Newbie Mentoring Program
In life, we are often faced with a variety of choices. From food, clothing, housing and transportation to life planning, we all want to make the "best" choice. However, many times things backfire and we may not be able to make the "optimal" choice.
Why do we tend to make the "best" choice?The reason for this is our excessive pursuit of the "best". We live in a competitive and comparative society, taught from an early age to strive for excellence and perfection. Whether in school or at work, we are faced with various evaluations and rankings, which makes us accustomed to "best" as a measure of success and value. However, this "optimal" mentality also causes us a lot of stress and anxiety. Because we know that "optimal" is often relative and difficult to achieve. We are always worried that our choices are not good enough, not perfect enough, and thus miss out on better opportunities and possibilities.
However, in many cases, we may not have made the "optimal" choice, and this is not necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes, the "best" choice is not necessarily the best choice for us. Because everyone's situation and needs are different, we need to make a choice based on our actual situation. If we blindly strive for the "best", we may ignore our real needs and feelings, and make choices that are not suitable for us. And sometimes the choices we make may not be optimal, but they may be the best. Because life is full of uncertainties and uncertainties, we can't say what will happen in the future. Sometimes, we need to make a choice based on the situation and our own experience, and although the choice may not be optimal, it is the best choice we can make.
So, how do you find a balance between the pursuit of "optimal" choices and the acceptance of imperfections?First, we need to recognize that the "optimal" option is relative and difficult to achieve. We need to accept our imperfections and mistakes, and not blame ourselves too much. Secondly, we need to make choices according to our actual situation and needs, and do not blindly pursue the "best". We need to pay attention to our inner feelings and needs and make choices that are right for us. Finally, we need to learn to accept uncertainty and variables, and not to worry too much about the future. We need to believe in our own abilities and experience, make the best choice, and live with the consequences of our choice.
In short, the "optimal" choice is not the whole of life. We need to learn to accept our imperfections and mistakes, pay attention to our inner feelings and needs, make choices that suit us, and bear the consequences of our choices. Only in this way can we find true happiness and fulfillment in life.