There is a saying that when God closes a door for you, He opens a window for you.
However, Luo Gang is a special case.
It has been 24 years since he debuted and he has played important roles in many hit dramas, but he is still tepid, and even the audience can't even call his name.
At the age of nearly fifty, he was nourished by love and married a wife twenty years younger than him, but he found that she had a family genetic disease and was difficult to have children.
Luo Gang's life can be said to be full of setbacks and hardships.
What has he been through in his acting career, and what is his and his wife's life like at the moment?
Luo Gang has been in the entertainment industry for 20 years, and that was in 2009.
The road of career is full of ups and downs, and the journey of affection is also full of traps.
It wasn't until the age of 30 that he began to experience his first relationship, but all three relationships ended in failure.
Luo Gang has serious doubts about whether he is suitable for falling in love or even entering into marriage.
Just as he was suffering, a young woman broke into his world.
He received an invitation from a friend and traveled to Beijing for a party.
Here he meets a partner who will accompany him for the rest of his life.
23-year-old Xiao Luo Gang, Hao Lei is an outsider, but she is a loyal fan of Luo Gang.
Luo Gang's handsome appearance and resolute temperament deeply attracted Hao Lei.
They had a pleasant conversation at the party and left each other ***
Inadvertently in the hearts of the two, the seeds of love quietly took root and sprouted.
Two people who are attracted to each other interact with each other on a daily basis and soon develop a romantic relationship.
Hao Lei seems to have unspeakable questions, although it should be a joy to be sure of a relationship.
Hao Lei finally decided to confess the truth to Luo Gang, and after repeated thinking.
Hao Lei's family has a serious hereditary pregnancy disorder.
Her aunt repeatedly became pregnant and had abortions because she couldn't stand the disease.
Although the cousin successfully gave birth to a son, the child was born with a disability.
Although this disease is not 100% determined by genetic factors, the risks involved in pregnancy are indeed considerable.
Hao Lei said: "If you choose to leave me in the future because of this incident, I will not blame you." ”
Luo Gang was already deeply in love with Hao Lei at that time and couldn't extricate himself. Although it is important to pass on the lineage, in front of Hao Lei, the child is not worth mentioning at all.
Luo Gang gently comforted Hao Lei and hugged her.
I will always be there for you to support you through this difficult time, I will love you whether you want children or not, and I will respect your choice.
Luo Gang's firm attitude deeply moved Hao Lei, and the two quickly rushed to the marriage registration office to go through the marriage registration procedures.
Although the wedding was not extravagant, two hearts that loved each other were more closely together.
After they got married, their lives were as sweet as sugar and they were happy.
However, the good times don't last long.
Luo Gang's mother was diagnosed with cancer and was in critical condition, and she died not long after.
The mother longs for the joy of family reunion and wants to be able to share the joy of family with her children and grandchildren.
After learning that his life was short, Luo Gang worked harder to have children.
At the beginning, Luo Gang didn't want to reveal the reason why Hao Lei's child was not suitable.
He claimed that he only wanted to live a dual-income childless life and was not interested in children.
Mothers, know their children better than anyone else.
Mothers always have insight into their children's inner monologues.
After several rounds of conversations, Luo Gang finally confessed the truth to his mother.
originally thought that her mother would wear colored glasses on Hao Lei, but she didn't expect her mother to burst into tears.
Since then, the grandson has never heard his mother mention the child again, and she thinks that her daughter-in-law's health is not important.
Hao Lei's heart was deeply hurt by the loneliness in her mother's eyes.
Hao Lei proposed to Luo Gang: "Mother is already very old, and now she is sick again, she has not enjoyed the fun of reuniting with her grandchildren, we should have a child." ”
Luo Gang resolutely objected to Hao Lei's jokes about his body at first.
Hao Lei firmly insisted on her ideas, forcing Luo Gang to surrender.
Soon after, Hao Lei successfully conceived a child.
Luo Gang was particularly concerned about Hao Lei's health during pregnancy, he took care of her very carefully, and Hao Lei's condition has always remained very stable.
However, Luo Gang's emotional journey is destined to be an extremely tortuous experience.
The real test for the two of them will be in what happens next.
Hao Lei's condition was stable during pregnancy, and Luo Gang began to relax his vigilance and went to the crew to participate in the filming.
During film and television shooting, Luo Gang accidentally fell from a horse, resulting in serious injuries to his abdomen and back.
Due to the tight schedule, Luo Gang was in a hurry to go home to accompany his pregnant wife.
After the injury, he did not immediately choose to accept **, but chose to continue filming the drama with the injury.
After Luo Gang returned to Beijing, his injuries gradually deteriorated.
I had no choice but to invite the old Chinese medicine doctor to go to his home to give him **.
Luo Gang received a massage from an old Chinese medicine practitioner** and used ointments containing irritating substances such as musk to relieve his symptoms.
Suddenly, this ointment actually caused Hao Lei to have symptoms of threatened miscarriage.
Hao Lei was bleeding continuously and needed to be rushed to the hospital for treatment**.
After Luo Gang learned the reason, he fell into deep self-blame.
He removed the ointment from his body and rinsed it several times.
He didn't feel at ease until he confirmed that there wasn't a hint of musk in his home.
However, this was only the first challenge of Hao Lei's pregnancy.
It seems that fate does not intend to let them go as a result of this deeply loved couple.
A genetic disorder in Hao Lei's wife's family has reappeared.
Widespread nausea and vomiting during pregnancy were present, accompanied by significant early pregnancy symptoms.
She felt nauseous and vomited, couldn't swallow any food, not even the smell of cooking.
In extremely severe cases, it can even lead to loss of taste.
