In modern society, neighbors are becoming more and more estranged, and relatives are interacting less and less. However, we can learn a lot of life wisdom from the older generation, including the principle of three no-neighbors and three no-leavers of relatives.
The three non-friendship of neighbors means that when getting along with neighbors, we should follow the principle of "not offending others, not messing with others, and not bothering others". This means respecting our neighbors' way of life and not interfering with their livesNo friction with neighbors, avoid quarrels and conflicts;Don't cause trouble for your neighbors, don't borrow anything from them or disturb their rest. The principle of non-friendship between neighbors allows us to live in harmony and create a harmonious neighborhood relationship.
The three non-leaving relatives mean that the principle of "not asking, not interfering, and not interfering" should be followed when interacting with relatives. Each family has its own way of life and independent decision-making power, and we should not be concerned with the private affairs of our relatives;Do not interfere with their life choices and respect their freedom;Do not interfere in their decision-making and respect their rights and interests. The principle of "three no-walks" can maintain respect and independence between relatives and maintain a good relationship with each other.
The wisdom of life of the older generation is a valuable asset, they know how to respect others, know how to keep an appropriate distance, and know how to get along with others. Their experience has taught us that the key to living in harmony is to respect each other and avoid unnecessary conflicts and contradictions. They also understand that family members should maintain an appropriate distance from each other to allow each other space to develop and grow.
In modern society, the importance of neighborhood and kinship is gradually neglected. However, neighbors and relatives are an integral part of our lives, and they are able to give us support and help. By following the principle of three no-neighbors and three no-relatives leaving, we are able to build good interpersonal relationships and create a harmonious community and family.