When I was young, I watched "Parents' Love", and I felt that my sister-in-law was selfish and powerful, one thing in front of others, and one thing in the back.
When Jiang Defu was an officer, she rushed to stammer. But when he heard that the head of the regiment Jiang was about to disarm and return to the field, he looked disgusted.
Compared with her sister-in-law, An Xin's approach seems to be much fairer.
She has never changed because of Jiang Defu's identity, on the contrary, she is very disdainful of her sister-in-law's backsliding.
I was like, wow!An Xin is so good, I like her so much, she is the sense of justice in our hearts, Bai Yueguang, it's too perfect.
That was the idea of being younger, and now it has changed.
My current life experience has taught me that only people who do not know the suffering of the world can say such things and make such judgments.
And the sister-in-law's judgment of the situation is down-to-earth, and it is also sober in the world.
Why do you say that?Let's break it down!
The perfection of marriage is about the right match.
The right door here means that the living environment of the two people cannot be too different.
An Jie and Jiang Defu are obviously the ones with too big a disparity. One lives in a bungalow, drinks coffee, and eats steamed buns and pickles.
Can An Jie really accompany Jiang Defu back to the countryside and eat bran vegetables?An Jie, who is used to living a petty bourgeois life, I think it is unlikely.
At that moment, when Secretary Yang asked her to express her position, she said the sentence "I can", which I think is an act of righteousness.
Just like in today's society, a pair of lovers that everyone opposes will only make them more frustrated and courageous, and the more you oppose it, the more we have to be together, which is the same reason.
Therefore, at that time, An Jie, she did not think rationally, can she Xi such a hard life when she returns to the countryside, and will her life after marriage be happy?
It shouldn't just be a matter of whims.
As the saying goes, poor couples mourn everything, Jiang Defu does not have the blessing of the status of the head of the group, and there is a high probability that life will not be so smooth
They will definitely fight over money, over the chicken feathers of life, like most ordinary people.
The reason why "Dream of the Covered Bridge" is beautiful is because their love did not turn into marriage.
Marriage has nothing to do with love.
And the sister-in-law, the identity of the person who came over, she understands what is the truth of marriage?
That's why when he learned that Jiang Defu was going to return to his hometown, he was the first to jump out and oppose this family business.
Instead of arguing upside down after marriage, it is better to stop losses in time now, which is wise and sober in the world.
She really felt sorry for An Jie, because she knew An Jie and knew that An Jie couldn't live such a hard life, so she resolutely refused.
Of course, there is also a little bit of selfishness in her human nature.