"Mini couple", Zhu Jie and Bachelor Qin's 11-year marriage has both bitter and sweet
There is a proverb that says: when a door closes, a window must open for you.
Zhu Jie, a "pocket girl" with a tortuous life course, has experienced many twists and turns in the journey of life.
Despite the bumpy road ahead, she moved forward with perseverance and perseverance, and finally reached the pinnacle of success with her own efforts.
However, when the marriageable age is approaching, her love with the tall "pocket" Bachelor Qin has been criticized by all walks of life.
There is an opinion that two shorter individuals are not suitable for experiencing love at all, let alone going to the palace of marriage.
Others think that since they are in this "special group", why let themselves and each other fall into the whirlpool?
Others feel that even if such a couple gets married, they will not be able to welcome a new life, so their marriage is destined to be difficult to last.
Despite the difficulties, Zhu Jie and Master Qin successfully walked hand in hand for 11 years of ups and downs.
Time flies, what is their life like now after that marriage experience?
In 011988, Zhu Jie was born in the prairie of Inner Mongolia, her father was tall and handsome, and her mother was a beautiful and kind woman.
Since childhood, Zhu Jie has shown the unique literary and artistic talent of the Mongolian people, not only good at singing and dancing, but also excellent academic performance.
When he was eleven or twelve, the average height of the children of the same age around him had reached 1.45 meters, and some were even as high as 1.67 meters.
And Zhu Jie has been stagnant at a height of about one meter two, as if she was tightly pulled by fate.
Seeing their daughter so petite, Zhu Jie's parents were so anxious that their brows were bent.
The husband is tall and straight, with a height of nearly 18 meters, and the wife is also nearly 17 meters, the couple wondered, why did their daughter become this "condensed version"?
At first, the parents thought that their daughter might be deficient in calcium, so they bought her various nutritional supplements and decided to promote growth through "food supplements".
Eager to grow taller quickly, Zhu Jie is not picky about anything her parents buy.
However, no matter how hard she ate, her height still stagnated.
When she was in junior high school, her teacher always arranged for her to sit in the first row due to her small size.
Her small body and immature face make her incompatible with other classmates.
A junior high school student, but like a child in a kindergarten class.
Seeing that the "food supplement" was fruitless, the parents felt helpless, so they had to take Zhu Jie to the hospital for a comprehensive examination.
After a long wait, they ushered in a fact that they had to accept: Zhu Jie suffered from "congenital lack of growth hormone", and the chance of growing up was slim.
Once diagnosed, the parents' faces showed endless frustration, while Zhu Jie seemed to see that the sky was about to fall.
Faced with her parents' heavier mood than herself, the sensible Zhu Jie immediately suppressed her tears and comforted her parents instead.
After becoming a "pocket person", Zhu Jie began to experience endless ridicule.
Some malicious classmates showed no mercy and jokingly called her "dwarf winter melon" and "gourd baby".
Even relatives and friends began to look at this unfortunate family strangely, talking behind their backs that they seemed to have raised a "monster".
Since then, Zhu Jie has changed from an optimistic and cheerful girl to a taciturn woman, no longer willing to go out, and no longer willing to socialize with anyone.
However, fate did not spare the poor girl.
When he was 14 years old, his parents divorced due to emotional discord, and he has not been heard from since.
The loving mother did not feel disgusted with Zhu Jie's loss of pillars, and has been silently accompanying her through the road of growth.
Families have lost their breadwinners, and poverty has followed.
As the saying goes, "The children of poor families are in charge of the house early!".”
In order to let her mother live a happy life, the young Zhu Jie quickly became mature and smiled positively at life.
In the trials of life, she gradually overcame her fear of gossip and became more determined in the pursuit of her dreams.
After graduating from high school, she decided to apply for art school and take on the responsibilities of her family as soon as possible.
When she revealed to her mother her desire to enroll in art school, she was immediately opposed by her mother.
The reason for the mother's refusal was straightforward, but from the heart: "Child, you are too small, will others accept you?"”
These words deeply stung Zhu Jie, but also inspired her to be more determined to fight against fate.
Mom, I'm going to make it, please trust me!”
Zhu Jie's firm tone made Zhu Mu nod with tears in her eyes.
After successfully passing the cultural and talent assessment, Zhu Jie entered the interview process.
The interviewer glanced at her, and finally said with a regretful face: "Classmate, if you are taller, the future will be limitless!"”
Although the interviewer's words were tactful, Zhu Jie had already understood the ending.
If you can reach a height of 16 meters, how can it be called "pocket"?
