The ancients had a proverb "don't go out on seven", which means that it is not advisable to travel far on the seventh day of the first lunar month. In accordance with the ancientMyths and legends, this day isNuwaThe day when Niangniang created human beings is also known as the "birthday of mankind", so it is not advisable to travel far away. This statement is influenced by the ancient people's "parents are here, not far away", emphasizedFilial pietyculture and pairsFamilySense of responsibility. In addition, withlifeThe closely related chai, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are also related to this statement. The ancients believed that men could only solve it reasonablyFamilyThese seven basic questions are required to qualify for a long trip. Although modern people are rightFilial pietyThe inheritance of culture is different, and it is also necessary to earn money to support the family, but on the seventh day of the Lunar New YearTravelis still a disadvantageous choice.
Expanding: In contemporary society, holidays have become an important time for people to relax and unwind, and many people will choose to go outTravel。However, the seventh day of the first lunar month is around this day as the traditional Chinese "human day", and there are many of themFamilyIt still follows the wisdom of the ancients. Looking back at the wisdom of their ancestors, they believedFamilyThe well-being and prosperity of men requires a sufficient sense of responsibility and responsibility. Through this constraint,FamilyMembers can enjoy this special day together, strengthen their relationship, and wish everyone good health and all the best.
As the saying goes: "Children look forward to the New Year", inChinese New YearDuring this period, while the children enjoyed a variety of delicacies and red envelopes, they were often mischievous and mischievous, and their words were not thought about and screened by adults. BecauseChinese New YearThere are many taboos, and as a result, parents tend to tolerate the mischievous behavior of their children, hoping that they will have a happy holiday. However, on the seventh day of the Lunar New Year, when the holiday season is coming to an end, adults will strengthen the discipline of their children and ask them to complete their holiday homework. As a result, incidents of quarrels and scolding also occur from time to time. In the old customs, the seventh day of the first lunar month is a "human day", which is worth celebratingGood day and auspicious day。Therefore, this day is not suitable for arguing and scolding children, forMarriageDifferences should also be resolved through peaceful communication.
Expanding: For kidsChinese New YearIt is a time full of joy and anticipation, and they will enjoy the love and beauty brought to them by their relatives. However, with the end of the Chinese New Year, it returns to normallifeIt also becomes an inevitable process. For adults, the teaching and regulation of children has also entered a new stage. In this process, contradictions and conflicts will inevitably be encountered. However, on such a special day as the "Human Day", which means good, we should start with:Filial pietywithFamilyFrom the point of view of harmony. It is through calm communication and understanding that we can truly realize our understanding ofFamilyThe pursuit of harmony.
The seventh day of the first lunar month is not only a "human day", but alsoVulcanOn this day, there is an old custom in traditional Chinese folk that requires the new daughter-in-law who has been married for less than three years to return to her parents' home to "avoid the fire". The ancients had a superstition that the new daughter-in-law was thereVulcanStaying at her mother-in-law's house is not good for her mother-in-law. In fact, this statement is actually to allow the new daughter-in-law to return to her parents' home to reunite with her parents, whether it is for the newlyweds or for the pairMarriagewithFamilyIt's an important day. In some places, people are still Xi to itVulcanEating dumplings on the night of the festival is called "pinching the mouse's mouth". It is said that this nightRats willMarriage and procreation, and pinching the mouse's mouth is to ensure that there will be no rat infestation in the home. In some places, people are Xi to eat noodles on the seventh day of the first month, called "soul noodles". By eating this bowl of noodles, you can be gratefulNuwaNiangniang's great deeds of creating mankind are also equivalent to celebrating everyone's birthday. At the same time, eating "Soul Rejuvenation Noodles" also conveys a message: the Chinese New Year is over, and it's time to return to normallifeand dedicate yourself to your work.
Expansion: In modern society,Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshiphas always been the focus of attention. Although the old custom of the new daughter-in-law going back to her parents' house to "avoid the fire" may seem superstitious today, the considerations behind it can be learned. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipHarmony and mutual understanding are based on equality and respect for each other. And the "Human Day" is a special day, whether it is for the newlyweds or for the pairFamilyare of great significance. Through this special day, we can not only promote the development of parent-child relationship, but also strengthen the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. By celebrating and sharing this special occasion together, we can build a more harmonious and happy oneFamilyAtmosphere.
If you don't do it three times a day, your family will prosper and people will be prosperous", which shows us the great importance that the ancients attached to "human days" and their wishes. Behind these Xi and taboos are far-reaching meanings and wisdom, reflecting the ancients' rightFamilyand the pursuit of social stability. In the present, we can inherit and carry forward these traditions in different ways to imply happiness and harmonyFamilylife。Whether it is not traveling, not quarreling and scolding, or the new daughter-in-law does not stay at her husband's house, it is all to ensure itFamilyof happiness and harmony. By observing these taboos and precautions, we are not only able to pass on the traditions of the ancientsFilial pietyand responsibility, but also promotedMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipwithFamilyHarmony. At the same time, these Xi also remind us to pay attentionFamilyIn the new year, we would like to send our most sincere wishes to everyone's health and career. Let's celebrate everyone's birthday together and welcome a happy and auspicious future. The Rural New Year's Flavor Check-in Plan is a big New Year's greeting in the south and the north.