Mo Lan finally got her wish and married Liang Han, the son of the Earl's Court.
Although her behavior may be disgusting and disgusting, she still managed to establish her status as the eldest lady in her in-law's family, and eventually gained the approval and acceptance of her mother's family.
Although she has had the experience of crying and making trouble, being disgusted by her mother-in-law, rejected by her husband, and despised by her mother's family, what does it matter?
As the saying goes, "A chicken that flies to a branch is even more noble than a phoenix that plucks out its hair", isn't her life successfully turned around?
A mother-in-law who has nothing to do with herself.
Her mother-in-law, named Wu Da Niangzi, is a well-informed woman who is known as the "big husband" among women.
The reason why she was initially allowed to enter, in addition to the old lady of the Sheng family interceding for the sake of face, there was also a very crucial factor, that is, there was a common "enemy" between the future mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Mrs. Wu expressed her dissatisfaction to Liang Han's concubine Chun Ke many times, the reason why she didn't do it herself was just because of the child in Chun Ke's belly, she was eager to find the eldest lady, the purpose was to cover up the scandal at home.
Therefore, when choosing a daughter-in-law, Aunt Wu's primary consideration is her excellent fighting ability.
Her personality is indeed very intolerant, coupled with the fact that she often behaves pretentiously, which is sure to make Chun Ke feel embarrassed, and her behavior is often quiet.
After she became a member of the Liang family, she did not live up to the expectations of Mrs. Wu, and Chun Ke finally suffered a serious dystocia.
In this battle, Mrs. Wu basically adopted an arrogant attitude towards her that had nothing to do with herself.
Liang Han is essentially a complete ***, and at the same time, he has always been Aunt Wu's most troublesome and difficult child. The advantages and disadvantages of marrying a daughter-in-law who can grind people are relative.
In addition, considering the strong position of Mrs. Wu and the identity of her mother-in-law, even if she has the opportunity to turn over, she only dares to stay in her yard and never dares to let her mother-in-law be treated unfairly.
Just as Mrs. Wu looked at her with sarcasm in Minglan and Gu Tingye's polo club, although she wanted to eat, she could only hold it secretly, and she felt uncomfortable.
At this moment, Mrs. Wu's heart felt extremely happy and satisfied.
In fact, everyone understands the truth that "a mountain can't accommodate two tigers", just like a mother-in-law like Mrs. Wu, who has both courage and means, the daughters-in-law she can marry in the end should be gentle.
Despite her scheming, ambitious and sophisticated, what is the real significance of all this?
In the face of absolute ability, all actions seem meaningless.
However, this also comes with a huge benefit, and that is that the true masters don't mind and don't want to clash with people who are less capable of themselves.
Due to Mrs. Wu's appreciation of drama, this provides her with more opportunities to show herself, which is more harmonious compared to the cold Minglan mother-in-law and the short-sighted Rulan mother-in-law.
She was really lucky, in that era of "mother-in-law trumps everything", she was able to meet a mother-in-law who did not interfere and did not hinder her little world, which was really a very lucky thing?
She didn't dare to hurt her husband.
Liang Han is undoubtedly a complete loser.
Initially, when Mo Lan chose to be close to him, he seemed very excited.
For those who are **uninhibited, breaking the routine is the greatest**. And Mo Lan, under the favor of Sheng's father, even if she is preoccupied, hopes to marry a fourth girl who matches her in-law's family, and her attraction to him is far beyond the surface.
Although he came from a wealthy family and didn't need to work too hard to marry Mo Lan, he knew that Sheng's father was not optimistic about him.
Especially in the polo club, he was immediately attracted to this concubine who liked to savor, was innocent and desired, plus his mother wanted him to marry the daughter of the Sheng family.
Considering that they are both daughters of concubines, he will naturally decide the final marriage partner according to his own preferences.
This woman, who appears fragile and contrived on the surface, is in fact like a spider, spitting out thick silk threads and forcing him to marry her, like "every day the geese are beaten, and the geese peck their eyes."
What's even more infuriating is that his beloved Chun Ke actually died at the hands of this woman.
Thus, he aroused the emotions of the closest maids around her, and replaced all the servants she was Xi to use.
In fact, the relationship between the couple is not a simple one, they insist on competing in the ring, but in the end it is just that he loses the person he loves and can only put obstacles in his yard.
Mo Lan didn't get much favor in her married life, and her maid betrayed her, lost her husband's heart, and embarked on the path her mother had taken, but she didn't get any favor from her mother.
Still, she was lucky because her last name was Sheng.
Changbai, the eldest son of the Sheng family, gradually became the elder of the main pavilion;Changfeng and Changdong are both Jinshi status;Gu Tingye, the son-in-law of the Sheng family, is an upstart in the imperial court, and Wen Yanjing is also from a Jinshi.
Such a strong and powerful mother's family, even if she is no longer favored Mo Lan, no one dares to take action against her, and even Mrs. Wu chose to turn a blind eye.
Many people may think that she has not gained any benefit from this chaos she has caused, but for the eldest lady of the Earl's Court, this title far outweighs many other benefits.
Not only is she eager to change her fate, but her in-laws don't dare to do anything against her. The most important thing is that her children will make better choices because of her status, even if they all choose to marry low in the end, just through the word "low marriage", she can show her brilliance.
Actually, Mo Lan was really lucky.
