On December 30th, "If You Are Honest Do Not Disturb 3" is finally here.
On the poster, there is a lot of dopamine. "So fancy, old-fashioned", while giving the audience a strong visual impact, it also seems to build a mysterious dream space for the audience, and the expectations are full.
Ge You + ** The original team gathered and continued to tell the story of Qin Fen and Liang Xiaoxiao.
Li Chengru, Yue Yunpeng, Chang Yuan, Yu Shuxin ......The new faces give everyone a different freshness.
The original cast was assembled, the new stars were energized, and I continued to listen to this wonderful emotional story with laughter and tears throughout the movie.
As an old fan of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", I will carefully see each one from beginning to end. In addition to the fascinating plot of the story itself, today I would like to talk about the "cheng" of the three parts.
The first part starts with "orange", the second part continues with true "sincerity", and the third part ends with the last "journey". Each one has a deep meaning behind it, which is intriguing.
The starting point of fate: orange encounters
The first part of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" uses bright orange as the main color, highlighting the relaxed, pleasant, and romantic atmosphere, highlighting the romantic encounter between Qin Fen and Xiaoxiao, so that the audience has a stronger sense of substitution.
Qin Fen, played by Ge You, was bought out by venture capitalists because of a "genius invention", and he became an urban "leftover fighter", and then he was busy asking for his marriage online.
If you want to find a handsome guy, don't come, if you want to find a wallet, don't see ......”
To tell the truth, I should be characterized as a three-no-fake returnee with no company and no degree, with a five-five character, not honest but naturally timid......”
The marriage stalks are continuous, which makes people deeply remember the humorous but sincere Qin Fen;And the process of blind date is even more ridiculous.
Those who came on a blind date included Qin Fen's colleague "Jianguo" more than ten years ago;There are also ...... of shareholders who come to promote the sale of cemeteries and are keen on **
Everyone is so anxious and purposeful.
And just when Qin Fen was discouraged, he met Liang Xiaoxiao and fell in love with her at first sight.
Liang Xiaoxiao's body exudes a sense of indifference and alienation, which is incompatible with this fast-paced era. She was distressed by love, and she couldn't ask for it, and she met Qin Fen by chance.
Xiaoxiao felt that she "couldn't fall in love with such a person at first sight", so she told all her secrets. The two met and got to know each other, and this is how it began.
Because of the emotional pain, Xiaoxiao suffered a lot of torture and grievances, and didn't know where to go.
met Qin Fen many times, which made Xiaoxiao feel that she had a good relationship with this man, and she also had the idea of understanding each other deeply.
Out of the motive of healing, she proposed to give it a try with Qin Fen to get out of the pain of the past. And Qin Fen happily accepted the proposal.
During the whole journey, Xiaoxiao felt that Qin Fen was a very warm and reliable person, but he still couldn't let go of the love in his heart.
Because she knows that the person she loves will never fall in love with her, she thinks about ending her life and ending this pain.
She wrote a suicide note and jumped into the sea, but luckily was rescued by fishermen. Because of this "suicide", Xiaoxiao finally let go of the burden in her heart, her soul and body were "reborn", and she also saw clearly who was the most important person and who was worthy of her own investment.
Xiaoxiao finally decided to return to China with Qin Fen and start a new life that truly belongs to her.
The two meet in a relaxed orange color and have a laugh;In the end, they joined hands in the warm orange, and there were tears.
The whole movie reveals a subtle "fate" tone, in laughter and tears, everyone brings their own experiences into the emotional world of Qin Fen and Xiaoxiao.
Qin Fen fell in love with Xiaoxiao at first sight, but he didn't stalk him, and won Xiaoxiao's favor with his sincerity;Xiaoxiao fell in love with Qin Fen at first sight, but she still gave the other party a chance, and really unloaded her psychological baggage and fell in love with Qin Fen.
It is because both of them believe in fate, they can give each other and themselves a chance, and they are not stubborn and uncompromising in the emotional world, which leads to the back story.
The Continuation of Love: A Journey of Sincerity
After the success of the first "Do Not Disturb", Feng Xiaogang teamed up with Wang Shuo to launch "Do Not Disturb 2", continuing to tell the story of Qin Fen and Xiaoxiao.
After Xiaoxiao and Qin Fen returned to China, they officially started a relationship between men and women.
However, after attending the divorce ceremony of Qin Fen's friends Li Xiangshan and Mango, Xiaoxiao's feelings about love and marriage were even more devastated.
She didn't know if she really loved Qin Fen, and she didn't know how long the marriage between the two would last.
So, Xiaoxiao decided to test this relationship with a trial marriage, and Qin Fen agreed.
They directly skipped the sweet period of newlyweds and started with the first "big test" in their long marriage - the seven-year itch.
Qin Fen pretended to be paralyzed, and waited in a wheelchair for Xiaoxiao, Xiaoxiao accepted such a setting, and also wanted to use this method to test whether he could be a good wife.
