I once had the privilege of meeting a senior who shared with me a profound experience: he said that a man who is too obsessed with his feelings can hinder the success of his career. I was puzzled by this, and he explained with a bitter smile that those who succeed have often passed the emotional test, and if they can't get past this level, they may face irreversible doom.
And only those who can calmly face their feelings, not be troubled by them, have a clear mind, make decisive decisions, have no illusions, and concentrate on improving themselves, can usher in the transfer. If you are able to become sensible and clear, to deal with things decisively and decisively, without any expectations or illusions in your heart, not to fight with others, not to beg others, and to focus on self-improvement, then congratulations, you have ushered in good luck.
This experience verifies a wise saying: in the absence of love, you can break the emotional entanglement;And without too much emotional interference, you can break all kinds of predicaments. Climb the dangerous peak, start from scratch, and change the status quo!This is not unfounded, don't doubt it!
Setbacks are often silent, but they are potential helpers that push you to grow, improve your cognition, thinking, and vision. In the ups and downs of life, you must remain calm and calm, because those who can bear the pain of nirvana deserve to enjoy the beauty of rebirth. Do not indulge in anger because it weakens your wisdom.
A successful person is a person who can calmly accept criticism, and it doesn't matter if you scold a few words, it will not affect your strength in the slightest. Continue to scold, vent our emotions, we can still have a drink, because a person's dignity is not to be humiliated. Those who desire to possess everything are often the source of all destruction. If the price of becoming a gentleman is humiliation, trampling, or even extermination, then I would rather choose to be a traitor who can realize my ambitions!
People who don't mention conditions may have great ambitions, while people who know how to show weakness are usually smart people. When you are comfortable with someone, it may be because they are far superior to you in terms of EQ and IQ, and they are just deliberately backward compatible with you. When I was young, I faced seven difficulties: it was difficult to make money, it was difficult to break love, it was difficult to speak in my heart, it was difficult to understand life, it was difficult to change fate, it was difficult to walk on the road, and it was difficult to be a person.
Facing up to these problems is the method, and thinking backwards is the method. The world is impermanent, there is no 100-day red flower, and there is no 1000-day good person. A person who is truly strong in his heart sees the ups and downs of life as indifferent, regards life as a dojo of cultivation, does not complain in the face of difficulties, endures hardships without complaining, and experiences joy without showing off, so as to steadily grasp the rudder of life.
Opportunity is often more important than individual talent. In the journey of life, if you can encounter good opportunities or get help from noble people, you can achieve a major change in your life in just two or three years!As your energy gradually increases, the universe seems to match you with people or things with a higher energy field, provided that your character matches it.
Lack of moral character and norms of behavior and greed for profiteering will inevitably lead to unexpected disasters. Doing good deeds and accumulating virtues, although they will experience hardships, they often bring blessings in the future. The greater a person's virtue, the more wealth he will be able to carry;Conversely, if virtue is lacking, wealth will inevitably be lost. Those who have the heart of cultivating virtue and cherishing happiness will inevitably be able to accommodate more of the good fruits of the world.
When you realize the reminders and warnings from the heavens at some point, it is never too late. The real leader is not to see how many gentlemen he commands, but how many villains he can control. Some people may usually have average popularity and a small circle of friends, but once they are in danger, there will be people who will stand up and lend a hand. Such people should not be underestimated, which usually means that their pattern is different from ordinary people and cannot be easily offended.
When you get along with different people, you will have a variety of different experiences: when you get along with people who are decisive and decisive, you will feel the strength of perseverance;When you get along with people with a sense of humor, you will find life extremely interesting;People who know how to manage money will become more open-minded when they get along;Getting along with smart and capable people will make you smarter;When you get along with people who are upright and authoritative, you will feel the help of noble people;Spending time with creative people will give you new inspirations;
Spending time with thoughtful people makes you feel more warm;When you get along with a dignified person, you will feel a deep beauty. No one's advice can make you wake up instantly, and what really makes you recognize the sophistication of human feelings is experience, loss, regret and injury. Everyone has obsessions, but we can't cling to our own opinions and don't want to realize.