If she could grow up normally, how could her father leave the house?
If she was an ordinary person, how could she be constantly ridiculed?
When she returned home after being defeated, Zhu Jie locked herself in her room and instantly threw herself on the bed, tears welling up.
For the sake of her daughter, Zhu's mother, who has always been honest and obedient, decided to try her "cheeky" luck.
The next day, she carefully selected a bunch of gifts and went to the house of the principal of the art school to intercede, hoping that he would "make an exception" for her daughter.
Under Zhu's mother's hard pleading, the principal fell into a deep dilemma.
After all, school rules are in front of you, and you can't easily cross the red line.
Zhu Jie's touching deeds spread throughout the school and resonated with many teachers and classmates.
So, everyone spontaneously organized themselves and went into the principal's office and begged him to take in the poor girl.
Under the difficulty of public affection, the principal felt sympathy and finally agreed to let Zhu Jie enroll.
In the days of studying, Zhu Jie received encouragement and help from her classmates, and the once cold environment became warmer.
Seeing that Zhu Jie was powerless because of her short stature, her classmates took the initiative to lend a helping hand to help her get water, and some even helped wash her clothes.
The teacher who cared about her also specially installed training equipment for her ...... suitable for her height
In 2009, Zhu Jie successfully graduated from art school.
During that time, she submitted a large number of resumes to the job search platform, full of anticipation for the future.
Soon after, she received an offer from a performance troupe in Xi'an, and left her mother and hurried to work.
The dream is full, but the reality seems skinny.
During her work in the performance troupe, due to her small size, Zhu Jie always became the "focus" of attention on the stage.
Despite the constant commercial performances, she did not live a happy life.
According to Zhu Jie's recollection, during a performance, a drunk man learned that she was a Mongolian girl and threw down a stack of money to ask her to drink.
Drink the wine, and the money on the table will be yours. ”
Facing the drunk man in front of her and the table full of wine, Zhu Jie was at a loss for a while.
Under pressure from the troupe, patrons are considered supreme and cannot be provoked in any way.
In desperation, Zhu Jie had no choice but to pick up the wine glass and drink cup after glass, but she had to continue when she was dizzy.
However, the drunkard persecuted her mercilessly: "Aren't the Mongols good at drinking?"Why did it stop?”
Zhu Jie has experienced similar scenes many times.
In order to earn more money, she had no choice but to go out to find a job, hoping to improve her mother's living situation as soon as possible.
When applying for a waitress at the hotel, the boss made some guesses about her and asked "seriously", "Can you carry the tray?"You don't look like you're an adult, do you?”
Facing the boss's mocking gaze, Zhu Jie could only leave helplessly.
Applying to be a waitress was not feasible, and she tried to do logistical tasks such as washing dishes, doing odd jobs, etc.
However, different attempts have brought the same results.
The head chef smiled and asked her, "Little doll, why don't you study hard, you can't reach the sink." ”
Finding a job repeatedly hit a wall, and even taking a taxi, the driver was reluctant to let her get into the car, lest she could not afford to pay the fare.
Many years later, recalling the days when she was defeated by social reality, Zhu Jie still has lingering palpitations.
One day in May 2009, Zhu Jie saw the story of a girl named "Wu Xiaoli" in boredom, which caught her attention.
Wu Xiaoli is also a pocket person, although she is a "special group", she has a cheerful personality and a bright smile.
When interacting with others, she does not show inferiority, and even has a bit of a "soul teacher" demeanor.
Wu Xiaoli also plays an important role in the "Beijing Dragon Shadow Puppet Art Troupe" and has a pivotal position.
The life of a normal person is full of difficulties, let alone a pocket person
Inspired by Wu Xiaoli, Zhu Jie made up her mind to join her art troupe.
Thinking about it, Zhu Jie resolutely submitted her resignation to the leader and embarked on a journey to Beijing, the capital thousands of miles away.
On the day of the interview, a young man from Hubei named Bachelor Qin silently broke into Zhu Jie's life.
The two of them never expected that the web of fate would bind them tightly together and become a lifelong bond.
Bachelor Qin, born in 1986, is two years older than Zhu Jie.
Although he is only 1.3 meters tall, 4 cm taller than Zhu Jie, he cannot escape the fate of his "pocket" figure.
On that day, Bachelor Qin, who had no acting experience, stood in front of Zhu Jie by chance, and the result was predictable that he was eliminated without surprise.
Prior to this, Master Qin had a "** head" and his standing posture was "cool".
