If one day, I don't contact you anymore, it's not because I changed my mind, but because I'm disappointed, so I decided to turn away. In life, we inevitably face moments of saying goodbye to people, which is just the norm in the adult world. However, I am not ruthless, but I am learning to let go and get out of my own life, like five fingers of sand, and eventually some people will be left in my world by surprise, and others will automatically quit. In this ever-intertwined world, only by being grateful and learning to see can we live a more fulfilling and comfortable life.
If one day, I no longer take the initiative to contact you, it means that I have let go, I no longer want to have any entanglement with you, and I want to quietly live my own life. It's not because you're bad, it's just that I have my own choice. In life, we continue to interpret the stories of intercourse with people, sometimes beautiful, sometimes lonely, and now, I choose to travel lightly alone. Letting go does not mean forgetting, but learning to accept it, to accept the natural end of the relationship, to accept the blessings given to each other. In the days to come, whether we still cross paths or not, I hope you can live well and be well.
But leaving does not mean being ruthless, but a kind of pampering for yourself. When one person has done well enough, but the other never sees it, such disappointment accumulates and eventually becomes a heavy burden that people cannot bear. Once, I forgave you soft-heartedly again and again, but I was broken by you again and again. Lost in your world, I used to stupidly think that I didn't do well enough, and I hope that if I give a little more, you will be able to turn back, and you will be able to devote yourself to me. However, gradually I understood that there is a kind of person who is always dead and unchangeable. No matter what you do, you can't change him, it will only make your heart more and more disappointed. So, the disappointment was enough, I wanted to leave and never contact again.
If one day, I don't contact you anymore, don't think I'm ruthless, in the adult world, it's actually the same, coming and going, there will always be goodbye to some people. And when I stop contacting you, that's when I'm saying goodbye to you, and I'm starting to live my own life, to live well in my world. You are the same, keep saying goodbye to some people, there will always be people who will automatically withdraw from your life, and there will always be some people who will meet you unexpectedly and stay in your world. We are all passers-by between heaven and earth, we don't have to live too entangled, learn to see the gathering and dispersion of the world, be grateful, and don't say what we owe.
Saying goodbye does not mean that we have forgotten the good things we once had, but it is the only way to grow. In the long course of life, we will meet all kinds of people, some of whom have been with us through the years, and some of whom have just passed by in a hurry. They can lift our hearts or hurt us. But no matter what, every soul that intersects with us has left a unique mark on our lives. Saying goodbye does not mean hatred or giving up, but at this stage, we have already gone our separate ways and need to pursue our own goals and dreams.
Every parting is a baptism in life. Through parting, we can better understand cherishing and grateful. The reunion in the past is a wonderful fate, even if you are separated, you will not forget that journey. In the farewell, we have gained rich life experiences and precious memories, which will become the capital of our growth. So, the moment we say goodbye, we can say goodbye with a smile, because we know that parting is just to be better together.
If one day, I don't contact you anymore, it must be that I am too sad and disappointed enough to want to end the relationship completely and no longer let myself be deeply saddened. In the relationship, I have tried my best, paid my sincerity and efforts, but I have never been able to get your understanding and return. You have hurt my heart again and again, and you have failed to perceive my sincerity and care for you, but have betrayed and failed my kindness. I thought that my efforts could change you, but the reality made me realize that some people cannot be changed. Disappointment and chill have settled in my heart, and I can no longer contact you.
In this relationship, my heart is cold, and my expectations and trust in you are gone. When you are flattered, I help you without anything in return;And when I need you, you make all kinds of excuses to perfunctory me. You are ungrateful, don't blame me for being ruthless. Retribution will come one day, and those who give their hearts will one day meet people who know how to cherish them. The cold heart of the past made me say goodbye to you calmly, and I no longer regard you as a friend and no longer rely on you. People often say that sincerity is the most precious, and when my sincerity is consumed by you, I will take back my treasure and no longer waste it on unworthy people.
Saying goodbye is not easy, especially after a sincere dedication to a person. However, life experiences and lessons have taught us that cherishing sincere people is the most important thing. When we decide to leave, it is not a spur of the moment, but a deliberate conclusion. From now on, I will know how to please myself more, I will love myself and live my life well. I will no longer cry for someone who is not worthy, because I understand that for every cold goodbye, I will have a better future.
In life, we will inevitably face the situation of saying goodbye to others. Maybe it's because of coldness, maybe it's because of indifference, maybe it's because of disappointment, but whatever the reason, we should face it with tolerance and gratitude. In this world, every goodbye is an opportunity to grow, and every departure is an opportunity to harvest. It is important that we be grateful to those who remain in our lives and those who have left, because the experiences and lessons they bring to us are invaluable.
After saying goodbye, we must learn to let go, let go of the sadness and entanglement of the past, and believe in the beauty and hope of the future. Behind every goodbye lies a new beginning, a new journey. On the new road, we will encounter more challenges and difficulties, but as long as we always remain firm and brave, and always believe in ourselves, we will be able to walk out of our ownWonderful life。Therefore, we should be grateful at all times and in all places, and treat every goodbye with tolerance and understanding.