We like to associate with genuine people, and we can see through their joys and sorrows at a glance. Understand their character, for hypocritical people are really annoying, so,What does hypocrisy mean
One, what does hypocrisy mean
In general, it refers to the act of going against one's will in order to obtain some practical or emotional benefit. These actions can be beneficial to the other person, harmful to the other person, and perfunctory to the other person. Because of this, they will think that they will not take on stress, fear, or even avoid certain responsibilities, so they will not have to work hard or get into trouble. Hypocrisy
There are two kinds of hypocrisy: benign hypocrisy and malicious hypocrisy. In general, what does hypocrisy mean? Malicious hypocrisy is an act to protect oneself. They do it not just to get more, to give less, or to avoid being harmed. And they do it because they feel they can't control the external environment and at the same time are controlled by it. From a psychodynamic point of view, this may be due to their growth pattern: in the process of their upbringing. When they are still weak, they cannot resist in the face of the threat of the strong, and even more so cannot resist.
Second, the manifestation of male hypocrisy
1.Failure to fulfill commitments.
A man's commitment fills a woman with a sense of security. Especially in these times of emotional instability, commitment has become even more important. Therefore, in order to win the favor of beauties, men have made all kinds of promises, and going up the knife mountain and going down the sea of fire will also give you happiness. But he promised you to go out with you on the weekend, but he forgot. He promised you to be with you when you felt wronged, but when he received your **, he said that he was troubled by work. He can't do the usual little things. Do you still expect him to make good on his promise to you Xinfu? He did not fulfill his promises, which shows that he is a hypocritical person.
2.The phone never lets you touch it.
Mobile phones can be said to be an indispensable information communication tool for modern people. Many of our communications and information transfers are done via mobile phones. Of course, there will be a record of the exchange of information, no matter who you message with, there will be a record. Many people set an unlock password to protect their privacy. However, if a man's phone never lets you touch it, it means that there is something in his phone that he doesn't want you to know or see. Is there anything between lovers that can't be known to each other? The answer is clear. He is a hypocrite who says he loves you, but he doesn't want to give you everything he has.
3.His friends don't know you exist.
A man who loves you will be happy to be your boyfriend and have you. He wants everyone to know that you are his girlfriend and often mentions you in front of his friends. Suppose you fall in love with a guy and his friends never know you exist, they go to the bar together to pick up girls and discuss which girl is beautiful and has a good body. Accosting other women as having no girlfriend. Do you think he loves you? He has never seen you in front of others, obviously to give other women a chance, he is a hypocrite.
4.Always say in front of you how much he has done for you.
A man who loves you will not be willing to give for you, but from the heart. Don't worry about whether you will be rewarded or not, it feels like a great blessing to be by your side. This kind of man, most of whom hide their dedication to women in their hearts and will not show it, this kind of love is a deep love. And often say everything you have paid in front of you, and even some trivial things, such as helping you get things on the supermarket shelf, just say that you can't do without him. I'm afraid that you don't know how much he has paid for you, and that he's a hypocrite.