Everyone present thought that he must have a great talent, and the expectation reached its peak.
But unexpectedly, his "handsomeness" was eliminated in less than three seconds.
In contrast, Zhu Jieyin, who had studied art at a professional art school and had two years of performance experience, was successfully admitted.
came with confidence, but it ended in failure, and Master Qin was quite disappointed.
However, this seemingly "pocket-sized" boy has a life experience comparable to inspirational.
When looking back on his life experience, his title of "Bachelor" and even "Warrior" is well deserved.
Like Zhu Jie, Bachelor Qin experienced the indifference of the world's gaze from the moment he was declared by the doctor that it was difficult to grow taller.
But as a strong "little man", he was not discouraged by this.
From then on, he dreamed of becoming a doctor when he grew up, and he wanted to be a doctor who could relieve the pain of patients.
With this grand dream, he worked hard and was finally admitted to Hunan Medical University.
After graduating, he became an attending physician in intestinal surgery, general surgery, and obstetrics and gynecology, and his dream of becoming a doctor was close at hand.
However, the harsh reality once again stood in his way.
Years later, Mr. Qin still vividly remembers his embarrassing experience when he first followed the teacher on ward rounds.
That day, he followed behind the teacher with a small book and a pen, with a serious face.
After the ward rounds, when the patients or their families saw Master Qin again, they thought he was the teacher's son, and they flocked to the hospital to play.
Despite Master Qin's incessant explanations, almost no one believed him.
It wasn't until the introduction of his colleagues that everyone reluctantly admitted his identity.
It's ridiculous and regrettable that due to his short stature and baby face, no patient wants to accept his **.
After months of hard work in the hospital, Master Qin never really participated in a single operation, and his medical skills seemed to have nowhere to be used.
Bachelor Qin was deeply disheartened and in pain. One day, when he returned home, his grandmother unexpectedly proposed, "Son, let's have an appendix surgery for grandma." ”
This sudden request made Master Qin momentarily confused. Grandma has always been physically tough, why would she suddenly want to cut her appendix?
After a simple thought, he quickly realized that his grandmother's good intentions were actually trying to cheer him up.
Grandma, you're really not sick and don't need surgery!Master Qin decisively refused, even if he couldn't become a doctor, he couldn't use his grandmother as an experimental subject.
If you don't even dare to do this, it proves that you have learned in vain all these years and have no medical skills at all!Grandma's encouragement made Master Qin know that cutting the appendix had no effect on his grandmother's body, so he gritted his teeth and agreed.
On the day of the operation, under the guidance of several teachers, Mr. Qin successfully removed the appendix for his grandmother. This was the first time in his life that he had undergone surgery, and the target of the operation turned out to be his grandmother, which made him have mixed feelings.
Soon after, he persuaded his family to quit his career as a doctor and embark on a new life journey.
His choice is probably because he realized the taste, and his determination to bravely face reality and pay for his lover is worthy of everyone's admiration.
It was also by chance that Mr. Qin got acquainted with Wu Xiaoli on TV and felt the "power of the group" she was in.
He decided to join the "Pocket Man Shadow Puppet Art Troupe", but failed in the interview.
Bachelor Qin went through ups and downs and realized his "dream of being a doctor", but he did not give up lightly at this moment.
Recalling all this, he immediately sent a text message to Wu Xiaoli, asking her to intercede with the regiment leader.
Two travelers who fell in fate, meeting is fate!
After Wu Xiaoli learned of Bachelor Qin's situation, she was on a business trip to Shanghai and quickly called the head of the regiment
It would be a shame to miss out on Bachelor Qin, who is an outstanding doctor who graduated from a medical university and is unique among the pocket-sized groups in the world. Although he doesn't have outstanding talent at the moment, he can bring great energy to our group. ”
The story shows that Master Qin forged ahead bravely in the face of adversity and finally found his own path. This history of struggle tells us that there may be ups and downs in life, but sticking to your dreams will eventually usher in your own glory.
Under the persuasion of Wu Xiaoli, the head of the art troupe finally agreed to the joining of Master Qin.
Once in the art troupe, Mr. Qin fully demonstrated his versatility, and also served as a follow-up doctor and psychologist.
His addition has not only saved the team a lot of medical costs, but also brought hope to those colleagues who suffer from psychological disorders.
Zhu Jie is the most eye-catching girl in the team, and naturally she is also the most concerned.
In order to win her heart, the boys in the team compete to take care of her, even at the expense of teaching what they have learned.
Master Qin not only helped her in her talents, but also took good care of her life.