Being disadvantaged and in a difficult environment, following Zeng Guofan's Xi model, his luck began to improve significantly. Courageously moving forward during the day and studying hard at night, when the individual's tenacity and perseverance are at their peak, the pattern will naturally expand. Focus on clumsiness and perseverance, do not seek ingenious skills, and are willing to work hard. Even in the face of serious difficulties, perseverance can make a person break through, and when difficulties come, a turnaround can come quietly.
Be brave and don't be afraid of what others think, because not many people really care, and even if they do, it's not worth mentioning. The core of making money is to seize opportunities, and opportunities are often created in a lot of action. The words are concise and deep, the speed of speech is slow and rhythmic, and chatter will destroy the aura because it reveals your lack of confidence. An adult with majesty is usually cautious and does not say nonsense that does not make sense.
Being talked about means that you have attracted attention, and being talked about a lot means that you do not have enough sense of presence in the eyes of others, and people who are busy are talked about, while people who do nothing only talk about others, and the difference between the two is the so-called value. It is often the people who climb out of the abyss with difficulty, and their hearts are deep and clear.
When he confronted the master, the opponent had not yet made a move, and he had already devised a clever tactic in his mind to defeat the opponent. The city government is deep, thoughtful, upright, and calm, revealing some strong air, which is always unpredictable, both upright and slightly **. A character as sharp as seven killings, extremely majestic.
Seven kills symbolize courage and strength, and when you have seven kills, you'll face the Tiger, but you've devised a strategy in your head to defeat your opponent before they can make a move. This kind of moment will exercise your mind and patience, but it also means greater risk. Although there are some negative elements of Seven Kills, such as destruction and physical damage, there are also rewards. Seven Killing Luck is an opportunity to make a leap, and making good use of this time can achieve things that were previously difficult to do.
Most of them have made significant progress in the five years since the Seven Killings Movement developed. Lei beats the true filial son, wealth comes from decisive and resolute people, unscrupulous means, and accumulating family wealth. It is better to rely on one's own decision-making power than to ask for divination, and it is better to have practical skills than to chant Buddha and chant sutras. Just as water without salt is better than boiled water, people without wealth are better than useless people.
The weak should strive for those wealth that is difficult for others to take away, such as thinking, wisdom, concentration, and to do the best in a career to create unique value. What is lacking is not the method, but the confidence, so the weak should remember: self-confidence is the key to reaching the top.
Many of the most successful people have experienced many challenges in their early years, and these experiences have made them think deeply beyond the ordinary, ambitious, tenacious, resourceful, and sharp-minded, and not easily dwell on unhelpful things. They are extremely independent, do not rely on the help of others, and have great ambitions, brave the dangers and forge the unusual path.
This type of person has a strong ability to comprehend and innovate, but if they think too highly of themselves, it is easy to get along with others. Always introspect and give full play to the special talents given by God, and you will be able to create a magnificent cause. If you are restless and restless, this anxiety will be fully released at work, and it will be difficult to complete tasks and achieve excellent performance. Therefore, it is important to work hard to adjust your mindset, stay calm, and patiently sharpen your temperament, which is the best cultivation of your mind.
The poor are not necessarily morally deficient, and the rich are not necessarily morally noble. Because talented people are often unscrupulous, while incompetent people are always saving face. Those who care about face may eventually lose face, while those who don't care can glorify their ancestors. Being able to persevere in the face of blows and setbacks, ignoring and being insane, and standing up more often than falling down, is the real strong person. Shouldn't be confined to comfort zones, real progress often happens in the midst of challenges.
If the heavens want to entrust someone with great responsibility, they must first put their mind through suffering, fatigue, hunger, physical emptiness, disturbance and confusion in their behavior, and through this series of tests, they must polish their mind and strengthen their ability to bear it. Therefore, "if the body is not bitter, the blessing is not thick, and if the heart is not bitter, the wisdom will not be opened!".”