It's not good, we can't blame ourselves for not being useful. Each of us is at the mercy of an invisible hand, and this hand is called destiny....Destiny is the framework of our life, although we cannot change our life framework, but we can fill it with different colors...
That invisible hand holds us firmly....It picks the details of the hemp rope and makes the bitter people suffer for most of their lives....It's the icing on the cake and makes the rich richer....
That invisible hand, seemingly unfair, is very fair. He makes a man rich at the same time, but at the same time he fills his body with pain, or makes his children a loser, or makes him lonely in his old age...While he made a man poor, miserable, or sick, he gave him a pair of intelligent, filial, and capable children to enjoy his old age in peace...
This is the big framework of life, and we may never change it...What is in the framework is what we play with ourselves....
For example, wealthy people should pay more attention to physical and mental health. Don't eat big fish and meat, no alcohol and smoke, and grow fat. In the end, I got a rich disease...Psychologically, you should keep your original intention, don't lose your nature if you have money....
For example, a person who lives a miserable life, although he has a hard life, may be unhealthy, may be poor...But the mindset in the face of suffering is extremely important. We can't feel sorry for ourselves, we have to choose to accept, face, and change. Sometimes suffering is also a different kind of wealth, it is suffering, and we must rejoice in suffering....
A good attitude is the most precious thing in life, it passively waits for a choice, whether rich or poor, young and old...Whoever chooses a good attitude, who is the master in this life....