When it comes to Tu Lei, it reminds us of the emotional mentor who was frank and outspoken in "Love Defense".
Tu Lei has a unique view of love, and although he is articulate, he never blames others with moral standards, and is always able to give reliable advice in practical situations.
In the show, he provided "guidance and guidance" for those who are caught in the emotional path.
His unwavering personality, sharp performance style, and calm hosting ability established his perfect image and quickly became popular.
Tu Lei once had a bright future, but after many years, he self-destructed his future and was accused of "one set in front of people and one set behind him".
In 2019, Tu Lei took a plane to perform on a business trip, and was ** and posted ** on the Internet during the flight, causing widespread attention and controversy.
In the first row of business class, Tu Lei sat there. Perhaps because of the hard work, he lowered his chair and lay down to rest. He stretched his legs straight, kicked his feet against the wall of the plane, and fell asleep.
Because Tu Lei presented an overly perfect image in the show, many netizens did not trust him.
Once this *** netizens have transformed into "keyboard warriors", they have launched verbal criticism under Tu Lei's social account.
Netizens accused Tu Lei of being fake and high in the show and of low quality, and they brushed out words such as "before and after" and "sanctimonious".
Tu Lei was not indifferent, and immediately responded the next day after learning the news.
The article mentioned that Tu Lei said that he suffered from varicose veins, and the doctor advised him to elevate his legs to promote blood return.
Varicose veins can cause the blood vessels in the legs to twist into an earthworm-like shape, accompanied by soreness, pins and needles, itching, numbness, burning discomfort, and in severe cases, gangrene and ulcers.
Elevating your legs can be effective in relieving the symptoms of varicose veins.
After explaining the reason, Tu Lei also expressed the incident and his own views in a clear manner, and apologized for the incident.
As a public figure, this kind of ** behavior does have a negative impact, so he thinks it is necessary to apologize to everyone.
However, netizens did not agree with this, which led to more and more controversy on the Internet. At the same time, a CCTV host also published a long article, accusing Tu Lei of his actions.
The writing is sharp, pointing out that Tu Lei's apology is not sincere, but making excuses for his own defense.
This incident also had a serious impact on the reputation of "Love Defense", and Tu Lei was even reprimanded by netizens.
When 2022 came, Tu Lei's income plummeted due to the decline in ratings year after year, which made him have to quit "Love Defense", which made him famous, and chose to return to his family.
The plane leg extension incident came to an end, and Tu Lei gradually disappeared from public view.
Why is his personality the way it is, and what has it been to create his current personality?
Tu Lei was born in 1977, the year when an ordinary family welcomed their first child.
Tu Lei's mother suffered from severe rheumatism, so she was bedridden for many years and could not go out to work at all.
His father was burdened with the burden of supporting the family, and the long hours of hard work caused him to be short-tempered, so his parents often quarreled.
Due to the family's poverty and discordant family environment, Tu Lei has been deeply troubled by low self-esteem since he was a child.
This child is withdrawn and taciturn, but he is very good at taking care of his mother.
Because his mother was unwell and could not do housework, the young Tu Lei took the initiative to take on housework, and his Xi performance was also very good.
His father has always seen it, and Tu Lei's hard work has not escaped his eyes.
However, years of hard work and meager income made his father feel that he had lost hope in life, but the sensible Tu Lei became the hope in his father's heart.
One day, when Tu Lei came home from school, he found his parents arguing fiercely at home.
He mustered up his courage and stepped forward to persuade the two of them, but his parents stopped arguing.
As a result, Tu Lei discovered that he had a unique talent for dealing with interpersonal relationships.
Tu Lei knew that only by studying Xi could he change his fate, so he studied hard and successfully Xi the top local high school.
Tu Lei has a strong heart, and the college entrance examination can't defeat him, but when filling in the volunteer, he encountered difficulties.
Usually, Tu Lei doesn't have any special hobbies, and he lacks enough insight to help him make a professional choice.
Following the advice of his parents, Tu Lei finally applied for the Southern Institute of Metallurgy (now Jiangxi University of Science and Technology), because his parents heard from relatives that computer science majors were very popular.
After graduating from university, Tu Lei successfully joined the bank, a position that was envied at the time and was very proud of his parents.
However, Tu Lei had lofty ambitions and was unwilling to be confined to the counter for the rest of his life, so he resolutely gave up this job.
Of course, his parents did not approve of him resigning from his stable job, but his parents' incomprehension did not shake Tu Lei's determination.
Tu Lei believed that he had an extraordinary talent for communication, and as a result, he successfully joined a sales company, showing great eloquence and communication skills.
With his own efforts and outstanding performance, Tu Lei won the appreciation of the leadership, and was soon promoted to general manager, with an annual salary of up to 500,000 yuan, just like gold will eventually shine.
Tu Lei now has a lot of friends around him, and after he made money, he became a little conceited and began to look forward to his life as a boss.
After Tu Lei saved a sum of money, he founded a company with his team.
At that time, it was a wave of entrepreneurship, and many of the now well-known and wealthy people also laid the foundation in that era.
However, we only see success stories, but we don't know the sheer number of entrepreneurs.
Even if there is one person who succeeds in a thousand people, it is not easy, most of them end up in failure and end up losing all their money, Tu Lei is one of them.
His friends all left him, but Tu Lei was not disheartened, so he came to Changsha to find a new starting point for opportunities.
