Title The Road to Wrong Advice I made the mistake of choosing a career editor, and my work and life were "chicken feathers".
I gave up the administrative establishment, which was a wrong choice because there was no establishment for a long time.
The people who joined me in the work have all become deputy county magistrates.
But I have no connection with the system, and my life is a mess.
No matter what you choose, it is right and wrong at the same time.
Ordinary people have no chance to start their lives all over again, and they are 52 years old this year.
Among those who joined us in the same year, several were promoted to deputy sections, two or three were promoted to regular sections, and one became deputy county magistrates.
These people who have become big leaders also want to be further promoted.
General clerks are waiting for retirement, and the work is easy.
And I'm the only one who's still struggling to make ends meet.
My parents had some local connections, and I used to be one of the relatively good achievers in our group.
I was a college graduate, passed the exam and entered the system, and was assigned to work in the township.
After standardizing the establishment, the leaders asked us to choose the establishment of the cause or the establishment of the administration independently.
None of us knew which was better, but we knew that career establishment paid a bit more, so I chose career establishment.
It didn't take long for me to be transferred to a county-level unit through a relationship, and I was still a career establishment.
The other person has a more accurate vision and slowly transitions to the administrative establishment.
Now it seems that the administrative establishment is much better than the career establishment.
At that time, I only cared about the little interests in the present, and did not think about the future development.
Within a few years, the unit was transformed into an enterprise.
The leader gave us two choices: one is to terminate the contract with the original unit, get tens of thousands of yuan in compensation, and find self-employment;The second is to continue to work in the enterprise.
I chose to be self-employed.
And I'm young, and I always want to give it a go.
However, I underestimated the intensity of competition in society and overestimated my own level of ability.
As a member of the system, I am a small leader, managing some people and affairs, no matter how I go, it is "smooth", and everyone gives me face.
It wasn't until I left the system that I realized that without this platform, I was nothing.
Without a stable job, I had to be self-employed, and I had worked hard all these years.
Fortunately, the environment is good, and I have successively opened a restaurant, a construction company, a property company, a seed company, etc., involving a wide range of areas.
I make a lot of money and spend a lot of money.
After more than ten years of glory, he lost money in an investment and owed hundreds of thousands of yuan.
In those years, I was busy socializing and leaving my children to my parents and wife, and I didn't care about my children's growth at all.
The child was not outstanding, and by the time I realized that I needed to pay attention to him, it was too late.
My son has graduated from junior college, has high goals but lacks ability, can't find a good job, doesn't want to endure hardships, and can't be admitted to the system.
The monthly salary is only more than 4,000, which is barely enough to live in the city.
He has no plans for the future, no house, no car and girlfriend, he plays every day except for work, he has no ambition, and he is almost a copy of the year.
With the help of my parents, it took me three years to pay off my debts.
My father told me that I don't have that life, don't expect to be rich and rich all my life, and it's good to keep the status quo.
Life is a mess right now!But I'm not willing to be mediocre.
I now work two jobs at the same time, one working in a company, earning more than 5,000 a month, with 48 hours off every 24 hours.
During my breaks, I also found a part-time job in home improvement, earning about 2,000 a month.
My wife works in a kindergarten and gets more than 4,000 a month.
My family has a scooter worth 60,000 yuan, an old house, and the house is 20 years old.
At that time, it was a relatively good community in the county, but now it has become an old community, and many people have moved out.
I also want to move, but I don't have the capacity.
I have long since lost my family and friends, and the people who once surrounded me have left, and I can no longer do it, and they are far away.
I'm getting older now, and I'm reluctant to spend money, I'm reluctant to get dressed, and I want to save more money for my son.
I'm okay with that, but my son is going to follow the same path I walked back then.
Over the years, this money is really nothing, I just hope that my son can get married as soon as possible.
As a person who has come before, I have summarized the following experiences: 1. Entering the system often depends on fate.
If it belongs to you, no one else can take it away;If it doesn't belong to you, it's useless for you to fight;Promoting to an official is a kind of science;2. In any case, you must train your children well.
Otherwise, the second half of your life will be full of troubles;3. It is difficult for ordinary people to be promoted and make a fortune, there is no chance of trial and error, and the chance of counterattacking and turning the tables is very small;4. Acknowledging and adapting to one's ordinariness also requires a lot of ability and determination.
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