Although she was only a concubine, she had never suffered any form of unfair treatment in terms of family status and daily life.
She is not only Sheng's father's favorite child, but also has a seven-trick heart. In addition to this, she worked very poetry and reading, and her calligraphy was quite good.
Considering her competitive spirit and excellent intelligence, such a person may not encounter too many difficulties in good times, but it will not be too miserable in bad times.
Similarly, she was born in a wonderful era and was cared for by her mother.
First of all, the Sheng family is going through a gradual upward phase, and considering that the family itself is a wealthy family, the use of silver money will not decrease.
As the saying goes, when you have wealth in your hands, you don't feel nervous, and even though your social status may not be highly respected, you still have enough confidence to express your opinions.
Secondly, her father was born in a concubine family, although the outside world does not particularly value her, but in her own one-acre and three-point land, Sheng's father has a special favor and preference for her.
The most critical point is that her mother, Lin Xiaoniang, is a concubine who has both strategy and means, and is the most favored.
Since she was a child, she has been protected by her biological parents, and she is always willful and coquettish, and her childhood experience is really beautiful.
Although she may suffer severe rebukes from her mother, because she is Xi to acting weak and extremely ruthless in her heart, she has never been defeated in many confrontations with her concubine Rulan.
On the basis of her father's love and her mother's careful planning, she needs to always maintain a courageous heart and repeatedly believe that she is the best master.
Fortunately, her continued efforts, although unsuccessful in attracting Qi Heng's attention, still held Liang Han firmly.
In real life, her unwavering goals, unreserved determination, and thoughtful planning make it entirely possible to succeed.
Obviously, if it were not for her actions, but for the benefit and sacrifice of others, then she should be seen as a model of success.
In fact, in real life, no one can easily flop itThis is not a journey of life full of blood and tears, and no one is unwilling to live a peaceful and happy life. However, life is what it is, and no one can easily succeed. However, behind every successful person, there is a dark history that they do not want to share with others.
A marriage in exchange for a name of purity.
Her marriage undoubtedly angered everyone in her mother's family.
Father Sheng finally saw Lin Xiaoniang's true face, Lin Xiaoniang lost her life because of this, and Changfeng also restrained his temper. In addition, the other members of the Sheng family, who didn't have a good impression of her, almost all hoped to be stepped on by her again, in addition to laughing at her.
Especially someone like Lan, who is often her enemy, always applauds her experience warmly, and even when it comes to miscarriage, she acts like she is to blame.
In addition to the few shops given by Lin Xiaoniang as dowries, Father Sheng and Mrs. Wang only symbolically added a few boxes as gifts.
Minglan not only exposed her misdeeds before marriage, but also lost her husband's heart because she insisted on returning to her parents' house to fight for Lin Xiaoniang's tablet.
If described in such detail, she is really in an embattled situation, her mother-in-law does not favor her, her in-laws do not like her, there is no one around, and her back seems to have been pierced through the spine.
Perhaps, in the face of this kind of marital relationship, many people will choose to stay away from it, because they will portray themselves as a lonely person who is not liked. Even under the blue sky during the day, they may feel lonely and empty.
However, I would like to share with you a very tangible fact that people who hold these views are in many cases inferior to her.
Just like at the end of the play, Minglan invited her to dinner, and the members of the Sheng family had the same attitude towards her as before, in addition to the concept of "common prosperity, common loss", her presence also brought great support to the Sheng family.
The brutal truth is that as long as you can stand tall enough, as long as you stand firm enough, as long as you are beneficial to others, everyone is willing to be friendly to you, and as for whether the figure behind you is black or white, who cares?
A woman who marries very high is like a chicken that flies to the branches of a tree, and its nobility is far greater than that of a phoenix that has lost its hair.
Whether you accept this fact or not, Merlin is undoubtedly the luckiest of all her sisters.
Compared with Minglan , she doesn't need a mother-in-law who is kind and ruthless day and night, and she doesn't need to worry about the identity of her concubine. She doesn't need a haughty servant, nor does she have to live a life of glamorous appearances but having to dance on the tip of a knife.
Compared to Rulan, she doesn't have to face those short-sighted but more noble mothers-in-law than the Jade Emperor every day;You should not go against your own will and use all kinds of means to win the favor of your husband.
I always think that the best way to get along with the person who is ** is to be worse than him, just like she can use all kinds of methods to win her husband's heart again, or boldly play with the concubines without considering her mother-in-law's feelings.
Human nature is based on profit, no one will go deep into your life situation, as long as you are still in this position, and your social status is higher than that of others, you have real value.
Marriage is essentially a battle for women to turn around, whether you are pursuing happiness or striving to surpass others, once you have achieved success, you will stand on a high ground and look down on those who cannot compare to you.
As the saying expresses, the front and back of the mountain are full of sorrow, whether it is windy or windless, they cannot live freely, and people are constantly coming, and they all have their own thoughts hidden in their hearts, whether it rains or not, they are just memories of the past.
Mihai Aminescu expressed the following opinion: You inhabit a narrow human world, at the mercy of fate, and in my own world I feel eternal presence and deep loneliness.
There is no absolute good or bad in life, only what we have imagined to be. What scares me the most is that you don't succeed and you are disappointed in the success of others;In the same way, I am afraid that even if I succeed, I will regret my mistakes.
May you enjoy strong winds and strong liquor, and at the same time tolerate praise and derogation.