During the job search process, Tu Lei noticed the job advertisement posted by the TV station, and he was confident that he had a unique ability in communication, so he submitted his resume with the mentality of giving it a try.
Tu Lei stood out with his excellent language talent, and although he was not a broadcasting professional, he successfully beat his competitors and was selected by the TV station to become the host of the radio program "Lushan Night Talk".
Tu Lei was not complacent because he defeated a group of opponents.
During his tenure as a moderator, he constantly worked hard to self-educate to make up for his mismatched professional background and lack of experience.
Because "Lushan Night Talk" is a midnight emotional program, the listening rate has not been high, and the host's income is linked to the listening rate of the program. The former host chose to leave because of income issues.
Tu Lei did not have any hosting experience before starting his hosting work, but he listened carefully to the previous recordings of the show before joining the company, and started his own work by imitating the style of the previous host.
Foothill Night Talk is a column that focuses on emotional issues, aiming to listen to the voices of those who are deeply emotionally confused at midnight and provide them with answers and guidance.
Tu Lei did not encounter any difficulties as a host for the first time, and he talked and laughed confidently like a veteran on stage for the first time.
After a period of work and self-study, Tu Lei has successfully grown into an excellent host with a steady hosting style.
However, simple imitation cannot improve the listening rate of the show, and Tu Lei gradually found that he did not like the current hosting style.
Tu Lei has mastered the business, and he decided to change his hosting style to show a unique personal style.
In the show, Tu Lei changed the way he used to feed "Chicken Soup for the Soul", but instead hosted the show with fierce rhetoric and sharp comments.
"Lushan Night Talk" was a great success with a new style, and the number of listeners skyrocketed, which also brought Tu Lei's income increase. The top management of the TV station saw his talent and began to invest more resources in Tu Lei, intending to focus on cultivating him.
Tu Lei has become a role model for the radio host industry, and his program "Lushan Night Talk" has become the most popular local midnight program, all in 2006.
Tu Lei has done his studio work to the extreme, and his ambition has gradually swelled, and he is no longer satisfied with hosting a show in the studio, but wants to come out and become a TV presenter.
Tu Lei made his request to the director, and at this time, the host of the legal program "Fangyuan Investigation" had not yet been determined, and the director appreciated Tu Lei very much and immediately decided to let him host the TV program.
Tu Lei is no exception, the first time he stepped on the stage, it was impossible not to be nervous, but he did not make a mistake because of nervousness.
Tu Lei's style is very suitable for the legal column, his sharp words and upright image have gradually increased the ratings of the show, and the public has gradually become familiar with him.
After completing the work of "Fangyuan Investigation", Tu Lei was not satisfied with the status quo, but turned to host "No Spit and No Happiness", and the experience of hosting various types of programs accumulated over the years laid the foundation for Tu Lei's future success.
Tu Lei, a person with a successful career, finally ushered in his love.
As a well-known TV presenter, he is naturally loved by many fans, and it is in the interaction with fans that he meets a girl who is 9 years younger than him.
The two quickly held hands and fell in love, and Tu Lei even gave her the nickname "Little Maruko", which happened after a period of contact.
After Xiao Maruko and Tu Lei became husband and wife, they ushered in the birth of a daughter.
Parents are eager to provide the best conditions for their children. Because of having a child, Tu Lei has worked harder at work, he has participated in various programs for many years, although his performance is good, but because of the hosting style, it is easy to offend people, and gradually various negative voices have appeared.
As long as you can boost your ratings, you'll be considered a great presenter on a TV station where ratings are critical. Although Tu Lei is controversial, the ratings of the programs he hosts have increased significantly.
Tu Lei has become a talent that various TV stations are competing for, and his income is also rising.
Maybe he's got a little carried away, and he's intensified on the show, speaking out about things he doesn't like, and often using sneering.
Tu Lei's number of fans gradually increased, because he stood on the moral high ground and blamed others in the show.
However, his arrogant attitude has caused many passers-by to have a negative impression of him.
Despite this, Tu Lei's popularity still inevitably rises.
In 2014, Tu Lei joined "Love Defense", a high-quality TV show type that complements Tu Lei's hosting style.
As soon as the show was broadcast, it became popular all over the country, and Tu Lei also entered the field of vision of the national audience and became a well-known TV host who attracted much attention.
After Tu Lei experienced the plane leg kicking incident, he decided to leave "Love Defense" and return to his family.
As the saying goes"It is easy to go from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to go from luxury to thrift", Tu Lei's family has no stable income**, and gradually can't make ends meet.
At the time of the fire of live broadcasting, Tu Lei also joined the ranks.
Tu Lei's first attempt at live streaming did not continue his good luck, because his first live broadcast was arranged to bring durian.
However, at the live broadcast site, Tu Lei pinched his nose and spoke the whole time after smelling the smell of durian, which led to a ridicule in the live broadcast room.
Everyone is discussing, why do you want to endorse what you don't like, this will be the first and last time, and no one dares to ask Tu Lei to bring goods after the live broadcast.
Tu Lei's reputation was completely damaged, and once he mentioned it on the Internet, he was bound to be humiliated with cynicism, causing him to suddenly disappear from public view.
His character is both his strengths and weaknesses, and the good side for him is also bad for him.
He stands out for his sharp eloquence and determined character, but his lack of flexibility and outspokenness has led to a lack of affection from the public.
ruined his own future, in fact, Tu Lei reaped the consequences.
He is now disappearing from people's eyes, and it may be his best home, to return to his family.