Before the end of the marriage, the wife's maiden house will be demolished, and the husband: 6 sets of demolition houses will be completed and then leave
Before her marriage, Zhou Xinghua was a young woman who loved life and worked 4 days off a month. She buys a variety of snacks, enjoys the time at the best movie at home, or buys the ingredients herself to cook a delicious meal. On holidays, she likes to go out shopping, and she is not stingy with the highest clothes, even if it is four or five hundred yuan a piece. Even if it is an average price of clothing, only a few dozen yuan, she will buy it willingly. She likes to dress up to boost her confidence and work harder at work.
When she was young, Zhou Xinghua lived a free and easy life without getting married, earning money to spend by herself, and enjoying a beautiful independent life. She was immersed in the happy time before her marriage, full of joy. Unconsciously, time flies, and Zhou Xinghua is 28 years old. Her parents began to urge her to get married, believing that she was as immature as a little girl all day long. In response to her family's expectations, Zhou Xinghua participated in several blind dates and finally met Yao Danian. Yao Danian is 35 years old, and it is the first time to participate in a blind date, and he even invited Zhou Xinghua to a milk tea shop and was only willing to order a cup of milk tea, which seemed a little stingy. Zhou Xinghua led him to the door of the milk tea shop, and Yao Danian saw that the milk tea ** was as high as 18 yuan, so he chose to leave without hesitation. Yao Danian said with a smile: "This thing is better than boiled water to quench your thirst, let's go to my house to drink saliva, anyway, my house is not far from here." He seems to be unwilling to accept the ** character of milk tea, and decides to enjoy simple water at home.
On the first blind date, Zhou Xinghua felt thirsty, but Yao Danian was very stingy about buying a cup of milk tea. Ignoring the big sun, he asked Zhou Xinghua to accompany him for a full twenty minutes to get home, and then directly poured her a glass of boiled water. Subsequently, Yao Danian defended himself: "It's not that I'm reluctant to buy milk tea for you, but I feel that the 18 yuan for that small cup of milk tea is really not worth it." When people reach middle age, drinking more water is more beneficial to the body. Zhou Xinghua was seven years younger than Yao Danian, and was a little confused by Yao Danian's words. The ingenuity lies in the fact that Yao Danian cleverly transformed the fact that he was stingy into a kind of concern for her good, saying that milk tea is not good for her health, so she is not allowed to drink it. At that time, Zhou Xinghua thought about it for a while and felt: "Yao Danian also has a certain amount of truth in what he said. Later, she discovered that Yao Danian had her own set of money-saving standards for anything that needed to be spent. During the blind date experience on the same day, Zhou Xinghua felt sore feet because she had been walking for too long and wanted to take a taxi home. However, Yao Danian immediately stopped her. Yao Danian said: "Why do you want to take a taxi?This is a sign of laziness. You should train yourself to walk more, and if you can't do it, take the bus. Just like I go to work every day, I choose to walk, which is both a way to exercise and save money. ”
In this short distance, you can walk back, or you really can't spend 2 yuan to take the bus, and there is really no need to spend more than a dozen yuan to take a taxi. At Yao Danian's insistence, Zhou Xinghua was persuaded by him again, and she began to agree that taking a taxi back was lazy and a waste of money. Yao Danian decided to continue dating Zhou Xinghua. Considering his age, it is not easy to find a girl under the age of 30 to marry. It just so happens that Zhou Xinghua is only 28 years old, and she is innocent and simple, she can listen to Yao Danian's casual reasoning. Yao Danian felt that such a girl was easy to control after marrying home. Although Yao Danian was reluctant to spend money during the blind date stage, Zhou Xinghua had a good impression of him. First of all, Yao Danian's job is very stable, and he is not the kind of unemployed person who often lies at home without a job. Secondly, Yao Danian is a suitable person for life, his home is neat and orderly, and it is not messy at all. Moreover, he has always bought his own vegetables and cooked, which is quite valuable. Finally, and most crucially, although Yao Danian is 35 years old, his hair has not fallen out, his figure is still slender, and he is a person who exercises regularly.
Originally, Zhou Xinghua thought that Yao Danian was a down-to-earth and steady person, and thought that she would live a happy life after marrying him. , but the truth made her realize that her fantasies were too naïve. At the first acquaintance stage, Yao Danian spent more than a dozen yuan to buy a bottle of milk tea for Zhou Xinghua, which exposed his too much importance to money. More critically, the age difference between the two is 7 years, resulting in communication barriers and lifestyle incoordination. These problems become more prominent after marital cohabitation. Zhou Xinghua's heart has always maintained the innocence of a little girl, so after marriage, she still frequently buys various snacks, cooks hearty meals every weekend, and often buys fashion clothes to dress herself. When she first got married, Zhou Xinghua asked Yao Danian to hand over her salary card, thinking that she could only feel at ease if she had financial power. In order to accommodate Zhou Xinghua, Yao Danian initially obediently handed over the salary card to her. When he saw Zhou Xinghua buying snacks, making delicious food, and shopping, his mood became extremely irritable, accusing Zhou Xinghua of being immature, not knowing how to live a practical life, and always spending money to buy some useless things.