With the comfort and companionship of Luo Gang's husband, Hao Lei barely ate some.
However, all these efforts were in vain.
Hao Lei vomits after entering the food, accompanied by a severe headache.
In order not to affect the child's growth, Hao Lei chose not to take drugs, but to shoulder this responsibility on her own shoulders.
Luo Gang was distressed to see his wife so uncomfortable.
He told his wife that if she couldn't bear it, she could consider giving up the child.
Hao Lei was resolutely reluctant to have an abortion, and she was determined to have a son and a daughter with Luo Gang.
Hao Lei was deeply moved by Luo Gang.
He decided to give up his work as a crew, stay by Hao Lei's side, take care of her patiently, and tide over the difficulties with her.
Luo Gang went to the hospital several times to seek professional advice, hoping to do his best to alleviate the pain his wife suffered during pregnancy.
Luo Gang was told by the doctor that if his wife wants to overcome the impact of pregnancy resistance on pregnancy, the first thing is to avoid negative autosuggestion.
Luo Gang avoided mentioning sensitive topics such as the uncomfortable symptoms of pregnancy and the pregnancy process.
Luo Gang insisted on boiling Chinese medicine for his wife every day, and at the same time asked friends to ask for medicine everywhere.
With the joint efforts of Luo Gang and Hao Lei, the condition was finally relieved. -> Through the joint efforts of Luo Gang and Hao Lei, the condition was finally relieved.
The child is born very healthy and well-developed.
After Hao Lei gave birth to her son, Luo Gang's married life was smooth sailing.
However, his career has remained bumpy, full of twists and turns.
Luo Gang was born in an ordinary family in Changsha, Hunan.
Since he was a child, Luo Gang has had a soft spot for acting, and he dreams of becoming an actor when he grows up and interpreting a colorful life on the screen.
Luo Gang has always been strict with himself, the purpose is to realize his acting dream as soon as possible.
After graduating from high school, Luo Gang applied for the prestigious school he had longed for for a long time - Beijing Film Academy.
With his innate acting talent and outstanding appearance, Luo Gang was admitted to the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy as he wished and became a Nortel student.
After Luo Gang entered the Beijing Film Academy, he studied very hard.
With a love for acting, Luo Gang has always believed that he will eventually realize his childhood dream.
Step onto the giant screen.
It is a fact that only those who are prepared can seize opportunities.
In his sophomore year, Luo Gang was discovered by a director and participated in his first TV work "Unforgettable Middle School Years".
In this TV series, Luo Gang plays the role of the male protagonist Zhou Yi.
Although the series did not ultimately achieve remarkable results, it marked an important milestone in Luo Gang's path to chasing his dreams.
During his college years, Luo Gang participated in many TV productions, and these experiences greatly honed his acting skills.
* Will shine eventually.
Screenwriter Wang Shuo saw Luo Gang's performance in these dramas.
The adaptation of the film of the same name, "Half Fire, Half Sea", is about to start filming.
When Wang Shuo faced this rare acting school, he immediately decided that Luo Gang would play the role of Zhang Ming.
The male lead, Zhang Ming, is a gangster in this movie, who is punished after committing a crime and gradually realizes his mistakes and begins to mend his ways.
An actor's sense of conviction is tested by great contrasts when playing a character, and Luo Gang has successfully mastered this challenge.
Luo Gang finally won recognition for his role as Zhang Ming and was appreciated by many celebrities.
Occasionally, the same situation occurs.
Aunt Qiong Yao's performance of Luo Gang in the film has attracted successful attention.
Subsequently, Qiong Yao threw an olive branch to Luo Gang.
Plum Blossom Three Alleys of Water and Clouds".
Luo Gang played the second male role Wang Zimo.
Now, netizens have labeled Qiong Yao's drama as bloody and thunderous.
However, at that time, Qiong Yao dramas were indeed all the rage.
Su Youpeng, Zhong Hanliang, Lin Xinru and other actors have become famous in one fell swoop for their roles in Qiong Yao's dramas.
Luo Gang's ability to get Qiong Yao's favor is undoubtedly a rare development opportunity.
Luo Gang won the role of the second male for the first time in Qiong Yao's drama, which shows Qiong Yao's appreciation for him.
As soon as the "Three Alleys of Plum Blossoms" was launched, it immediately became popular in the north and south of the country.
Luo Gang's performance in the play is also amazing, and it does not disappoint at all.
However, unfortunately, Luogang still failed to keep up with the booming fast train.
Luo Gang went on to star in TV series such as "Red Cross Square", "Beijing Love Story", "Big Dyeing Workshop" and "Wheat Enters the City".
Compared to other male actors of Luo Gang's contemporaries, they may have become famous by playing the male lead in a drama.
Luo Gang played the leading role in many popular dramas, but he never succeeded, which can be said to be bad luck.
But Luo Gang doesn't seem to care about his popularity.
Faithful to his original goals, he devoted himself to acting passionately, interpreting each role wholeheartedly.
As a rare powerful actor in the entertainment industry, Luo Gang has been working hard in the entertainment industry with his superb acting skills and enthusiasm for acting, and has shown his talent in many classic roles.
Although Luo Gang has not ushered in his explosive period, he has always been active on the screen.
Isn't it a recognition of his acting skills by the directors?
Luo Gang is diligent in his work and constantly strives to forge ahead.
Luo Gang is known for his love and righteousness in his daily life, and he has always been an honest and trustworthy person who cares for his family.
I hope that in the future, I can see more actors like Luo Gang in the entertainment industry with superb acting skills and love and righteousness, and they have truly achieved the exemplary role of public figures.