After a period of time, Xiaoxiao finally realized that she only had a good impression of Qin Fen, not love.
Xiaoxiao always has good expectations for love, and firmly believes that she wants to enter into marriage with the person she truly loves.
After Qin Fen knew Xiaoxiao's thoughts, he didn't convince her, but chose to leave and let Xiaoxiao choose again.
Although the two no longer dating, they did not let go of their feelings for each other in their hearts.
By chance, Xiaoxiao learned from her best friend Mango that Qin Fen had written her name on the beneficiary of her life insurance, and her heart was filled with some ripples and sentimentality.
For Qin Fen, this approach made him feel at ease, and it was also an expression of his true feelings.
Just when the love between the two people was at an impasse, Qin Fen's friend Xiangshan suffered from melanoma, a terminal illness that was almost incurable. The sudden bad news made Qin Fen grief, and Mango, who had just divorced Xiangshan, was also very sad.
At the life memorial service of Xiangshan, Xiangshan on the occasion of his death said his heartfelt words:
"No matter how you choose marriage, it's wrong, and a long-term marriage is wrong. ”
This deeply touched the smile.
Yes, there is no perfect marriage in the world, love may be the starting point of marriage, and companionship is the end of together.
A long-term marriage is when two people work together to taste the ups and downs of life, see the warmth and coldness of the world, and create a happy life of peace and contentment in the mutual penetration of love and family affection.
Xiaoxiao began to comprehensively examine her outlook on love and marriage, and looked at herself and reality with an open heart.
At the end of the film, when Qin Fen proposed again and frankly said that he wanted to "make a mistake" with Xiaoxiao, Xiaoxiao readily agreed.
Looking back at the second part, the divorce ceremony is ridiculous, and the collapse of Xiaoxiao and the trial marriage seem to make people feel some feelings about marriage, thinking of all kinds of unbearable things after marriage, many people may shed tears.
The whole film is very sincere, not deliberately creating some gimmicks, but analyzing the problems that may be encountered in love and marriage one by one, so that the audience and the hero and heroine can sincerely face their hearts together, and look at their love and marriage in laughter and tears.
Even if you don't love her so much when you get married, even if you will face blandness and triviality in your marriage, so what?
As long as both parties can treat each other with sincerity, a marriage that will be wrong can also be happy.
The final chapter of marriage: the last "journey" of farewell
As a Chinese New Year file, the "If You Are the Truth, Do Not Disturb" series can be described as a box office legend: the first box office 32.5 billion, the second box office 47.1 billion.
After a lapse of 13 years, "If You Are the Truth, Do Not Disturb 3" is back, and the audience's expectations are full. I want to see what kind of story Qin Fen and Xiaoxiao will continue to write.
Qin Fen and Xiaoxiao finally really entered into marriage, but unfortunately the honeymoon was not over, and Xiaoxiao went to "pick up garbage" with the public welfare organization.
This walk is ten years.
In this way, Qin Fen guarded his home alone, waiting for Xiaoxiao to come back.
His friend Lao Fan saw that Qin Fen was so pitiful, so he gave him a robot smile and asked her to accompany Qin Fen to relieve his lovesickness.
This robot is almost exactly like a real smile. Not only is the voice and smile completely copied, but even the personality traits are almost the same.
She also obeyed Qin Fen and took care of Qin Fen meticulously, almost perfectly.
Until one day, I came back with a smile.
Qin Fen began to examine his feelings, which smile did he love, whether it was a perfect smile or a real smile?
This also reminds us outside the film that technology is developing rapidly, can artificial intelligence replace real people?
In the face of the smile that has been away for ten years, can you still stick to your original intention and start from the beginning?
At the end of the film, Qin Fen and Xiaoxiao both found the answer, and the relationship between the two also had a happy ending.
Some people may be curious, ten years is so long, has Xiaoxiao fallen in love with other people?Qin Fen really stayed alone for a long time in an empty house?
In the movie, the metaphor of dumplings and snacks cleverly answers this question and also triggers the audience's thinking.
If we are hungry and want to eat dumplings, we have to take the meat out of the refrigerator, chop the filling, pour flour, knead the dough, wake the dough, roll it into a skin, and put it in the pot ......
If you eat snacks during the whole process, you won't be hungry when the dumplings you want to eat are served, and you won't be able to live up to the previous busyness.
Snacks are satisfying but flavorful, and dumplings are slow but more hungry.
In laughter and tears, everyone was very pleased with the ending of Qin Fen and Xiaoxiao, and finally had a grand farewell to the Do Not Disturb series, and at the same time triggered a new round of thinking about marriage.
In the last tidbits of the film, ** and Ge You's annotation on marriage: "Marriage is a promise, don't disturb if you are sincere." ”
The "Do Not Disturb" series is over, but our lives go on.
The experience of life is one journey after another, and I hope that each of us can see through our hearts, believe in fate, be honest with each other, and start from the beginning.
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