In the past few days, Sammo Hung's daughter-in-law and actor Zhou Jiawei has been criticized by netizens for being too dirty and messy at home. The few ** she took in her luxury villa before caused criticism from the outside world, and the walls and floors in the picture were stuffed with all kinds of sundries, and the scene was terrifying.
This incident quickly caused heated discussions on the Internet, and netizens began to "export" their cleaning secrets, and some people expressed their understanding from Zhou Jiawei's point of view. The reason is that Zhou Jiawei takes care of the two children and housework single-handedly, and it is inevitable that her ability is limited.
This incident does reflect the common problems of many families, so let's take care of housewives who live under great pressure of housework.
Zhou Jiawei, an actor, married the rich second-generation Hong Tianming in 2012. The couple live in a luxury villa in Mid-Levels Central, Hong Kong, with a three-storey house built on a hillside, with a single floor area of more than 2,000 square feet, with a total price of up to HK$30 million.
The location here is excellent, the scenery is beautiful, and it is the first choice of many Hong Kong celebrities. The couple also has two lovely children, the eldest is 10 years old and the younger is 8 years old, which is the age of mischievousness.
Recently, Zhou Jiawei filmed ** in this mansion and posted it on the Internet, and the result was a "terrifying" scene at home**. The old couple talked and laughed, but the walls and floors full of debris behind them attracted everyone's attention.
In the picture, the walls are covered with school bags, clothes, toys, etc., and the long table and floor in the living room are also stacked with piles of items, and there may be many blind spots that the camera did not capture. This sudden "hellish scene" frightened many netizens into close their mouths, asking "what kind of laundry is this" and "why is it so dirty".
In fact, Zhou Jiawei has been found to be too messy at home more than once before. Once, she filmed ** in the kitchen and stairwell, with the same background of walls and floors stuffed with clutter. You can see that there are a lot of shoes on the shoe cabinet at the door, clothes are spread on the stairs, and various school supplies are scattered everywhere.
This level of mess can take up to a week to clean up. After netizens saw it, they rushed to output their cleaning experience: "I have to clean every morning and night", "I may be about to commit such a mess with my obsessive-compulsive disorder".
Zhou Jiawei said in response to ** that because she has been busy with childcare and housework, she can't care about keeping the house clean and tidy. She said: "I am basically alone with my two children, and I take care of all my daily life such as eating, playing, studying, and doing housework. ”
Indeed, it is enough to take care of two children, not to mention all the housework. Under hard work, it is difficult to ensure that there will be no slack when the mind is exhausted.
In fact, Zhou Jiawei and Hung Tianming's home is as large as 6,000 square feet, which is not easy to take care of. But they were very fond of the two children, and prepared a large number of toys and supplies in a glass cabinet on one side. In addition, Zhou Jiawei loves cooking, and the space in the kitchen is occupied by various tableware and spices.
Lockers and shelves that can hold these things are everywhere. The two-story living room alone has several large storage cabinets because of the decoration design and practical functions.
So much space and storage compartment was originally intended for ease of use, but it has become the home of more clutter in the home. All signs show that the family's life has been firmly kidnapped by children and housework, and Zhou Jiawei is under great pressure.
In fact, Zhou Jiawei is not the first Hong Kong star wife to be exposed to be too chaotic at home. We often see in the news and **, the messy picture of the artist's home. The reasons behind it are similar to the situation faced by Zhou Jiawei.
These women take on most of the household responsibilities, taking care of the children and handling all the chores independently. With energy and time stretched thin, and the interest in keeping the room tidy fades as you work day in and day out. What's more, children and all kinds of clutter will cause countless chaos, which has become an inevitable part of family life.
I don't think you should be harsh on these mothers. On the contrary, we should be more concerned about the enormous pressure they are under. In contemporary society, many women choose to give up their careers and work full-time with their husbands and children. The effort and sacrifice involved was enormous, and many of them struggled with great perseverance to balance the needs of their families.
However, little attention seems to be paid to their efforts and difficulties, and only when the family is in a mess will everyone make various comments. In fact, we should give them understanding and support. Don't forget, many of them are working alone to support everything in a family.