Yao Danian's reproach made Zhou Xinghua feel painful, and she didn't understand why "enjoying food happily after work turned out to be a squandering in Yao Danian's eyes." Zhou Xinghua thinks that people don't make money just to spend?Isn't it natural to buy snacks, cook treats, or buy clothes to reward yourself for the holidays?She didn't understand why Yao Danian couldn't understand this. Although Yao Danian also works hard, he usually walks to work, prepares meals by himself, and only wears a few sets of clothes for a long time. Drink only plain water, and meals are often simple white rice with scrambled eggs with tomatoes and a serving of greens. Yao Danian was reluctant to spend money and saved most of his salary. After getting married, he handed over his salary card to Zhou Xinghua, but it was only a few months. This clashed with Zhou Xinghua's philosophy.
Zhou Xinghua often buys snacks and tries to cook food from time to time, which makes Yao Danian feel restless, for fear that she will spend all the money he handed over. Therefore, Yao Danian quietly reported the loss of his salary card, applied for a new card and kept it privately. He didn't tell Zhou Xinghua and let her find out for herself. When Zhou Xinghua discovered this change, Yao Danian said indifferently: "In the future, we will adopt the AA system, I will manage my own money, and I will not ask about your money, you can spend it as you like, I will treat it as if I have never seen it." Zhou Xinghua couldn't help but burst into tears after hearing this, and she couldn't help but question Yao Danian: "I did what I wanted?"Isn't it normal for me to live like this before I got married, eating and drinking on holidays?"Not everyone values money as much as you do, and would rather make ends meet than spend a penny on your savings. People earn money to improve their quality of life, not to put it on the shelf. Zhou Xinghua hoped that Yao Danian could understand her, but Yao Danian didn't bother to listen to her explanation. He just said coldly: "You are just greedy, lazy and gluttonous, don't make excuses." The two communicated fruitlessly, broke up unhappily, and began their married life under the AA system.
Zhou Xinghua finally realized that Yao Danian, who was seven years older than herself, was indeed a very stubborn person. Although Yao Danian had a house in his family, the house he bought was not renovated, and they have been living in a rough house since they got married. Originally, Zhou Xinghua thought that Yao Danian would definitely start to decorate the ** house soon after getting married. Yao Danian has no plans to decorate the house at all, he said: "In fact, there is no need to decorate the house, and spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on decoration is a waste of money." Therefore, after getting married, Yao Danian simply spent a few hundred yuan to make the basic layout of the house, and then kept Zhou Xinghua living in such a rough house. After getting married, Zhou Xinghua often urged Yao Danian to decorate the house as soon as possible, but Yao Danian always replied reluctantly: "We are AA system, I don't want to decorate." I think I can live in a rough house like this, and if you don't think you can live in it, you can spend your own money to renovate it. ”
Zhou Xinghua finally recognized that Yao Danian was a modern version of Grande, and she was opposed to anything that involved spending money, and insisted on her own theory. Although it can't be said that he is wrong, his extreme thrift and uncomfortable lifestyle of spending money make Zhou Xinghua really unbearable. In the end, Zhou Xinghua filed for divorce, ending this strange marriage and the strange AA system. When the marriage came to an end, Zhou Xinghua's maiden family suddenly faced demolition, and the originally huge old house was split into six sets of demolition houses. After deciding to divorce, Zhou Xinghua plans to go back to her parents' home to replan her future. However, Yao Danian put forward a request: "Wait until the six sets of demolition houses are processed before divorcing, won't your mother's demolition house become your house?"I also have the legal right to own half of your house, and if you want a divorce, you have to give me half of the house. ”
Yao Danian once fantasized about having a wife of a demolition household, but he didn't expect that he was about to get divorced, but his wife became a demolition household. Faced with this change, he decided to delay the divorce and negotiate the demolition of the house first. In the past, when Yao Danian proposed to adopt the AA system with Zhou Xinghua, he had a unique set of logical theories. And now, when he wants to get a share of Zhou Xinghua's family's demolition house, he also has his own set of logical theories. He told Zhou Xinghua: "Your mother's demolition house has been divided before we divorced, which means that I also have half of these properties during the marriage." You have to file for divorce after dividing these houses, and you can't take my house away without a divorce. Zhou Xinghua responded to Yao Danian and said: "Don't daydream, if you deliberately delay and don't divorce, I will ask my parents to sell all the demolished houses, and not a cent of the proceeds from the sale of the house will go into my pocket at that time." I see how long you can delay, even if you set your sights on this house, whether it is sold or put in the name of a relative, it will definitely have nothing to do with you in the end. ”
Summary:Yao Danian is really shrewd and calculating, he always thinks about how to put other people's property into his own pocket, and he is not willing to use his own property at all. Such a person will be confined to his own unique mode of thinking for the rest of his life, and anyone who marries him is doomed to bad luck, so get a divorce as soon as possible.