I read "Second-hand Masterpiece" today, which is more in line with my theme today, and continues the recognition of yesterday's article, why is it so important for people to be recognized by others now, even the ability to be comparable to money?
First of all, I don't know how everyone feels about the father in the movie?
A person who has worked hard for his dream for many years, but has not been recognized by others.
In the end, in order to fulfill his dream, he would rather pay for his own book to publish a book, but what happened in the end?
As I wrote before, money has the ability to weaken and resolve one of the biggest negative emotions in today's society, and to solve the ability to weaken the negative emotions in survival, and the negative emotions brought about by survival are one of the biggest negative emotions.
So what kind of person would rather increase their negative emotions about survival again than fulfill their dreams?
is the protagonist in the movie, the role of the father, he no longer wants to fulfill his dream, but wants to be recognized by others.
Let me explain, many people have dreams since they were young, and they want to do things, get ahead, and become famous.
Especially when I just left the society or was in school, I was full of ability, dreams, and vitality.
But after entering and leaving society, under the blow of reality, people realize that everything seems wrong with them, they can't achieve fame, they can't fulfill their dreams, and even live a life, and life has hollowed out everything they have, and finally compromised.
What problems does this cause?
It's a curse, a kind of long-term psychological torture, which is mostly a long-term and huge negative emotion generated by oneself because of one's inability to fulfill one's dreams, to achieve fame, and to gain more realistic factors.
The definition of emotional truth is:
Everyone is doing one thing, looking for any way to weaken and resolve their long-term, medium-term and short-term negative emotions caused by reality factors, in order to survive peacefully.
Then people will look for ways to reduce or resolve the suffering, sadness, and pain that come with the negative emotions mentioned above.
But it is generally impossible to weaken or solve, because the realization of dreams and fame do not belong to ordinary people.
Since there is no way to weaken or solve it, there is no other way to do it.
Here the power of recognition, praise, is highlighted.
People expect to be recognized and encouraged by others, preferably by their loved ones, and from their families, but unfortunately their families will not give you encouragement and recognition, because family members, like you, are also affected by negative emotions caused by certain practical factors.
And venting, scolding, and hitting others is also one of the ways to weaken one's own negative emotions.
And the family will only do this to you, because for outsiders it may be hurt.
So why is happiness based on the suffering of others?
Here's why.
Then if you can't get the praise, recognition, and encouragement of your family and loved ones, you can only look for outsiders.
Of course, outsiders say good things, how can they offend you?
This is also the fundamental reason why many people can't make much money, but they still cheat and look for a junior.
The second is why many people would rather go in and out to drink than go home.
It is also the reason why I would rather spend money on strangers**, just to chat, pretending to be the so-called "rich people" and "successful people".
This self-deception is just a way to persevere in the face of great life pressures.