There are many words that you can't hear the truth, but hear the surface, it's not that you can't hear the truth, but the truth has long been buried.
What is the essence of people walking tea cool, have you thought about this question.
It's not that people take tea and cool, but that your value is not as high as others, for example, after the leader leaves, no one cares, what do you think is the reason?
The core of interpersonal communication is the use value, some people say that it is too realistic, not realistic, but you are unrealistic.
Why do you make friends, and in the end you will break up because of some things, not the things themselves, but the changes in people, the most fundamental thing is that you have no use value for your friends, or you feel that your friends have no use value for you.
Friends are troublesome, and usually asking friends to do a small favor will not only make friends feel valuable, but also increase feelings.
It is difficult for someone to take the tea and cool the situation if there is always value, and the output of learning must be established after the ideological fight, and the value can be maintained at a level by learning to output something valuable to others.
Life is like a cup of tea, whether it is bitter first and then sweet, or sweet and then bitter, only you know.