Many people say that after a woman gets married, she is reincarnated for the second time, and if she wants to be happy, she must manage it well in marriage.
This is true, but it does not mean that after a woman gets married, she can do whatever she wants.
A woman marries a person, not a "wolf", you can be desperate for love, but you can't lose yourself for marriage and love.
Marriage and love are two separate individuals for a woman.
Don't talk about divorce lightly.
Many women, who are unhappy in their marriage, will say: "I want a divorce".
Divorce is definitely not a good thing for a family, this sentence may be just a momentary anger in a man's heart, but for a woman, it is a big blow.
Many times, when a husband and wife quarrel over a trivial matter, the man may feel that you don't care about him anymore. As soon as a woman hears the word "divorce", she will instantly lose control of her emotions.
At this time, the man may feel that the woman is unreasonable, and even want to divorce her. In fact, it is not that women do not want to divorce, but that they are insecure in marriage, so they will threaten men in this way.
Therefore, after a woman gets married, she must understand one thing: no one is inseparable from the other between husband and wife.
If a man really wants to divorce, then you don't need to grieve yourself for the sake of this family. As long as the man doesn't mention the divorce, try not to say those two words easily.
Marriage is not the whole of life.
I have such a woman around me, and she is the kind of woman who gives herself completely to her husband after getting married.
After she got married, she quit her job and became a full-time wife, revolving around her children and husband all day long. But instead of making her feel happy, such a life made her more empty and lonely.
She started doing what she loved, going to the gym, going to travel, going to Xi. "My life is full now, and I don't revolve around my husband every day like I used to," she said. ”
Someone said, "Marriage is not the whole of life, and a woman should not put her whole life in marriage." ”
Only when a woman lives her own wonderful life will she be able to make her life full and meaningful, and she will have more joy and happiness.
Therefore, after a woman gets married, she should not regard marriage as the whole of her life, and do not let marriage affect her life and future.
When you put all your energy into marriage, you will slowly lose yourself. Only when you become a person with an independent personality and mind can you have more rights and opportunities for choice.
Don't put all your hopes in men.
No matter how good a man is to you, don't put all your hopes in him.
After getting married, women should stop thinking and don't always have too much hope for men, which will only make you more and more disappointed.
A woman can love someone, but she can't love someone too much.
At all times, you must leave yourself some leeway and a way back, so that you will not be let down by men.
There is a good saying: "The most fearful thing in a relationship is that you are serious, but the other party is just perfunctory." ”
If you always go with a man with an expectant mentality, then you will end up surrounded by disappointment and despair.
No one in marriage is inseparable from anyone, and if you always put your hopes in others, then in the end it will be you who will be hurt.
Marriage is never a woman's destination and home, so don't expect too much from marriage, which will only put yourself in a dilemma.