The protagonist of the story is a girl next to me, and I was deeply shocked and outraged to learn about her experience. Her father was a driver in the transportation industry, earning a good income, earning thousands of dollars a day. However, instead of giving the money to his wife, he had more than one illegitimate child with other women. This behavior not only led to a life of poverty for her and her mother, but also led to the problem of violence in the family.
In other words, her family experienced extreme hardship. She lives with her mother in a damp and dilapidated old house, while her father is outside building a luxurious new house for **. She has witnessed countless scenes of domestic violence against her mother, and even twice was hospitalized with broken bones. The mother filed for divorce several times, but was beaten by her husband each time. Once, my mother finally ran away from home when she couldn't bear it anymore, but when my father chased after her, he persuaded her to return with a letter of guarantee, confessional words, and threats. The father's motivation was mainly to need her mother to take care of her deaf grandmother, who was in her 80s, and the mother was worried that such a divorce reputation would affect herMarriage
Even more unacceptable is that when her brother was less than a year old, she discovered that her father was having an affair with the wife of a family friend. Her father used to come to her house frequently for dinner, and he asked him to take care of her when he went out to work. She happened to see her father come out of the woman's house, his face flushed and triumphant. Angry, she went home and told her mother all about it, and together they went to the woman to theorize.
However, the woman was extremely shameless and lifted her pants in front of everyone, and she, as an 18-year-old girl, could not stand the humiliation and turned around and kicked the woman. This time it was attractedPolice, the woman not only called the police, but also used the relationship to detain her mother for half a month. At this time, her younger brother was not yet a year old and had not yet been weaned, so she took care of him at home to breastfeed until his mother came out. The woman kept pestering, and even found someone to detain her. At this time, she had to leave her brother in the care of her aunt for a week.
After listening to her story, tears broke down in my heart. My heart aches and outrages for all the suffering she has been through. I never thought her family would be so complicated, but she has always maintained a gentle and virtuous character. She even has a boyfriend who is not in good condition, and she takes care of him like a son and cares about him in every way. However, she suffered such a betrayal. Regarding her experience, I advised her to find a good partner in the future to provide her mother with a happy old age.
However, she felt powerless now, and her only hope was to wait until her father was too old to walk and had no money, and to see how he coped with it. I felt deeply helpless, such a reckless father was infuriating, but she could only wait for the time to come. This story reminded me of the importance of family for personal growth and well-being. Family is a harbor for a person's growth, whether it is in adolescence or adulthood, we need the warmth and support of family. However, it is sad that some irresponsible, selfish fathers choose to put their own desires and interests above their families.
I hope that girl will be able to find someone who truly loves her later in life and live a happy life. She is a very good girl, and I sincerely hope that she can find someone who truly cherishes and loves her and lives a happy life. When it comes to domestic violence and injury, I firmly believe that only self-determination can find inner peace and happiness. In the face of such a difficult situation, I believe that she has enough courage and a strong heart to overcome all difficulties and finally find her own happiness. This story also made me understand that happiness is not just about whether you have been hurt or not, but more importantly, about being able to learn to love yourself, protect yourself, and choose a life that is good for you.