A microcosm of an era, a generation!I feel that today's children are lively, cheerful, and cute, and there is a sense of cleverness, on the other hand, in the era where the girl is, most children are wooden, clumsy, and cringe, and always feel a little less generous and smart, at that time the authority of parents is like a holy decree, which cannot be changed!Can't resist!
At that time, children were careful in everything they did, afraid of making mistakes, afraid of being scolded, afraid of being beaten!The girl's parents are relatively open-minded and have never hit their children, the mother will only scold when she is angry, and the father has never hit the child or scolded the child!So much so that for a long, long time, the girl felt that she was very happy because she had the best parents in the world!
In fact, the mother's requirements for girls in all aspects are also strict, and many details have prompts for girls, such as sitting posture, sitting up straight and feet together, such as eating on the table can only be picked up with vegetables nearby, don't pick up vegetables, don't chirp, etc., and usually, especially during the New Year, don't say unlucky words, and try to be careful, don't break things, especially bowls, which are expensive and unlucky!
But the more worried you are, the more nervous you are, the more nervous you are, the easier it is to make mistakes, during the New Year, the girl's elbow still accidentally touched the bowl, and directly swept a small bowl to the ground, and suddenly there was a loud bang, the small bowl was torn apart, and the fragments splashed far away!The girl's heart was pounding, and she was so scared that she didn't dare to speak or look up!I have seen children in the same yard many times before, because they broke their rice bowls, their parents directly threw a loud slap in the face, and the children didn't even dare to cry!You are not allowed to eat any more!After a while, the girl jumped off the bench and tried to pick up the pieces with her hands, when her mother's words came from overhead, "Be safe, don't pick it up with your hands, be careful if you cut your hands, take a broom and a shovel and sweep it out." The mother didn't hit the girl, she didn't even scold the girl, her tone was very calm, the girl's heart gradually calmed down, and the sense of uneasiness slowly disappeared, but she really didn't have the joy and happiness at the beginning, she felt that she was stupid, she couldn't do such a thing, even if she was careful, but she still messed up!
The mother may have seen the girl's frustration and comforted: "Many things may not be as good as they should be even if they work hard!".It's already happening, and it's useless to regret it, you can only have the courage to bear the consequences and try your best to solve it!Next time, you should be more careful and cautious!”
The girl was no longer scared after listening to it, because she knew that it was useless to be afraid, and that only by working hard to do better could there be better results!