If you want to develop a child's character, you must be wary of the following four types of education.
First, the stern ** type;Parents are too strict**, and the children who are taught usually form two personalities, one is timid and cowardly, overly obedient and dependent, and has no assertiveness and is submissive. The other is very stubborn, deviant, easy to go into the wrong place, in guiding children, with respectful criticism and education to replace reprimand, with a harmonious and democratic family environment instead of control, with discussion to replace the want to preach.
2. Spoiling and over-upbringing;There is an old Chinese saying, habitual children are like killing children, and the same applies today, children who grow up in such an education method are very easy to develop selfishness, arrogance, dependence on laziness, all self-centered character, no sympathy, lack of sense of responsibility, lack of patience and hardship spirit, and are bound to be frustrated in interpersonal communication and social adaptation.
3. Frequent complaints, emotional loss of pressure;Children who grow up in such an environment are easy to form pessimistic, negative, inferior, sensitive, fragile and timid personalities, so parents should try their best to create a warm and pleasant growth environment for their children and know how to regulate their emotions. Complain less, give your child more positive energy, and don't let your child carry the pressure he shouldn't be under too early.
Fourth, violent communication;Emotional neglect, denial and blows, sarcasm and ridicule, and comparing children with others are all violent communication, and children who have been hurt by their parents with words for a long time are full of insecure factors in their hearts, and their personalities are sensitive and suspicious, and they are prone to low self-esteem, gains and losses.
As parents, we should understand our children more, accompany our children with our hearts, and communicate with our children, parents should be more patient, maintain emotional stability, less indifferent verbal violence, and more gentle encouragement, so that children can establish a good character in a good family atmosphere.