Recently, Jiangxi man Chen Zhixian revealed that he has been married to his wife Yu for 16 years, and the news that the three children born to him are not his own has aroused widespread attention. This incident is not only a heavy blow to the parties involved, but also a severe test of the trust and marital values of the entire society. Jiupai News interviewed the party Chen Zhixian, revealing the multiple impacts and reflections behind this incident.
First of all, this incident is undoubtedly a huge blow to marital trust. Chen Zhixian and Yu have been married for 16 years, and they always thought that they were raising biological children, but they did not expect to find out that the three sons were not biological. This kind of betrayal and deception is not only a personal injury to Chen Zhixian, but also a challenge to the entire marriage system. In marriage, trust is the cornerstone, and when trust is ruthlessly trampled on, the entire marital relationship faces a huge crisis.
Secondly, this incident also exposed the problem of society's tolerance for extramarital affairs. According to Chen Zhixian, after the incident, Yu's family actually persuaded him to "want to open up", which is undoubtedly a tacit approval and connivance of extramarital affairs. In today's society, although extramarital affairs are generally considered immoral, in real life, many people have a relatively tolerant attitude towards extramarital affairs, and even in the eyes of some people, cheating seems to be a "human nature" that can be forgiven. This kind of social tolerance not only weakens the sanctity of marriage, but also ruthlessly harms the victims.
In addition, the incident has also triggered reflections on the introduction of matchmakers. Chen Zhixian and Yu met through the introduction of a matchmaker, and the matchmaker often only pays attention to the external conditions and family backgrounds of both parties in the introduction process, and rarely has an in-depth understanding of the internal factors such as the personalities and values of both parties. This kind of introduction, which only focuses on the surface and not the inside, often lays a hidden danger for the breakdown of the marriage in the future. Therefore, we need to reflect on the way matchmakers are introduced, and pay more attention to the internal compatibility of the two parties, rather than just the external conditions.
Finally, the incident also highlights the lack of legal protection for marriage and family. From Chen Zhixian's introduction, I learned that he submitted new evidence in court - his wife gave birth to a fourth daughter while having an extramarital affair. However, the current law does not punish such behavior severely, which also leads some people to cheat unscrupulously in marriage. Therefore, we need to further improve the legal system and increase the punishment for marital infidelity, so as to maintain the sanctity of marriage and the stability of the family.
To sum up, Jiangxi man Chen Zhixian found that the incident of his 3 sons being non-biological involved multiple shocks and reflections. This incident is not only an injury to the trust of individuals, but also a challenge to the values of the whole society and the institution of marriage. In order to maintain the sanctity of marriage and the stability of the family, we need to start from many aspects: First, we must strengthen education and publicity on marriage and family, and increase people's attention to marriage;The second is to improve the degree of social condemnation of extramarital affairs, and form a social atmosphere of respect for marriage and maintenanceThird, it is necessary to improve the matchmaker introduction system and pay more attention to the matching of internal factors between the two sidesFourth, it is necessary to improve relevant laws and regulations and increase the punishment of marital infidelity. Only in this way can we truly maintain the sanctity of marriage and the stability of the family, so that everyone can enjoy a happy and happy family life.