What kind of friends should children make?
We may be able to find the answer from Su Shi.
In "Uncle Kai Tells History", I told the children about Su Shi.
We said that whether he was in a high position or demoted to Huangzhou, he has always had many close friends around him.
Today, we will follow Su Shi to learn to make friends and tell these three principles to children.
1. Tell your child to make friends with people of the same frequency.
The great monk Buddha Yin and Su Shi were bonded because of the Buddha.
Su Shi went to visit the Buddha seal, and as soon as he entered the door, the fish and wine were strong, and he knew that the monk had hidden delicious food, but he didn't see it anywhere.
So Su Shi came up with a couplet: "Xiangyangmen is always in spring."
Buddha Yin said smoothly: "There is more than enough celebration for good people."
Su Shi said with a smile: "Since there is fish (Yu) in the chime (Qing), why don't you take it out quickly?"”
Buddha Yin grinned, knowing that he couldn't hide it, so he had to take out the food.
The two of them were under the lotus flower of the Buddha, eating big fish and drinking fine wine, which was really happy.
This kind of same frequency is embodied in all aspects such as knowledge and three views, simply put"Talkable".
What does it matter if you and I have different statuses?
2. Tell your child that making friends can be different and different.
The relationship between Su Shi and Wang Anshi can be summed up in 4 words: love and kill each other.
The two have different literary and political opinions, Wang Anshi keeps ** Su Shi, and Su Shi keeps writing books to fight back.
Later, someone framed Su Shi for writing poems satirizing the new law, and the Wutai poetry case broke out, and the emperor was so angry that he wanted to kill him.
But at this time, Wang Anshi stepped forward: "In the world of Shengming, there is a reason to kill talents?"”
Because of his intercession, Su Shi saved his life in the end.
I told the children about this scene in "Uncle Kai Tells History":
When Wang Anshi went into the wilderness, Su Shi waited on the road that must be passed, and the two of them talked for three days and three nights, and the opponents of the first generation finally reconciled at this moment.
Wang Anshi is a boulder, a stone that cannot be climbed over on the road of Su Shi's life.
Because of this boulder, Su Shi's original Tengda life turned the bow of the ship and fell in the ravine, but he also achieved an immortal writer.
3. Tell your child that you must cherish the friends who can stay by your side when you are at a low point.
In Su Shi's exile career, Chen Jichang helped him the most.
is also the protagonist of the famous "Hedong Lion's Roar" allusion.
On the way to be demoted to Huangzhou, Su Shi met Chen Jichang, who had not met for more than ten years, this person was a second-generation official, with a luxury villa in Luoyang and thousands of acres of fertile land in the north.
The famous nobles of Huangzhou had to line up if they wanted to invite Chen Jichang to dinner.
But he didn't see anything, but liked to go to Su Shi's dilapidated hut to live permanently, sometimes for months.
The officialdom struggle was cruel, and many people avoided talking about Su Shi, but Chen Jichang often helped print poetry collections, received money and materials, and helped Su Shi improve his life.
The love of charcoal in the snow also made the two become irreversible friends.
It is precisely because of his strong personality charm that Su Shi has met many close friends who love him and like him.
So, be sure to tell your child,Only by enriching yourself can you truly attract friends.
When the flowers bloom, the butterflies will naturally come.
From the story of Su Shi to the stories of countless historical figures. "Uncle Kai Tells History" tells the story of one living historical figure after another for the baby who has just come into contact with history, and integrates the scenes of historical events into the story.
From the Xia, Shang and Zhou dynasties to the Yuan, Ming and Qing dynasties,In the vast history of the sea,It's not about keeping major historical events in mindRather, it is deeply involved in historical eventsEmpathize with vivid historical figures.
If you think about it carefully, every character in history is staging a big scene.
The decisions made by every historical figure in the face of choices affect and drive the course of history. "History has a door, open!"I hope that every child who has listened to "Uncle Kai Tells History" will be willing to open the history book by himself from now on, see the majesty and beauty in it, and enter the bigger world from a small self.
"Uncle Kai Talks History".
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