A questionnaire triggered thousands of complaints and exchanges, and I was amused by the frank attitude of the parents!
Today, the homeroom teacher suddenly asked everyone to fill out a questionnaire about homework. The general content is how long it takes for a child to complete their homework after classWhich one takes the most time?...... such as what time the child goes to bed
Under the double reduction policy, parents are shaking their hands and hearts when filling out this questionnaire, and they are unable to submit this questionnaire for a long time, and they can only start discussing it in the parent group in the dilemma.
A few parents deviated from the topic of discussion, and did not shy away from talking about some interesting things between their children at home and sharing interesting educational experiences, and one father said bluntly: "I am a daughter slave!".I never chased her mother so quietly. All of a sudden, the serious atmosphere of the parent group was enlivened. The parent said that the child's grades in this key class have not been good, but the child loves anime, and the animation is very good, he thinks it's very good, and he can't sleep until twelve o'clock every day, and she can't help her daughter write her homework ......
I didn't speak in the group, but I really felt the same way, and in order to let the child talk for five more minutes, I even put the washing water on him, squeezed the toothpaste, tied the shoelaces, and ......I know it's wrong, but I really feel sorry for him that he can't wake up every day, and I just want him to sleep for one more second.
After two hours of lively atmosphere, the topic returned to the questionnaire, and the parents fell silent again.
Fill in truthfully, it takes an average of four hours for children to complete their homework with high quality, and of course, the top students estimate three hoursnowIt can be done, but the quality of the homework completed in four hours by a child who is a little struggling Xi school is not high. Do parents dare to fill in this time?Isn't this going to smash the teacher's job?
When I asked my child how to fill out this questionnaire, he said soberly, "No one wants to write homework, but how can they not write it?"How to get into high school?Entrance to university?How will you live in the future?It is not our turn to play screws, and in the future, it will be intelligent, and the factory will ask for a few screwsHow do we survive?”
Look at the parents again, they threw this pot to their children just like me and let them choose for themselves.
This generation of children is really not simple, the maturity level is far beyond their actual age, and the people are sophisticated, social, and life pressures ......They see it thoroughly. On the one hand, they complained about the heavy pressure of learning Xi, and on the other hand, they complained about the teacher's various wrongs, while on the other hand, they took notes carefully during class, discussed topics around the teacher after class, and praised the teacher's erudition.
And the parents are living in fear, it seems that the parents are not as mature as the children!It's not as good as a child living transparently!