is the same.
The eldest sister said, how can steamed buns be counted, you will be fooled.
I said I didn't understand, I asked the boss who sold the offerings, they all said that they bought it like this, I was foolish, why didn't you buy it if you were serious?
The eldest sister said, this anniversary offering is your son's business, how can I buy it as a daughter?
Since it's our business, we can do whatever we want, what are you fuscinating about there?
Besides, when my daughter goes back to her parents' house to burn paper, she doesn't want to come empty-handed, so you come with two paws empty, and you come with a stack of burning paper, and you are still talking nonsense in front of me”
The eldest sister stopped squeaking for a while, and said after a while, I'm not afraid that something will go wrong with you, our mother's anniversary is a big deal, if it's not thorough, you don't have face, right?
I said, I didn't say it's not a big deal, but you didn't do it as a big thing!It is said that if the mother's family has a brother and nephew, the married daughter will go back to her mother's house to go to the grave, and she can't come empty-handed, so she has to buy some fruit snacks.
But what about you, your father-in-law has been dead for so many years, and every time you come, you are empty-handed, and you burn paper with a knife.
Not to mention usually, our children are all teenagers and haven't eaten a single candy from you. It's my mother-in-law, you haven't bought her a box of milk at such an old age.
I knew all day long that it wasn't the one who picked us, and I didn't see how successful you were.
The eldest sister stopped talking, and sat there wiping her tears, saying that her parents were gone, her mother's house was no longer her home, and no one was taking care of her.
I said, if you do a good job, you don't have to be treated by others, and if you treat other people's tolerance as a good bully, then no one will let you go all the time.
My husband said that what I said was ugly, and I didn't save face for his sister, and I said that I gave face myself, so why should I keep it for her?