Unlike other suitors, Master Qin has kept a low profile, mainly because he can't fit into the ranks of others.
Soon after, he quietly released a time bomb, claiming that "the person Zhu Jie likes is me".
This "late-compreced" pursuit method stunned other suitors, and at the same time, it also prompted Zhu Jie to begin to secretly pay attention to Master Qin.
Zhu Jie's suitors have launched all kinds of courtesy, from small to large, all of them are extremely thoughtful. And although Bachelor Qin likes her, he has never confessed, making people unable to figure out his true intentions.
Zhu Jie's heart was full of doubts, until her birthday, she received a pair of shoes that she had been wishing for a long time but had never bought.
These beautiful shoes come with a set of clothes that go perfectly with them.
As we all know, the clothes of the pocket people are small in size, but the design is exquisite, which is very different from the average children's clothing.
Before putting on this set of clothes and shoes, Zhu Jie finally realized that after Bachelor Qin learned that she liked the shoes, he began to secretly save money, and secretly measured the size of the shoes, and finally bought them as a birthday gift for her.
Bachelor Qin's care and gentleness completely moved Zhu Jie and opened the door to her love world.
Since then, the two have officially established a relationship.
However, their emotional path is full of many doubts and troubles because of their "pocket identity".
In the art troupe, they are regarded as the envy of the fairy couples and are full of blessings.
However, when walking hand in hand on the street, passers-by think that they are "precocious", and the accusations they make are unbearable.
In the face of all kinds of doubts, the young couple couldn't defend themselves, so they could only endure it silently.
Seeing that her beloved was in tears because of the remarks of the outside world, Master Qin comforted her and said, "Don't care about those worldly eyes, I will always be by your side." ”
These words were worth a thousand words, Zhu Jie leaned happily beside him, and sweetness overflowed the corners of her eyes.
In 2010, Zhu Jie suddenly received an invitation to the hit program "China's Got Talent", which made her both happy and worried.
In the face of such a huge stage, what should I do if there is an embarrassing situation?
After many considerations, she asked Master Qin for advice.
Go ahead, you'll do it!”
On the stage, Zhu Jie wore a white gauze and "broke out of the cocoon", and sang the song "Firefly" with Yi Nengjing, which instantly ignited the entire stage.
Each line of the lyrics is like a true portrayal of her life experience:
FirefliesFireflies fly slowly, and the wind blows gently in the summer nights.
Children who are afraid of the dark can sleep in peace and let the fireflies give you a little light.
Burning small figures at night, illuminating the direction for travelers on the night road.
The short life strives to shine and make the dark world full of hope.
After the singing, Zhu Jie expressed her heart with this song: "I am like a little firefly, although I am small, I have to work hard to shine ......."”
Subsequently, Master Qin appeared on the stage, he got rid of his usual restraint, and confessed to Zhu Jie affectionately: "Zhu Jie, I like everything about you." ”
This confession shook the whole scene, and the judges and the audience burst into tears.
This pair of unfortunate mandarin ducks, among more than 8 million pocket people around the world, have the same body shape and appearance as children, but they have the same right to chase their dreams as normal people. Whether it's in love or career, you shouldn't be treated unfairly.
When the two hugged each other tightly, they won everyone's blessings.
In 2011, Bachelor Qin and Zhu Jie held a grand wedding in the park, and the couple, who would never grow up, locked each other's lives tightly with marriage.
In 2014, Zhu Jie was invited to star in the TV series "Cherry Red: Pocket Mother", through this work, the national audience has a deeper understanding of the ups and downs of the life of the "pocket group".
After the end of the play, Zhu Jie returned to the art troupe, although it was difficult to get another drama appointment, but she and Bachelor Qin both had stable jobs and no longer worried about their livelihoods.
More importantly, they are well versed in the true meaning of contentment and happiness, and do not pursue great wealth and luxury, but only want to be sincerely accompanied by each other and bear the joys, sorrows and sorrows of life together.
Regarding the question of childbirth, Zhu Jie specially recorded a ** to respond.
"Because of the high risk of having a baby in a pocket, we decided not to have a child despite the advanced medical technology available today," she explains. As parents, we are responsible for our lives. ”
Bachelor Qin next to him poked his head out and firmly said that he would not have children.
Time flies, this "lovely couple" has walked hand in hand for 11 years, and still maintains the sweetness of first love.
At the end of the story, I wish them eternal happiness, and at the same time, I hope that the society can pay more attention to the "pocket group" and provide them with a fair living environment and career platform, with more care and less discrimination.
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