In an ordinary town, there is a family, and the atmosphere at home is always particularly harmonious. Why, you ask?Then we have to talk about the man of the house, the one who everyone calls him the "peacemaker". Whenever there is a little friction between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he can always use a few words to make the two laugh back and forth, and the contradiction disappears.
One day, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had an argument over the preparation of a dish. The mother-in-law sticks to the traditional ways, while the daughter-in-law wants to try new methods. The two have their own opinions and do not give in to each other. Seeing that a "big war" was about to break out, at this time, the "peacemaker" husband came home from work.
As soon as he entered the door, he sensed the tension in his home. He put down his bag, walked to the living room, and deliberately exaggeratedly said, "Ouch, what's going on?".Why do you feel that the atmosphere at home is colder than outside?”
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law heard this, they couldn't help laughing. The husband took the opportunity to continue: "Look at the two of you, you are both for the good of this family, why fight for the highs and lows?"Traditional methods and new practices have their own advantages, so why don't we try to combine them and innovate a special dish that belongs to our family”
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law heard this, they both felt that it made sense. They began to try to communicate and exchange ideas with each other. With the encouragement of their husbands, they worked together to create a dish that was both traditional and innovative. Tasting this dish, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law both showed satisfied smiles.
Since then, whenever the home appears small.
When there is a conflict, my husband always uses his unique "magic of words" to resolve the problem. Not only is he able to speak, but he also knows how to listen and understand everyone's thoughts. Under his mediation, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became more and more harmonious, and the family atmosphere became more and more harmonious.
The neighbors were envious of the family's harmonious coexistence, and they asked the "peacemaker" husband for secrets. He always smiled and said, "What's the secret?"It's more communication, more understanding, and more tolerance. Family harmony cannot be achieved by one person, but requires the joint efforts of everyone. ”
Yes, family harmony requires everyone's dedication and effort. But sometimes, a warm word and an understanding look are enough to resolve all the contradictions and unhappiness. This is the "magic of words" of the husband of the "peacemaker", and it is also the secret of their family's harmonious coexistence.