We are all ordinary people, living in a society full of money and vulgarity, inevitably being coerced by the complicated world, falling into a situation of competing for fame and fortune, wealth, status, titles, etc. have become important criteria to measure the value of life. However, no matter how good others are, they can't learn, and no matter how good others are, they have nothing to do with themselves. I like a saying very much, that is, "Don't compare yourself with others, feel at ease." ”
A person's life is a process of enlightenment while walking. Many times, most of our troubles are compared to each other. However, everyone's talents, interests, and values are different, and we can't blindly imitate others, but find a development path that suits us. As the saying goes, "People are more angry than people." ”
There is a good saying, the tiredness of life is tired in the heart, and the tiredness of the heart comes from survival and half from comparison. Many times, the reason why I envy a person is because I don't live like each other, and when I really live like each other, I may understand that people can't be perfect in everything in this world. Some people, who look glamorous on the surface, get closer, only to find that no matter how rich people are, they have troubles, and no matter how happy they are, they also have sorrows. No matter how perfect people are imagined, they will have their own regrets, and accepting their imperfect self is the real happiness.
Life is a process of gradual enlightenment, the first half of life to see the world, see the world, see all beings, the second half of life to understand life, see yourself, see nature. Experience is in the front, comprehension is in the back, awakening is always too late, attachment is always too deep, and growth is always an afterthought. Living in this mortal world, even if there are thousands of acres of fertile land, it is also a daily eclipse of three meals;Even if there are tens of millions of houses, they will stay overnight. Each person has his own way of living, each person has his own creation, and there is no comparison between people. In ordinary days, live your own fireworks life, you don't have to look up to anyone, you don't have to envy anyone, you live in a humble room, there is no mess of silk and bamboo, there is no case of labor, there is a lot of talk and laughter, there is no white ding, every day coarse tea and light rice, but also eat at ease, sleep peacefully, and live happily.
Your own life is your own, with a simple heart, go your own way, see your own scenery, live your own life, and do your own things well, which is more important than anything else. Sometimes, the most painful thing in life is not how much better others are really than you, but that you always see the good of others and ignore yourself. The mountains have the majesty of the mountains, the water has the vastness of the water, each of us is not a unique landscape, but we lack a pair of appreciative eyes. Instead of envying others, it is better to do what you like, become the person you want to be, and live a landscape of your own life trajectory.
In the world of fireworks, no one's life is smooth sailing, if the heart is safe and sound, everything will be peaceful. People, people, never lower yourself to cater to others. Allowing others to be self-willed also allows oneself to be oneself and one's soul to nourish itself. In this world, everyone has their own life, and there is no need to live as someone else's shadow. While we envy others, others may be envying us, just like Bian Zhilin said: You stand on the bridge and look at the scenery, and the people who look at the scenery look at you from upstairs. The bright moon decorates your windows, and you decorate other people's dreams.