In life or work, you will always have a good impression of some women, and the inexplicable dislike of some women may be just a small detail, or even just an action, which highlights a woman's three views.
The charm of a woman is not only in appearance, but also in cultivation.
A woman's temperament must be the accumulation of her character, experience, knowledge, and environment, and there are five things that are really too cheap, and women must not do it.
1 Don't break your mouth.
The problem of a broken mouth will really affect your family and work, and it will directly affect your own happiness.
Some women like to gossip and spread other people's private affairs everywhere, and the east and west are short, and they spread it in the clouds, but they don't know that most people are very disgusted with this kind of behavior.
This kind of person will talk about others today, and he may also talk about you tomorrow, so this kind of behavior is very cheap, and you must stay away from such a woman.
A woman with a broken mouth in the family never thinks good or bad things, and it is easy to cause family conflicts, and she never feels that it is her own reason.
At work, people with broken mouths like to elevate themselves and fill their poor self-esteem by ridiculing and trampling on others, which can offend others at least and lose their jobs.
If you often can't help but want to discuss others, please correct it immediately, it's really too cheap.
2 In the presence of the people, he loves to whisper.
At work or at family gatherings, there will always be one or two people, looking down and whispering, looking up at everyone from time to time.
It gives people a very uncomfortable feeling, even if you don't say anything to others, seeing you whispering, others feel disrespected, this kind of behavior is particularly cheap.
If you whisper in front of others, it not only gives people a feeling of rejection, but also easily causes unnecessary misunderstanding and suspicion, so if you can say it publicly, say it loudly, and if you can't say it, you can say it in private.
3 Severe emotionality.
This type of woman is usually sensitive and suspicious, glass-hearted.
Greeting people on the way, if others don't pay attention, a blockbuster movie begins to play out in her heart: What did I do yesterday to offend her?How did she do this?What's the big .......
Then caught up with that person, his emotions exploded, and he was outdone, but others were just thinking about the problem, and they didn't notice her saying hello at all, and in the days to come, there is a high probability that this person will avoid her.
At work, if the team has discordant opinions, it is imagined that everyone is attacking her, full of grievances and complaints, and often crying to the leader.
When our abilities don't match our emotions, your emotions can ruin you.
4 Too much publicity.
If people are too ostentatious, they will bring disaster. ”
A flamboyant person must be an immature person who likes to show off, but what he shows off is often what is lacking in his heart.
The essence of showing off is actually low self-esteem, the more people like to show off, the stronger the inferiority complex, and they are eager to be the focus and attract attention. Hoping that their ostentatiousness will arouse the envy and admiration of others, so that their vanity can be satisfied.
To put it bluntly, showing off is really vanity. A person whose heart is filled with vanity is pathetic and empty.
This kind of flamboyant behavior is really cheap, and it will also bring unnecessary trouble to yourself.
5 Like self-evidence.
It's obviously an opportunity that I worked hard to get, but I was questioned, and I was very angry, and I was in a hurry to prove myself, so don't do it.
Whoever doubts who adduces evidence, we don't need to prove anything to others, don't hear other people's doubts, just explain in a hurry, and don't take our own time and experience in order to prove it to anyone.
If you want to prove yourself, you will fall into the trap of other people's logic, and your logic will become to please others.
You don't believe it, it's your business, why should I help you confirm it?Love what's wrong.
People have many sides, and whichever side you see, you are only worthy of that side, as for how you see me, it doesn't matter, your doubts will not affect my life and work at all.
These five behaviors, in our lives, can always find the prototype, I hope you avoid, be brave to be yourself, full of heart, peaceful, to go to the ** exudes charm.