Text: Wisdom of the Great Central Plains
Once, I was thinking about a question about love.
Specifically, do we like a person or not?Or is there something else we should like?Or more accurately, what kind of person do you really like?Or what type of person do you like?And the core of this question is, in the choice of love, what is the criterion for you to like someone?
This question seems to be very simple, but in reality, it is really a difficult problem for us to explain. This is just like each of us, when facing the unknown future world, we are all "crossing the river by feeling the stones". Because, before the appearance of one's true love, blind love is all chosen according to one's own feelings.
So, in the end, I finally came to a result that I am satisfied with, that is, we like someone, not or never like a certain type of person or something in our own heart, but just a feeling of ours.
I feel pretty good. "
I feel like it's okay. "
I feel that it is really beautiful.
I think it's really beautiful.
Wait, these words without nutrients and moisture. If we give our own love or marriage to such a "feeling", to such an ambiguous choice of such a major event in life, to such a self-righteous feeling, but in fact it is a feeling of irresponsibility. So, isn't our life just letting us delay our own life without care!
Perhaps, your feelings seem to be very good;Perhaps, your seemingly good feeling will just delay your life that should be very happy;Perhaps, in your seemingly well-conceived feeling, you have no feeling or concept of future love and marriage at all. Because you have no idea what kind of outcome your feelings will bring to your future!
Perhaps, you will be lucky to say: luck and disappointment, half to half. However, you feel that you are giving up your future to such a blind gamble, which is at least giving up or an extremely irresponsible kind of your own life and your future marriage and family.
In fact, many of us still know that feeling is only a short-term and temporary target choice at best. Of course, there will definitely be blindness. Because, how you feel at the moment, can you guarantee that you will feel this way in the future?What would you do if you didn't feel that way?Do you want to continue to feel?Let's go for it!
After all, I think it is difficult for ordinary people to accept that they can solve some problems by relying on the magic of their senses, or absolute belief or relying on their own sixth sense, which is not objective.
After all, our judgment is the embodiment of our comprehensive ability in terms of knowledge and experience.
After all, this kind of thing of feeling in life has always been a very unreliable and inert behavior. No one would be willing to easily hand over their life events to a feeling of uncertainty without understanding them.
The choice of feelings, especially in love, subjective and objective has always been a difficult thing to control. Perhaps this is the complexity of love, that is, in the life of love, that is, in the life of love or marriage, there are always uncertain variables.
Feelings, as wonderful as they are, are also strange in our hearts that give rise to a kind of foreknowledge or warning of the future. But it feels like not everyone has the ability to make the right choice. And for us ordinary people, it's better to use feelings as a metaphysical talk in reality, or as a study for ourselves
Feeling is just an illusory thought, or a kind of mental induction imposed on you by the outside world. Suppose that such a thing, with the blessing of the right judgment that you have, may bring you sweet love or marriage, or maybe it is the opposite. Whatever the outcome, it's an illusory or ethereal thing.
The current real society and the worldly atmosphere in society, especially many people in the current real society, are so abnormal reality, and such a materialistic desire for fame and fortune, although this is a kind of enthusiasm and positivity that is difficult to obtain, but this is only a superficial performance, but deep down it is to the point that no matter what kind of good and bad things are concerned about their own material desires to feel the feasibility of this kind of thing. In other words, the behavior of "no profit and no early" has reached the point of shame.
Alas, I can't help it!Nowadays, people probably only have only desire left.
Just imagine, such a human society, such a desire for fame and fortune is supreme, you say that such a feeling of judging things by interests and desires can still have a certain degree of credibility in such a situation like this.
Human nature in life is like this, people who do not have a purpose to pursue in life, their minds never believe that they can achieve success on their own. Therefore, they always put their desires and interests first. People whose ideology is all about desire, who would dare to believe their feelings?
And this is precisely the theory that Western capitalists have instilled in us: in this world, there are neither eternal friends nor eternal enemies, only eternal interests.
Therefore, in the face of objective and realistic feelings, those who have no principle, no sense of honor, and no ideals and beliefs will definitely find it difficult to get anything in the end. Even if I got it, it was a short-lived glitz. Because, people who are too strong and too heavy in utilitarianism are simply people who can't see the slightest thing. Above all, these people will be blinded by the lust for profit and will be blinded by lard, their minds and their thoughts.
The best state of love, at least to be able to do, when two people who love each other, or people in marriage, when they encounter danger and suffering, they are all hoping that two people can be together to take responsibility and use sincere feelings to stand together through thick and thin, and to be able to rely on each other and hold hands to overcome difficulties. And it is to encourage and accompany each other along the way.
To sum up, we can see that the blindness of sensation is well known. Even the so-called "sixth sense", which our experts and scholars are talking about, is very mysterious and very effective, but in fact it is a very nihilistic and blind existence. Because this kind of thing itself is a kind of "invisible and intangible" thing that exists in everyone's brain. In fact, this exists in the human mind as much as fantasy. Because it's nothing, it's not credible.
See, the sky is starting to cool down again, and is this "feeling" mentioned in the article able to adapt to the changes in temperature or cold and warm of the natural seasons?In particular, can "feelings" still understand the subconscious of this temperature in the human world?Or is there a connotation and moral to it?
Perhaps, this "feeling" will be very intuitive, but it is very one-sided, which can only make you feel and understand that the temperature of the weather is very cold and cold. And our human beings, in many cases, especially in some specific environments, do not need such superficial expressions or feelings. Rather, it also needs to have a high-level spiritual enjoyment, or the communication and communication of the soul. Because, anyone can get an intuitive feeling. But anyone also needs some pleasure in life and at least the most ordinary pleasures. So we have to say that liking someone cannot be determined by a person's feelings alone.
It is still necessary to have a deeper, more specific and realistic observation ability to adapt to all the temperatures in this world. And the temperature we are talking about here is a specific word with a very broad connotation. So, that is to say, in our lives, especially in the real life of our love and marriage, in addition to the temperature in addition to being a kind of temperature in any season, there is also a subconscious meaning that is the temperature of the human heart. So, in this cool weather, no matter what mood you are in at the moment, whether you are positive and enthusiastic or disheartened, but in this cold weather, we have to live hot.
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